40 Good And Cute Questions To Ask A Guy You Like
When getting to know the guy you are interested it, it’s important to have strong, cute and interesting questions to ask him to help the bond between the two of you develop. Asking all the right questions will help you get to know your crush and even help you decide if he is really someone you want to take the next step with. Here are 40 good and cute questions that you can ask the guy you like:
Question #1.) What makes you smile?
Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: Asking this to a guy you like let’s him know that you are curious as to what makes him happy. The answer will let you know how to make him smile in the future and helps you get to know him much better.
Question #2.) What’s your favorite movie?
Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: The answer to this question will help you both to discover if you have common interests when it comes to movies and the more you have in common the better!
Question #3.) If there is any place in the world that you could go, where would it be and why?
Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: This is another one of those ‘getting to know him’ type of questions. Maybe you both dream about the same places, who knows?
Question #4.) What is your favorite sport to watch/play?
Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: A lot of guys absolutely love talking about sports and this will get conversation flowing. Hopefully, you can retain some of that knowledge and maybe even get yourself invited over to watch the game! Asking this question also lets your crush know you are interested in his likes and dislikes and want to get to know him better.
Question #5.) If we were dating, how would you celebrate our first one year anniversary?
Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: Asking this benefits you in a way that the answer will tell you if he would do something you like. Answers to questions like these can help you figure out what type of romantic he is and if he cares enough to tell you!
Question #6.) What’s your family like?
Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: He’ll love the fact that you are taking the initiative to get to know the people he loves.
Question #7.) What about yourself do you find the most pride in?
Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: Whether the answer is about his looks, talents or personality, you are engaging him in conversation that implies you want to get to know him and what he takes pride in. Pride is a huge trait in most any guy and definitely something to be aware of.
Question #8.) Have you ever cried at a movie?
Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: Honestly, the answer to this question is usually a no, but if he does answer yes then maybe he has a really cute sensitive spot!
Question #9.) What’s your favorite car?
Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: This is another subject that most guys enjoy discussing. If he’s a car lover, he will adore you for asking and he will enjoy telling you all about what he likes.
Question #10.) What is your favorite food?
Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: The more and more you get to know him, the better a relationship will grow!
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Question #11.) What do you notice first when you first meet a girl?
Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: This answer will also give you good insight to what kind of guy your crush is.
Question #12.) What is the craziest thing that you have ever done in your life?
Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: Not only will this give you a glimpse of his past, but it will also let you know how far this guys boundaries are and if you can keep up with them or if you want more excitement than what he is willing to do.
Question #13.) What is your favorite romantic activity?
Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: A guy has a different view on what is romantic than a girl does. So, be careful about how you take your crushes answer. If he answers, “We would play video games all day and drink Mountain Dew” and that’s not your favorite idea of romance, maybe he’s not a right fit for you. On the other hand, if he at least puts a little bit of effort in and says, “We could have a picnic at the park” or “I would take you shopping” then maybe he is a keeper after all!
Question #14.) What was the scariest moment in your life?
Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: It’s nice to get to know a guy, what he’s afraid of and why.
Question #15.) Who was your first crush?
Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: This question is just a small ice-breakers and may have him blushing or you laughing, but it is a cute question to ask.
Question #16.) Who is your biggest hero?
Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: Asking this question to the guy you are interested in will help you get to know who he looks up to and who he aspires to be like. It is just another ‘get to know him’ type of question that can really warm you up to each other.
Question #17.) Would you like to hang out with me more often?
Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: This lets your crush know you are interested in him and seeing him more often. It is even cuter if he says yes!
Question #18.) What is your definition of intimate?
Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: Asking this question and receiving its answer will give you an idea of how your crush perceives intimacy and romance. The answer can be quite heartwarming and adorable!
Question #19.) Would you cuddle with me?
Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: Oh! The cuteness! Unless he says no, of course, then it is not so cute… But, if he says yes, it is definitely an adorable question to ask.
Question #20.) What are your favorite hobbies?
Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: Maybe when he answers you will discover that you both have a lot of common interests and can even do some of those hobbies together. This will help you to get to know him much better and discover what he truly loves doing.
