20 Good And Cute Questions To Ask A Guy You Like
When getting to know the guy you are interested it, it’s important to have strong, cute and interesting questions to ask him to help the bond between the two of you develop. Asking all the right questions will help you get to know your crush and even help you decide if he is really someone you want to take the next step with. Here are 20 good and cute questions that you can ask the guy you like:
Question #1.) What makes you smile?
Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: Asking this to a guy you like let’s him know that you are curious as to what makes him happy. The answer will let you know how to make him smile in the future and helps you get to know him much better.
Question #2.) What’s your favorite movie?
Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: The answer to this question will help you both to discover if you have common interests when it comes to movies and the more you have in common the better!
Question #3.) If there is any place in the world that you could go, where would it be and why?
Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: This is another one of those ‘getting to know him’ type of questions. Maybe you both dream about the same places, who knows?
Question #4.) What is your favorite sport to watch/play?
Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: A lot of guys absolutely love talking about sports and this will get conversation flowing. Hopefully, you can retain some of that knowledge and maybe even get yourself invited over to watch the game! Asking this question also lets your crush know you are interested in his likes and dislikes and want to get to know him better.
Question #5.) If we were dating, how would you celebrate our first one year anniversary?
Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: Asking this benefits you in a way that the answer will tell you if he would do something you like. Answers to questions like these can help you figure out what type of romantic he is and if he cares enough to tell you!
Question #6.) What’s your family like?
Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: He’ll love the fact that you are taking the initiative to get to know the people he loves.
Question #7.) What about yourself do you find the most pride in?
Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: Whether the answer is about his looks, talents or personality, you are engaging him in conversation that implies you want to get to know him and what he takes pride in. Pride is a huge trait in most any guy and definitely something to be aware of.
Question #8.) Have you ever cried at a movie?
Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: Honestly, the answer to this question is usually a no, but if he does answer yes then maybe he has a really cute sensitive spot!
Question #9.) What’s your favorite car?
Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: This is another subject that most guys enjoy discussing. If he’s a car lover, he will adore you for asking and he will enjoy telling you all about what he likes.
Question #10.) What is your favorite food?
Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: The more and more you get to know him, the better a relationship will grow!
Question #11.) What do you notice first when you first meet a girl?
Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: This answer will also give you good insight to what kind of guy your crush is.
Question #12.) What is the craziest thing that you have ever done in your life?
Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: Not only will this give you a glimpse of his past, but it will also let you know how far this guys boundaries are and if you can keep up with them or if you want more excitement than what he is willing to do.
Question #13.) What is your favorite romantic activity?
Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: A guy has a different view on what is romantic than a girl does. So, be careful about how you take your crushes answer. If he answers, “We would play video games all day and drink Mountain Dew” and that’s not your favorite idea of romance, maybe he’s not a right fit for you. On the other hand, if he at least puts a little bit of effort in and says, “We could have a picnic at the park” or “I would take you shopping” then maybe he is a keeper after all!
Question #14.) What was the scariest moment in your life?
Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: It’s nice to get to know a guy, what he’s afraid of and why.
Question #15.) Who was your first crush?
Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: This question is just a small ice-breakers and may have him blushing or you laughing, but it is a cute question to ask.
Question #16.) Who is your biggest hero?
Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: Asking this question to the guy you are interested in will help you get to know who he looks up to and who he aspires to be like. It is just another ‘get to know him’ type of question that can really warm you up to each other.
Question #17.) Would you like to hang out with me more often?
Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: This lets your crush know you are interested in him and seeing him more often. It is even cuter if he says yes!
Question #18.) What is your definition of intimate?
Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: Asking this question and receiving its answer will give you an idea of how your crush perceives intimacy and romance. The answer can be quite heartwarming and adorable!
Question #19.) Would you cuddle with me?
Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: Oh! The cuteness! Unless he says no, of course, then it is not so cute… But, if he says yes, it is definitely an adorable question to ask.
Question #20.) What are your favorite hobbies?
Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: Maybe when he answers you will discover that you both have a lot of common interests and can even do some of those hobbies together. This will help you to get to know him much better and discover what he truly loves doing.
