20 Good And Cute Questions To Ask A Guy You Like
When getting to know the guy you are interested it, it’s important to have strong, cute and interesting questions to ask him to help the bond between the two of you develop. Asking all the right questions will help you get to know your crush and even help you decide if he is really someone you want to take the next step with. Here are 20 good and cute questions that you can ask the guy you like:
Question #1.)Â What makes you smile?
Why It’s A Good/Cute Question:Â Asking this to a guy you like let’s him know that you are curious as to what makes him happy. The answer will let you know how to make him smile in the future and helps you get to know him much better.
Question #2.) What’s your favorite movie?
Why It’s A Good/Cute Question:Â The answer to this question will help you both to discover if you have common interests when it comes to movies and the more you have in common the better!
Question #3.)Â If there is any place in the world that you could go, where would it be and why?
Why It’s A Good/Cute Question:Â This is another one of those ‘getting to know him’ type of questions. Maybe you both dream about the same places, who knows?
Question #4.)Â What is your favorite sport to watch/play?
Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: A lot of guys absolutely love talking about sports and this will get conversation flowing. Hopefully, you can retain some of that knowledge and maybe even get yourself invited over to watch the game! Asking this question also lets your crush know you are interested in his likes and dislikes and want to get to know him better.
Question #5.)Â If we were dating, how would you celebrate our first one year anniversary?
Why It’s A Good/Cute Question:Â Asking this benefits you in a way that the answer will tell you if he would do something you like. Answers to questions like these can help you figure out what type of romantic he is and if he cares enough to tell you!
Question #6.)Â What’s your family like?
Why It’s A Good/Cute Question:Â He’ll love the fact that you are taking the initiative to get to know the people he loves.
Question #7.)Â What about yourself do you find the most pride in?
Why It’s A Good/Cute Question:Â Whether the answer is about his looks, talents or personality, you are engaging him in conversation that implies you want to get to know him and what he takes pride in. Pride is a huge trait in most any guy and definitely something to be aware of.
Question #8.)Â Have you ever cried at a movie?
Why It’s A Good/Cute Question:Â Honestly, the answer to this question is usually a no, but if he does answer yes then maybe he has a really cute sensitive spot!
Question #9.)Â What’s your favorite car?
Why It’s A Good/Cute Question:Â This is another subject that most guys enjoy discussing. If he’s a car lover, he will adore you for asking and he will enjoy telling you all about what he likes.
Question #10.)Â What is your favorite food?
Why It’s A Good/Cute Question:Â The more and more you get to know him, the better a relationship will grow!
Question #11.)Â What do you notice first when you first meet a girl?
Why It’s A Good/Cute Question:Â This answer will also give you good insight to what kind of guy your crush is.
Question #12.)Â What is the craziest thing that you have ever done in your life?
Why It’s A Good/Cute Question:Â Not only will this give you a glimpse of his past, but it will also let you know how far this guys boundaries are and if you can keep up with them or if you want more excitement than what he is willing to do.
Question #13.)Â What is your favorite romantic activity?
Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: Â A guy has a different view on what is romantic than a girl does. So, be careful about how you take your crushes answer. If he answers, “We would play video games all day and drink Mountain Dew” and that’s not your favorite idea of romance, maybe he’s not a right fit for you. On the other hand, if he at least puts a little bit of effort in and says, “We could have a picnic at the park” or “I would take you shopping” then maybe he is a keeper after all!
Question #14.)Â What was the scariest moment in your life?
Why It’s A Good/Cute Question:Â It’s nice to get to know a guy, what he’s afraid of and why.
Question #15.)Â Who was your first crush?
Why It’s A Good/Cute Question:Â This question is just a small ice-breakers and may have him blushing or you laughing, but it is a cute question to ask.
Question #16.)Â Who is your biggest hero?
Why It’s A Good/Cute Question:Â Asking this question to the guy you are interested in will help you get to know who he looks up to and who he aspires to be like. It is just another ‘get to know him’ type of question that can really warm you up to each other.
Question #17.)Â Would you like to hang out with me more often?
Why It’s A Good/Cute Question:Â This lets your crush know you are interested in him and seeing him more often. It is even cuter if he says yes!