Question #21.) What’s your favorite restaurant?
Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: Who knows, maybe you’ll both sharing a passionate love for sushi rolls. Also asking him this may just get you the info you need to set up his idea of the perfect date in the future.
Question #22.) What would you do if you won the lottery?
Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: Get a look inside of your man’s financial priorities by asking him this question. Does he have a greedy heart or a kind one? Will he spend his money wisely or be completely reckless?
Question #23.) Most embarrassing look?
Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: Get a few giggles out of your crush by getting him to open up and reminisce about his most embarrassing looks when he was younger. Maybe he didn’t rock that mullet his mom gave him when he was 5, you’ll never know unless you ask!
Question #24.) What’s your favorite way to spend a rainy day?
Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: Scope out how he would entertain you cooped up inside when there is bad whether. This goes for snowstorms or any bad weather that you may want to curl up inside all day for.
Question #25.) What is your favorite video game?
Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: Just like with sports, most of the time, men get pretty pumped up about video games. Be careful, he may go on and on and on…
Question #26.) Are you superstitious?
Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: Get the creativity flowing as you discuss what gives you the heebie jeebies!
Question #27.) Are you religious?
Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: This is an important question to ask someone you may want to pursuit a relationship with. It’s best if both of you come to a mutual understanding of views to make any sort of relationship work. He may appreciate you diving into this question, so you two can really see if you click on all the right levels.
Question #28.) Favorite time of the year?
Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: You two can bond over whether you love laying on the beach in the summer or drinking hot cocoa in the winter.
Question #29.) Name a few things on your bucket list?
Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: Maybe he will share a few of the same ideas and together you both can dream up how you’ll strike them off of your lists!
Question #30.) What is your favorite band/musician?
Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: Who doesn’t love discussing their favorite music? This question is sure to open up the door to a lot of great conversation between you and your beau.
Question #31.) What makes you nervous?
Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: The best way to get to know someone is finding out what makes them comfortable as well as what makes them uncomfortable. Figuring out a prospective partner’s weaknesses is just as important as finding out what their biggest strengths are.
Question #32.) What was your first kiss like?
Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: Because who doesn’t adore the story of a first kiss?
Question #33.) What do you want to do for a career?
Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: Watch the guy you like as he opens up about his dreams for the future. Get to know him on a more personal level and find out what he strives to be.
Question #34.) Can you dance?
Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: This may seem like a silly question, but if you are a lady who loves to dance, it may be a must that your guy can dance with you. If you’re not a huge dancer, then it’ll be good to know if he will expect you to have moves or not.
Question #35.) What is your biggest pet peeve?
Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: This may decide whether you want to continue to see this guy or not by telling you if you both are turned off by the same things. Maybe you both hate cigarette smoke or neither of you can stand broccoli! It’ll also help you avoid doing things that may really get under his skin and vice versa.
Question #36.) Who is your celebrity crush?
Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: As strange or pointless as this question may seem, the answer will give you an idea of what kind of women he finds attractive.
Question #37.) Do you like to read?
Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: The two of you can get cozy discussing which books you like or dislike.
Question #38.) Favorite job you’ve had or would like to have?
Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: The way he talks about work can help you map out his work ethic and what motivates him.
Question #39.) Are you an introvert or an extrovert?
Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: Ask him this question to see if he matches you in your lifestyle. It may get him to open up about how he likes to spend his time. Hopefully you both love spending time the same way!
Question #40.) What qualities do you want in a girlfriend?
Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: Find out what drives him crazy! It’s a good idea to feel out what he is really searching for in a potential partner. His answer will give you the clues you need to discover if you are the right woman for him!