Question #21.) What’s your favorite restaurant?
Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: Who knows, maybe you’ll both sharing a passionate love for sushi rolls. Also asking him this may just get you the info you need to set up his idea of the perfect date in the future.
Question #22.) What would you do if you won the lottery?
Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: Get a look inside of your man’s financial priorities by asking him this question. Does he have a greedy heart or a kind one? Will he spend his money wisely or be completely reckless?
Question #23.) Most embarrassing look?
Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: Get a few giggles out of your crush by getting him to open up and reminisce about his most embarrassing looks when he was younger. Maybe he didn’t rock that mullet his mom gave him when he was 5, you’ll never know unless you ask!
Question #24.) What’s your favorite way to spend a rainy day?
Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: Scope out how he would entertain you cooped up inside when there is bad whether. This goes for snowstorms or any bad weather that you may want to curl up inside all day for.
Question #25.) What is your favorite video game?
Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: Just like with sports, most of the time, men get pretty pumped up about video games. Be careful, he may go on and on and on…
Question #26.) Are you superstitious?
Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: Get the creativity flowing as you discuss what gives you the heebie jeebies!
Question #27.) Are you religious?
Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: This is an important question to ask someone you may want to pursuit a relationship with. It’s best if both of you come to a mutual understanding of views to make any sort of relationship work. He may appreciate you diving into this question, so you two can really see if you click on all the right levels.
Question #28.) Favorite time of the year?
Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: You two can bond over whether you love laying on the beach in the summer or drinking hot cocoa in the winter.
Question #29.) Name a few things on your bucket list?
Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: Maybe he will share a few of the same ideas and together you both can dream up how you’ll strike them off of your lists!
Question #30.) What is your favorite band/musician?
Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: Who doesn’t love discussing their favorite music? This question is sure to open up the door to a lot of great conversation between you and your beau.
Question #31.) What makes you nervous?
Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: The best way to get to know someone is finding out what makes them comfortable as well as what makes them uncomfortable. Figuring out a prospective partner’s weaknesses is just as important as finding out what their biggest strengths are.
Question #32.) What was your first kiss like?
Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: Because who doesn’t adore the story of a first kiss?
Question #33.) What do you want to do for a career?
Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: Watch the guy you like as he opens up about his dreams for the future. Get to know him on a more personal level and find out what he strives to be.
Question #34.) Can you dance?
Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: This may seem like a silly question, but if you are a lady who loves to dance, it may be a must that your guy can dance with you. If you’re not a huge dancer, then it’ll be good to know if he will expect you to have moves or not.
Question #35.) What is your biggest pet peeve?
Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: This may decide whether you want to continue to see this guy or not by telling you if you both are turned off by the same things. Maybe you both hate cigarette smoke or neither of you can stand broccoli! It’ll also help you avoid doing things that may really get under his skin and vice versa.
Question #36.) Who is your celebrity crush?
Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: As strange or pointless as this question may seem, the answer will give you an idea of what kind of women he finds attractive.
Question #37.) Do you like to read?
Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: The two of you can get cozy discussing which books you like or dislike.
Question #38.) Favorite job you’ve had or would like to have?
Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: The way he talks about work can help you map out his work ethic and what motivates him.
Question #39.) Are you an introvert or an extrovert?
Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: Ask him this question to see if he matches you in your lifestyle. It may get him to open up about how he likes to spend his time. Hopefully you both love spending time the same way!
Question #40.) What qualities do you want in a girlfriend?
Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: Find out what drives him crazy! It’s a good idea to feel out what he is really searching for in a potential partner. His answer will give you the clues you need to discover if you are the right woman for him!
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Ella
January 3, 2016 at 3:13 am
So this guy and I have been making out recently and we don’t really like each other but I’m starting to catch feelings for him and I know he doesn’t like me because he has told me who he likes. I don’t really know what to do because he doesn’t talk to me until he want to make out with me.
web admin
January 4, 2016 at 7:55 pm
It is very easy to develop feelings for someone that you have been making out with. Unfortunately, this does not necessarily mean that he has developed feelings for you or that he wants to change the current relationship. Judging from this experience, you seem like someone who gets attached and develops feelings for a fling/friend with benefits. Knowing this, it would probably not be a good idea to be in this type of relationship unless you are willing to get hurt. If he does not want to actually date you (or at least try), it may be better for your own state of mind to just let things go.