Question #18.)Â What is your definition of intimate?
Why It’s A Good/Cute Question:Â Asking this question and receiving its answer will give you an idea of how your crush perceives intimacy and romance. The answer can be quite heartwarming and adorable!
Question #19.)Â Would you cuddle with me?
Why It’s A Good/Cute Question:Â Oh! The cuteness! Unless he says no, of course, then it is not so cute… But, if he says yes, it is definitely an adorable question to ask.
Question #20.)Â What are your favorite hobbies?
Why It’s A Good/Cute Question:Â Maybe when he answers you will discover that you both have a lot of common interests and can even do some of those hobbies together. This will help you to get to know him much better and discover what he truly loves doing.
Question #21.) Whatâs your favorite restaurant?
Why Itâs A Good/Cute Question: Who knows, maybe youâll both sharing a passionate love for sushi rolls. Also asking him this may just get you the info you need to set up his idea of the perfect date in the future.
Question #22.) What would you do if you won the lottery?
Why Itâs A Good/Cute Question: Get a look inside of your manâs financial priorities by asking him this question. Does he have a greedy heart or a kind one? Will he spend his money wisely or be completely reckless?Â
Question #23.) Most embarrassing look?
Why Itâs A Good/Cute Question: Get a few giggles out of your crush by getting him to open up and reminisce about his most embarrassing looks when he was younger. Maybe he didnât rock that mullet his mom gave him when he was 5, youâll never know unless you ask!
Question #24.) Whatâs your favorite way to spend a rainy day?
Why Itâs A Good/Cute Question: Scope out how he would entertain you cooped up inside when there is bad whether. This goes for snowstorms or any bad weather that you may want to curl up inside all day for.Â
Question #25.) What is your favorite video game?
Why Itâs A Good/Cute Question: Just like with sports, most of the time, men get pretty pumped up about video games. Be careful, he may go on and on and on…
Question #26.) Are you superstitious?
Why Itâs A Good/Cute Question: Get the creativity flowing as you discuss what gives you the heebie jeebies!
Question #27.) Are you religious?
Why Itâs A Good/Cute Question: This is an important question to ask someone you may want to pursuit a relationship with. Itâs best if both of you come to a mutual understanding of views to make any sort of relationship work. He may appreciate you diving into this question, so you two can really see if you click on all the right levels.Â
Question #28.) Favorite time of the year?
Why Itâs A Good/Cute Question: You two can bond over whether you love laying on the beach in the summer or drinking hot cocoa in the winter.
Question #29.) Name a few things on your bucket list?
Why Itâs A Good/Cute Question: Maybe he will share a few of the same ideas and together you both can dream up how youâll strike them off of your lists!
Question #30.) What is your favorite band/musician?
Why Itâs A Good/Cute Question: Who doesnât love discussing their favorite music? This question is sure to open up the door to a lot of great conversation between you and your beau.
Question #31.) What makes you nervous?
Why Itâs A Good/Cute Question: The best way to get to know someone is finding out what makes them comfortable as well as what makes them uncomfortable. Figuring out a prospective partner’s weaknesses is just as important as finding out what their biggest strengths are.
Question #32.) What was your first kiss like?
Why Itâs A Good/Cute Question: Because who doesnât adore the story of a first kiss?Â
Question #33.) What do you want to do for a career?
Why Itâs A Good/Cute Question: Watch the guy you like as he opens up about his dreams for the future. Get to know him on a more personal level and find out what he strives to be.
Question #34.) Can you dance?
Why Itâs A Good/Cute Question: This may seem like a silly question, but if you are a lady who loves to dance, it may be a must that your guy can dance with you. If youâre not a huge dancer, then itâll be good to know if he will expect you to have moves or not.
Question #35.) What is your biggest pet peeve?
Why Itâs A Good/Cute Question: This may decide whether you want to continue to see this guy or not by telling you if you both are turned off by the same things. Maybe you both hate cigarette smoke or neither of you can stand broccoli! Itâll also help you avoid doing things that may really get under his skin and vice versa.Â
Question #36.) Who is your celebrity crush?
Why Itâs A Good/Cute Question: As strange or pointless as this question may seem, the answer will give you an idea of what kind of women he finds attractive.