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Cara
June 30, 2017 at 6:30 am
I met a guy in an online dating app, we’ve been talking for almost 4 months and he told me that he really likes me and I told him that I like him too. He flirted with me like almost everyday there were times he told me that he loves me and I am special. We never meet in person but he really want to see me. I confessed to him that I had feelings for him but he just told me that he doesn’t want to be in a long distance relationship and he said sorry. There was a time a stopped chatting to him and then he sends a message on my other social media account and he was mad and he ask me why I stopped talking to him. I got confused if he’s interested or not. If he’s into me or not. Lastly he never call on the phone or videocall.
web admin
June 30, 2017 at 1:38 pm
He likely wants to be friends with you. He may not feel comfortable establishing a romantic relationship with you at this time. He is likely upset because he didn’t realize that you would stop talking with him. That said, there is no reason for you to change your mind about your actions. Have a great day, Cara!
Alex
June 19, 2017 at 11:25 pm
Hi! So I like my sister’s fiance’s cousin. A couple nights ago, we really hit it off and we had so much fun hanging out together. He was calling me cute and saying he wants to hang out again. But i don’t know if he actually likes me. I feel like he does but I honestly don’t know. We text constantly every single day and all night and I think that’s a good sign.. I’m just very confused.
web admin
June 20, 2017 at 5:52 pm
It is certainly possible that the two of you may develop a strong relationship. Your family member’s should not have a problem with this relationship. After all, isn’t that what a wedding is for? It is great to celebrate love! If you want to move forward with this relationship, then speak directly and honestly with him about your feelings. Have a great day, Alex!
Clara
June 15, 2017 at 9:19 pm
I never a crush on this guy but we aren’t close so I don’t know if he likes me or not I also don’t know how to ask him and I can’t stand acting like I don’t like him every day! what do I do??
web admin
June 16, 2017 at 12:32 pm
If you like him and want to get to know him better, then speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. This will give him a chance to see you in a new light and perhaps share himself with you as well. If he responds positively, then attempt to spend more time with him in person. Have a great day, Clara!
Benny
May 27, 2017 at 2:17 am
There’s this guy I ve a crush on nd really like him we kinda like each other bt I gave him more attention than I expected to nd seems like I’m disturbing him so I’ve decided to stop calling or texting and another thing I dnt knw if he has a gurl or nt dat makes me feel itchy cos I’ve been through heartbreak and I don’t think I’m ready to get my heart broken again I’m confuse because he sed he wants to knw me more bt he stop textin or calling so I do the two later he’s going to say he was kind of busy he’ll call me back and end up nt calling I wanted to know if I’m way over my head
web admin
May 28, 2017 at 10:17 am
Keep talking to him. If you stop calling or texting him, he will think that you don’t like him and have moved on. Obviously, you don’t want to go overboard and text him constantly, but a bit is good. It will take time to get to know him better, although you can ask him if he is single sometime soon so that you don’t put a lot of effort into someone who is taken. The only way to find out what can happen in this relationship is to keep talking to him and see where things go. Good luck, Benny!
SG
May 23, 2017 at 6:36 pm
So I need some advice…
I met a guy about two weeks ago on a live streaming app (btw I’m a guy too ) we really hit it off and he gave me his number to message him.
The thing is that he said he was kinda curious, as in bicurious, and I think we’re doing well so far but I want to know when I should make thw first move.
The things that I think point to him be I interested are, he has shared many personal things with me(in fact I can on here to see how to get to know him better and we have already discussed a lot of these questions lol), he sends a lot of happy face emojis and the occasional heart eyed one, we message daily, he made an effort to for me on a social media player that he hasn’t used for a while, and he wasnt turned off the first time we met on the live stream when I called him cute a few times… I know thats a lot but if anyone has read this far I would appreciate your opinion on whether or not he’s interested.
web admin
May 24, 2017 at 9:39 am
It sounds like he could be interested. You are stuck in an interesting problem though. If he is just testing out his sexuality, then he may need to go at his own pace as he gets more comfortable with the idea. At the same time, he may unsure or shy about making a move. If it were me, I would gradually try to move things slowly toward having a relationship–slow enough to avoid frightening him off, but fast enough that he does not get bored. If he makes a move before then though, go for it! Good luck, SG!