Alejandra M.
January 1, 2016 at 11:33 pm
I like this boy at school and he is a 6th grader but I’m a 7th grader. I talk to him on kik all the time and we are starting to know a lot about each other but he likes someone else. What should I do?
web admin
January 3, 2016 at 3:56 pm
All you can do is talk to him online and in person. Try flirting with him and see if he responds. He might start liking you in a bit–who knows? Perhaps the reason he has not shown how he feels yet is he is afraid that you will not like him back because of the age difference. If you do not try flirting with him or asking him to hang out, you will never know if he could possibly be interested in you. Good luck, Alejandra!
Kaitlin
December 24, 2015 at 11:27 am
So there is this guy and I know him in real life but he also plays World Of Warcraft with me. I’m 17 and he is 19 and he is always helping me level my toon because he knows I get distracted so easily due to my ADHD when he could be playing with all of his other friends. I already know I am shy and I clam up every time I see him or try to talk to him. But I can type to him. He bought me this really expensive expansion for the game and gets me tons of gold. He lives three hours away but I see him a lot. I’ll go to his house and we’ll cook together and vice Versa. I’ve only just started talking to him because I am so shy. I know he sees I can talk to other males but when it comes to him…I run the other way. When we chat on the game the other guys I play with tell me I need to get a boyfriend and he always says “She doesn’t need one.” But he sorta growls at them. He is super attractive and I have my own set of issues. You know like pimples, fly away hairs, black peoples problems. Ive never thought I was beautiful or smart. I get picked on apin night school wall the time. I’ve always said no to his dates because the future first one went terrible…(I ran on him because I was shy) even though we have been to each others house we do something we like together like cooking, baking, reading, drawing, playing with our dogs, Can you help me please?
web admin
December 31, 2015 at 3:58 am
Why don’t you just date him? I am sure that you are overly focusing on your negatives–all of your imperfections are what makes you perfect in his eyes. It sounds like he seriously likes you, so there could be relationship potential there if you want there to be. Since you are worried about talking to him or being around him, perhaps your dates could just continue to be things like cooking or drawing. Over time, you guys could gradually try to transform just hanging out into a more affectionate relationship. If you feel comfortable with typing to him, you could always just try explaining your feelings via chat or text instead of clamming up in person. Good luck, Kaitlin!
awsoi
December 20, 2015 at 2:21 pm
there is this guy that i know him from along time ago cuz my family and his family are close friends i know him for good so i was treat him like my brother he’s older than me tho ,so one day my mom said what you think of him and my older brother was there ,my brother and this guy are friends, i said i don,t know i have no feelings for him than my brother said i remember that he said to my along time ago he like you , and i was in shock and i keep thinking of him and i dream of him a lot of times but i’m not sure if my brother was telling me the truth ,should i believe what my brother said should i give him a Chance
web admin
December 26, 2015 at 7:45 pm
I would go ahead and give him a chance. Your brother has no reason to lie. After all, he would be more likely to lie and say that the guy was not interested to protect you. Telling you that he does like you could only be because the guy actually does like you. Depending on how long ago he said that, there is no way to know if he is still interested, but it is always possible. If you like him, take a chance and see how things go! Good luck, Awsoi!
fanny
December 8, 2015 at 12:55 am
hi, this be three weeks the this guy always text me but he never call me on the phone and only text me. the is weird or I need to tell this guy? what can I do? I need help plz?
web admin
December 8, 2015 at 5:59 pm
I do not think that it is weird that he does not call you. He might just be afraid or uncertain about what to say on the phone. He could also just not be a phone person. If you want to start talking to him on the phone, why don’t you call him? He might just be nervous about calling you, so it would make things easier if you just made a move and did it on your own. Good luck, Fanny!