Question #37.) Do you like to read?
Why Itâs A Good/Cute Question: The two of you can get cozy discussing which books you like or dislike.
Question #38.) Favorite job youâve had or would like to have?
Why Itâs A Good/Cute Question: The way he talks about work can help you map out his work ethic and what motivates him.Â
Question #39.) Are you an introvert or an extrovert?
Why Itâs A Good/Cute Question: Ask him this question to see if he matches you in your lifestyle. It may get him to open up about how he likes to spend his time. Hopefully you both love spending time the same way!
Question #40.) What qualities do you want in a girlfriend?
Why Itâs A Good/Cute Question: Find out what drives him crazy! Itâs a good idea to feel out what he is really searching for in a potential partner. His answer will give you the clues you need to discover if you are the right woman for him!Â
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B
March 29, 2016 at 1:11 pm
So… I really like this boy at school. One time in class we were in the same group. We talked a lot and he smiled at me a lot. One day I was passing out papers in class and I gave him his paper and the paper hit his arm. He stopped talking to his friend to say to me why did you do that and smiled at me. I smile back. Then today the teacher had me go to one side of the classroom and he was on the other side because we were makin sure people only got one book for our research project. He did something and I was watching him. He noticed and smiled so I smiled back. When he passed out papers one time he gave me mine and smiled.when I helped pass oug the chromebooks when he grabbed his he smiled at me. Also one time we checked tye chromebooks to make sure they were in the right slot an our heads touched anf our fingers touche anc he didnt move and we.smiled ag each other. Sometimes I catch him looking a me in school. Any advice?
web admin
April 4, 2016 at 8:06 am
It sounds like he could like you, although he has not done enough to be sure. Perhaps you or one of your friends could ask him who he is interested in. If you are feeling particularly brave, you could even ask him out. If you do not make a move, he could end up with another girlfriend or lose interest–at the very least, you will miss your chance to spend time with him now. Don’t wonder forever about what could have been–find out if he likes you now. Good luck, B!
Julie
March 28, 2016 at 4:46 pm
Oh yeah I almost forgot he and my ex were fighting the other day bc my ex called me a weirdo bc he thought I self-harmed….I used to…..
web admin
March 28, 2016 at 4:50 pm
Your ex-boyfriend sounds like a terrible person. Making fun of someone and calling them names is never okay, especially when it is about a serious problem. It looks like you made the right decision by ending things with your ex!
Anon
March 28, 2016 at 1:11 pm
There’s a boy I like that I’ve known for a long time,we have alot in common,I think he likes me but I can’t be too sure,we flirt on a daily basis, but the thing is,we’re two different people. He’s a popular kid who plays soccer and baseball,he has plenty of friends and he’s the school president. I’m just a girl who’s a social outcast,I’m not too sporty but Im more of a art and music type of gal, and I only have 4-5 close friends. He loves that I’m myself and he says he actually cares for me and he’ll always be there bit as I’ve said before,I can never be too sure. My best friend says my crush doesn’t like me,whilst other friends say he does and they think it’s cute since we’re two different people it’s like two worlds colliding and it’s like those cheesy teen movies. I told one of my crush’s friends,who’s a girl,that it’s liked him and she freaked out like “OH MY GOD ARE YOU SERIOUS THATS SO CUTE I CANT BELIEVE IT” and I asked her why and she was like “oh nothing” with a grin on her face. I don’t know if I should take that as a hint….help please?
web admin
March 28, 2016 at 5:17 pm
Even though he is a popular kid, that does not mean that he will not fall for you. Love knows no bounds, and your popularity or lack of popularity would not stop him from liking you. From the sound of it, he genuinely seems interested in you and likes you for who you are. Plus, your crush’s friend freaked out when you told her how you feel, which makes it sound like she knows that he likes you and just could not tell you that. If I were in your shoes, I would flirt with him or ask him out–it sounds like he likes you, and you will never find out how he feels unless you take a risk. Plus, if you wait for too long, someone else may catch his eye. Make a move now while you can and see what happens. Good luck, Anon!