SG
May 25, 2017 at 5:25 pm
Thank you for answering! And sorry for the typos. I forgot to add that he tells me goodnight.
web admin
May 26, 2017 at 9:38 am
No worries! Typos are impossible to avoid completely. 🙂 I hope everything works out for you. Good luck!
Sara
May 11, 2017 at 2:07 am
Hi, there’s my classmate, i got crush on him but we didn’t talk that much. Now since school has ended, of course i miss him. Then on his birthday, i made him a birthday card and sent it to his house. Since then we chat everyday.. It’s started cute and and quite romantic even we’re nothing. He asked me to go on date one day so i agreed. But after the date, we still chat everyday but not like before. His replies become shorter and shorter. Why is that? Did i do something wrong on the date? Or he lost interest in me? What should i do? I still like him tho
web admin
May 11, 2017 at 8:46 am
It seems like you may have commented twice on this one. I have to answer each comment individually, so it may sometimes take me a little while to answer them all. If you do not see your response right away, do not worry because you will. Read through my last response and let me know if you have any questions. Thanks for commenting!
Sara
May 11, 2017 at 1:51 am
Hi, there’s my classmate, i got crush on him but we didn’t talk that much. Now since school has ended, of course i miss him. Then on his birthday, i made him a birthday card and sent it to his house. Since then we chat everyday.. It’s started cute and and quite romantic even we’re nothing. He asked me to go on date one day so i agreed. But after the date, we still chat everyday but not like before. His replies become shorter and shorter. Why is that? Did i do something wrong on the date? Or he lost interest in me? What should i do?
web admin
May 11, 2017 at 8:43 am
He may have just run out of things to say. While it is possible that he realized you weren’t the right match for him, it could just as easily be another reason. I would assume the best for now and keep talking to him. Perhaps you should ask him out on a second date–he may just be quieter because he isn’t sure if you like him back or not.
lulu
May 5, 2017 at 10:00 pm
so I lowkey have a huge crush on this guy but hes also one of my closest guy friends . and everyone is telling me just to flat out tell him . but I don’t wanna lose him if he don’t feel the same . like during spring break he was acting like he wanted to talk & now hes sending hella mixed signals. what do I do?
web admin
May 6, 2017 at 1:41 pm
Start by telling him that you want to remain his friend no matter what his answer is, then tell him how you feel. The best of friends often make for the best of relationships, so you could have a wonderful relationship together if you decide to be more than friends. Plus, if you never tell him, you will never find out what could have been. Best of luck, Lulu!
Me
April 30, 2017 at 1:07 pm
Someone I know likes me and wants to date me but I don’t like him but there’s someone that I want to talk to more how do I do all of this?
Me
April 30, 2017 at 1:09 pm
And he’s a year younger than me so…
web admin
April 30, 2017 at 3:33 pm
Do not concern yourself with a year. Determine what you want and live your life. Have a great day, Me!
web admin
April 30, 2017 at 3:32 pm
Speak directly to the person who you do not want to establish a relationship and explain that you do not want to establish a relationship with him. This will let him know your true feelings and he can move on with his life. Speak with the person who you do want to develop a relationship with and share your thoughts and feelings with him. Honesty is always the best policies. Have a great day, Me!
Trina
April 18, 2017 at 2:43 pm
Hie, so I met Tony in September last year, he was crushing on me and his buddies at work told me about it. I reciprocated and he then changed his mind and said that he was confused and not ready for anything. So why was he leading me on anyway? I got over it but two months later I met his friend Rody at a football club at work, he was very nice and we got to get along well, chat a lot, he has been nice, protective, caring, listening and most of all I felt he understood me well. However, Tony got to know of this and decide to come back apologising and asking me out and all sorts. Rody became distant because Tony was now confiding in him about me. However I denied all his trials, and finally I told Rody that I was I interested I him. He surprisingly replied my text. And asked to meet up in person. But before ending the chat he asked me how would a friend feel if he got to know that th girl he likes is interested in his best friend and what would the best friend do. I just said it would hurt but there are underlying factors over why I don’t want him. More confusion on me. How would you advise? Is this date to tell me off, or is it to move things forward with Rody?! Wouldn’t he just have said that I’m not interested coz of Tony instead of setting up a date? Funny thing he’s still chatting me up and name calling me as usual. Do guys tend to break off ties with their secret crush in person? We’ve never had a time set aside for the two of us only, this is the first, I don’t know how to react! Please advise.