Stacey
December 23, 2015 at 2:19 pm
Why dont u just call the guy,be the one to make a difference
web admin
December 27, 2015 at 6:03 pm
That sounds like good advice. Thanks for commenting, Stacy!
fanny
December 7, 2015 at 5:36 am
Is be three weeks the guy text me but he never call me and only text me. I need to tell him to call me? What can I do?
web admin
December 8, 2015 at 4:32 pm
What is stopping you from calling him? If he texts you all the time, then it seems like he is interested in you. He might just be afraid of calling because he is worried about how you would react or if he would be able to keep the conversation going. Go ahead and call him. With any luck, he will take the hint and start calling you in return, or at least, he would have another hint that you are interested and would like to move the relationship forward. Good luck, Fanny!
Stephanie
December 6, 2015 at 4:53 am
How you know a guy is play with you feel?
web admin
December 6, 2015 at 6:55 pm
There is really no way to know if a guy is playing with your feelings. Sometimes, his mannerisms, attentiveness or attitude will give him away, but you still will not always know. You just have to find a good guy that you trust and hope for the best. Good luck, Stephanie!
Stephanie
December 6, 2015 at 4:50 am
This weird to text a guy first. Or the guy need to text you first?
web admin
December 6, 2015 at 6:54 pm
No, it is not weird to text the guy first. This is not the 1950s anymore, and women can text guys first. I would still take it slowly though if you do not know how he feels. You want to get a friendship and communication going before you build on that into a relationship. Once you think that he may like you, you can check out some of the flirty and romantic texting ideas on Her Interest for ideas about what to say.
lulu
December 3, 2015 at 12:02 am
i like really this guy in my class and I want to ask him to a ball dance but I am scared that he will say no what do I do help me plz
web admin
December 3, 2015 at 6:02 pm
Go ahead and just ask him to the dance! Even if he says no, you will be able to find out that he is not interested in you and be able to move on. Waiting and wondering how he feels can be stressful, so just ask him to the dance. You never know–he could be just as interested in you as you are in him.
rosa lozano
November 29, 2015 at 7:32 pm
Hey there is this guy that I like in school and he told me he likes me to but know its just kinda weird cus idk what to say or text with him and in school well almost every single day we bump into eachother but plz help don’t really know what to say plz
web admin
November 30, 2015 at 9:03 pm
Just start talking to him! If he likes you, then you are already ahead of the game. Now, you just have to get to know him better. You could even try asking him out–after, all you already know that he is interested. Try talking to him about his life, family, goals or dreams. People naturally like to talk about themselves, so getting him to talk about himself will be an easy way to draw him into a conversation and get him interested. Good luck, Rosa!
claire
December 3, 2015 at 7:30 am
well when i liked this guy and he liked me back I kinda start bumping into him more and more often then i ask how his day is and stff like that and eventually he asked me to marry him
web admin
December 5, 2015 at 5:55 pm
That sounds like a good approach–I am sure that Rosa appreciates the extra insight. Thanks for commenting, Claire and congrats on getting your dream guy!
meme
November 29, 2015 at 4:25 am
Ok so there is a guy we have been talking over a year.When we first had sex I got mad because of a lack of attention and told him he had a small penis but I soon after apologized.He stop talking to me but after a few months he messaged me and we picked back up like nothing ever happen. We were arguing more than we usually did before all this happen but I still told him I like him and he told me I was a cool female and we had great sex but he just have a complicated life and he is not where he feel he should be as a man so I chilled out.Now I recenlty told him I’m in love with him. And he asked me why? What am I suppose to take from that. Do I move on or hang around till he get his situation straight.also we only had sex that one time and even though he has ask a few times and so have I we never allow each other a second chance.
web admin
November 29, 2015 at 4:47 pm
People fall in love at different rates, so it may take him longer than you–this is probably why he asked you “why?”. As for a relationship, there is no way of knowing how things will go. He seems to want to get his life together before having a relationship, so it may take a while. As a side note, you probably should not tell someone that they are small in the future. If the problem is that you lack attention, then just tell him what you need instead of getting upset. A good relationship is based on good communication, and saying things that you do not actually mean will only hurt both of you in the long run.
mack
November 29, 2015 at 1:11 am
The “guys tend to use me make” thing makes me sound lIke a whore but for real most of them try to have sex with me because I’m a virgin
web admin
November 29, 2015 at 4:42 pm
Oh, that’s no good. How long have you known this guy? If you have known him for years, then it is less likely that is the case–after all, you would have had years to figure out his personality and know where he is coming from.
mack
November 29, 2015 at 1:09 am
So there’s this guy. I guess it always starts with “there’s this guy” lol. Anyway we’ve been talking for a while and he says he likes me a lot and calls me sweetheart and baby girl but when we’re asking questions or talking on the phone it seems like I’m putting a little more effort than he is. I know I’m probably being paranoid but guys tend to use me so I kind of feel like I have a right to be. What do I do and what do you think
web admin
November 29, 2015 at 4:41 pm
He might just be a bad phone person. Some people are just not particularly good at talking on the phone or online. I would not assume that he is not interested just because he is bad on the phone. After all, he calls you names like sweetheart and has already said that he likes you. Since guys have used you in the past, I would take things slowly just in case, but you can’t always miss out on a possible relationship because you are worried about the past repeating itself. Take things slowly and see where it goes. Good luck, Mack!
Nina
November 26, 2015 at 2:47 pm
Ok so i really like this guy in my sports class,he is very obedient and sincere towards his sport (running) he is good looking and he is well educated unlike other guys in our class. Once during practice he got a horrible muscle pull, so i was very worried but shy to talk to him, so when i went home i messaged him and asked him if he was ok or not. For the first three days he did not see my message, on the third day when he saw my message he did not reply. I see him looking at me sometimes during practice …. but i seriously do knot know what to think….. just plz help me i really like this guy, atleast tell me a way by which we can be good friends :'( Please!
web admin
November 27, 2015 at 5:59 pm
Hmm . . . if he was interested in you, it seems like he ought to have replied to that message. Perhaps he is just focused on running and school right now, and does not want the distraction of a relationship. Unless you plan on getting rejected, I would not try asking him out right now. If any natural chances spring up where you can talk to him, go ahead and start a conversation. If you can talk to him more often and get to know him better, then there is always a chance that you could get him to like you back.
Nina
November 29, 2015 at 3:21 pm
Thank you so much for your advice, will keep it in mind… PS ur awesome 😉
web admin
November 29, 2015 at 4:31 pm
You are very welcome. I hope that everything works out for you! Good luck, Nina!
Elizabeth
November 26, 2015 at 12:44 pm
My classmate who is a boy started talking to me and everytime I ask him whether he has anything to say to me, he says “nth” “nvm” “mmhmm” and I find it weird…idk whether it’s me or what…I mean…idk I have a crush on him or not…
web admin
November 27, 2015 at 5:48 pm
He might be trying to talk to you because he likes you, and the “nvm” responses could be due to a case of the nerves. Until you figure out if you like him back, I would not worry too much. Obviously, you would want to wait to ask him out or do anything until you are sure of your own feelings. In the meanwhile, he has a chance to get more comfortable with you and reveal his hand, if he does like you.
Cece
November 25, 2015 at 2:17 am
Okay so this boy at my school always be saying hey and asking for a hug. My friend ask him if he likes me and he said kinda. What he mean by kinda. So his friend said that he wanted my Kik so I gave it him. We started texting yesterday and then I ask who he like and he said he don’t know he ask me the same thing but I said I don’t either I was gone tell him that I liked him but then I wasn’t cause I didn’t want him knowing that I like him and he probably likes somebody else…. WHAT SHOULD I DO
web admin
November 26, 2015 at 3:50 am
He might just be afraid of coming out directly and saying that he likes you. It sounds to me like he is just afraid that you will reject him. After all, he did ask for your number and said that he kind of liked you. If he asks if you like him again, you could say something like, “I can’t say because you probably know him. 😉 ” or you could just tell him directly that you like him. It seems quite likely that he is interested in you, so it may be worth the risk of just telling him how you feel.