web admin
April 19, 2017 at 7:45 pm
You do not have any loyalty to anyone at this time. The only thing that matters is the viability of your relationship. If the person that you are interested in believes that a relationship with you would harm his friendship and cause your relationship to fall apart, then you may not want to begin in the first place. Your best option is to speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Best of luck, Trina!
Ashton
April 11, 2017 at 7:03 pm
I am attracted to someone who lives across the world from me. How do I know if he’s attracted to me as well if the only way we communicate is through text? We talk every day when we can, and it seems that he really cares about me, but I can’t tell if it’s in a platonic way or something more. Physical gestures don’t do anything if he can’t see them. Being cute in texts seems to make him nervous, but he’s been loosening up a bit here lately… Is there hope for me?
web admin
April 12, 2017 at 8:37 am
The fact that he talks to you every day and seems to genuinely care about you seem to be a good sign. How many friends do you actually message every day? While you may talk that often with your closest friends, it is more likely that he messages you so often because he likes you. Keep up the conversation and get to know him better–it sounds likely that he could be interested in being more than just friends. I would imagine that the only thing that could possibly hold him back is the distance between you two.
Maddie
April 4, 2017 at 5:39 pm
How do I get my boyfriend to be more attracted to me
web admin
April 5, 2017 at 8:44 am
He presumably already is quite attracted to you since he is dating you; he may just be bad at showing it. Find out what he finds attractive like clothes, styles or haircuts and do it. I would not change too much though because he must have been attracted to how you originally looked when he started dating you, so you don’t want to mix it up too much. Good luck, Maddie!
Tv Channelz
March 27, 2017 at 8:02 am
Thanks
web admin
March 27, 2017 at 9:39 am
You are welcome! Thanks for commenting!
Bella
March 22, 2017 at 6:56 pm
My crush is one of my close friends, but I don’t want to scare him off by being super forward. Any tips on what to say to him?
web admin
March 23, 2017 at 7:43 am
Just try talking to him and flirting with him. Touch him gently on the shoulder or arm, lean in when he speaks and do similar things to show that you are interested. If he responds positively and you think that he could be interested, then ask him if he wants to go on a date. If that is too extreme of a move, you could also ask him if he just wants to hang out with you. Good luck, Bella!
Monaé
April 11, 2017 at 9:20 pm
There’s nothing wrong with being forward, telling him you like him might actually be good you should do that. If he’s a close friend he should respect your feelings for him regardless if he likes you back or not.
web admin
April 12, 2017 at 8:37 am
I am sure that Bella will appreciate the insight! Thanks for commenting, Monae!
Yaya
March 18, 2017 at 11:07 am
How to make your crush text you first because it seem like it’s always me who text him first? I just dont know how to get close to him because I’m too afraid that he know my feeling on him. And one more thing is we were studying in the same university.
web admin
March 19, 2017 at 6:26 pm
Try to spend more time with him in person. This will change the dynamic of your relationship over time. It may cause him to text you first. He may be more likely to reach out to you in person. Make small changes in your relationship to see what influences his actions. Have a great day, Yaya!
Jellybean
April 10, 2017 at 2:55 pm
I was in the same situation so I decided I wouldn’t text him first for a couple of days until he texted me first. Don’t text him first and see if he texts you.
web admin
April 11, 2017 at 8:30 am
Hopefully, your advice ends up working out. Thanks for commenting, Jellybean!
jada
April 25, 2017 at 4:57 pm
just talk to him like u talk to anybody else tht your friend and tht should even more better cuz yall studying together
web admin
April 26, 2017 at 12:43 pm
Thank you for sharing your advice. You are right, it is always best to be confident and friendly when speaking with someone that you are interested in. Have a great day, Jada!