Mattlyn
November 23, 2015 at 4:24 pm
I like this guy and he said he liked me but he also likes my cousin but my cousin doesn’t like him.How do i get him to like me as much as he likes her?
web admin
November 25, 2015 at 11:23 pm
You cannot make someone like you. Other than flirting with him and getting to know him better, there is no way for you to change his feelings. Unfortunately, it seems like he genuinely likes your cousin at the moment, so those feelings will probably have to die out before he can like you. As long as he is interested in your cousin, then there is always a risk that he will talk to you and get close to you as a way to get closer to her. If you think that this is the case, then you may need to take a step back–and you should probably ask your cousin to avoid flirting with him and not lead him on. If he is not aware that your cousin is not interested, you may also want to have someone tell him that so he does not keep hoping for the impossible.
Dashi
November 22, 2015 at 6:07 pm
Hey! I like this guy and he likes me too, but when he wrote to me saying, “I like you too. But relationships will ruin my grades and its stressful.” I’m not sure if I read the note right…but yea I really like him and I want to be with him, but it’s probably not going to happen. I’m trying to slowly give him space because I feel like I’m getting way too attached to him..
web admin
November 22, 2015 at 6:57 pm
It sounds like he is just being honest with you. At this point in his life, he just wants to focus on his grades and his goals. Although he likes you, he knows that he would not be able to spend as much time with you or on his schoolwork as he would like. This might be depressing news for you to hear, but at least you know what he wants now–and you know that he does like you. In a few months or years, maybe he will be on top of his schoolwork enough to date. In the meantime, getting some space and becoming a bit less attached will help your sanity out. Good luck, Dashi!
Lilian
November 25, 2015 at 1:03 am
Maybe you should just keep flirting with him even though you are not getting “serious” anytime soon. Say you respect his decision so he knows you understand and maybe that will make him rethink his decision. Flirt with him so he stays interested and keep in touch so when he’s ready you guys can be together!
-Girl who was in the same situation as your crush:)
web admin
November 26, 2015 at 3:12 am
That sounds like a good plan–thanks for commenting, Lillian!
Janie
November 19, 2015 at 4:24 am
So this guy likes me but I think I have feelings for someone else.Also my friends are trying to rush us and I just want to start slow and progress over time
web admin
November 20, 2015 at 8:13 pm
If you are not sure about your feelings, then just tell your friends the truth. You will need to figure out what you want and who you want before you enter into a relationship. Once you are in a relationship, it will be harder to leave or change your mind, so you need to decide who you are interested in before you do anything else.
Veronica
November 17, 2015 at 9:24 pm
Hey, so there’s this guy I like and honestly I doubt that he likes me. Every time we’re both in lunch he sits at a table next to mines and always stares at me. One of my friends called him over and told him “she wants your number.” When it wasn’t all true. Then he smiled at me walked back to his table then when he walked past me he said “I’ll be back” when he returned my friend asked him “so what’s your number?” The guy said “oh, so you want to text me not her?” Then my friend grabbed my phone gave it to him and he gave me his number. At first we had a nice conversation going but then he just started to slack off and honestly now all he does is just look and me and half way smiles that’s it.. What should I do?
web admin
November 20, 2015 at 6:01 pm
He may feel awkward about what to do. Plus, he could be confused about who actually likes him. From the sound of your comment, he seems to think that it could be possible that your friend was the one who actually wanted the number. Even though he may be hopeful that it is really you who is interested, he could be uncertain–this is especially likely if he likes you back because it always seems impossible for your crush to ever return your feelings. If I were in your shoes, I would just wait a bit, flirt with him and see if he makes a move. And if he asks if you like him, go ahead and just tell him the truth. Good luck, Veronica!
jacinta dunn
January 2, 2016 at 3:00 am
i’m in the same situation as you’ i like this major cuttie but i can not get him to like me.
web admin
January 3, 2016 at 3:57 pm