Julie
March 27, 2016 at 7:54 pm
So, he’s my best friend. He knows I like him, but he’s confusing me. We were talking one day and I said something and he said “so you want me to be your boyfriendđ€đ€” and I said “…”
He said “I’ll be your boyfriend ”
I said “đ”
He said the same thing.
then I said “you mean it right”
He said “nvm can we just be friends”
I said “đ”
He said “hay you know I care right”
I said “ig”
I said “my friend likes you”
He said “tht chick lives the stalker life”
I said “yeah”
He said “k I like you more than her you’re a lot more beautiful.”
He’s called me beautiful 3 times and sends a bunch of mad emojis when I say I looked hideous.
He said I’m enough to him and my friends and that I’m perfect in my own ways.
So later that day…
I said “Fr tho I’m used to trying too hardđ” he said “for me”
I said “…”
He said “ur hart is too good to stop”
I said “đ€”
He said “u got my hartđ”
Then yesterday He said “what’s wrong” just randomly out of the blue.
I said “nothing”
He said “tell me”
I told him tht I was trying for him too hard and I was done.
I was upset about him likeing my friend, when I’ve been there for him through everything.
Then he said “I like u as a friend maybie someday I will change my mind”
I said “what was this all about?” And I sent a screenshot of our conversation.
He said “What if in the future I really want to be with u and u reject me because u think I’m kidding”
I’m confused… Does he like me or not?
web admin
March 28, 2016 at 4:44 pm
Personally, I think he likes you. He probably misread your responses and assumed that you just wanted to be friends–this is probably why he back pedaled on his initial statement. If you want, you could just ask him on a date. The next time he says something about going out in the future or being interested in you, ask him if he wants to go on a date and see how things go. It sounds like he needs a bit of a nudge to get the relationship moving, so you’ll have to make the next move. Good luck, Julie!
IDEKANYMORE
March 26, 2016 at 6:24 pm
There’s this guy and we talk all the time and he knows all of my secrets. And he knows that I like his best friend. I only like him as a friend and he knows that but he still flirts with me. What do I do?????
web admin
March 28, 2016 at 2:42 pm
If he asks you out, just be honest with him. Be nice, but make sure that you let him know that you only view him as a friend. Honestly, he probably already realizes that he has been friend zoned, and he is just hoping that you change your mind about things. As for his best friend, flirt with him and see how things go. Good luck!
mi
March 26, 2016 at 5:59 am
So..basically I really like a guy. We talk in school or text each other. We dated before but we just stopped talking but we’re going good now. I still like him but idk if he likes me. I ask him a lot of questions and he said its cute to ask questions but still idk if likes me..
web admin
March 28, 2016 at 2:05 pm
You guys once dated, so it is entirely possible that he still has feelings for you. After all, you don’t stop caring for someone just because the relationship has ended. Although he might not be interested in dating you anymore, you will never find out what could be possible unless you make a move. Go ahead and ask him how he feels. Even if you get rejected, you will at least know that it is time to move on. And if he does like you, you could end up with a relationship sooner rather than later. Good luck!
Confused girl
March 19, 2016 at 5:59 pm
So there was this guy I really liked, we talked a lot, he stared at me when I walked down the hallway. He always sat behind me on my pus and put his head on the seat. He smiled when he talked to me. One day, I gave him my number, and he texted me. My friend liked him too and she found out. She told me to kill myself. He said he could never date her but think about me.
Later he said yes when I asked about it again.
That night he said I love you.
I noticed that wasn’t right.
I kept quiet on it, then I got really mad when he said I was just some girl he talked to. My friend, his friend, him and I were all on a call, when my friend asked if he meant it… He hung up. I yelled at him is why but after a while he didn’t answer me… I sent 77 messages saying sorry and he said he wanted to break and tht he asked his friend if he should say yes or no. He used to call me beautiful.
Now when I walk by he Glares at me.
He’s only nice to me when his friends aren’t around and when they are he is rude and won’t even talk to me.
His friend wasn’t on the bus and he kept trying to take a picture of me.
He told me he knows I still like him, and he said it was okay.
He smiled the whole time.
He offered to carry my backpack for me.
He is always asking my friends about me.
And he tries to talk to me when his friends aren’t around…. Only when they aren’t around
web admin
March 23, 2016 at 11:04 pm
It sounds like he may still have feelings for you, but he no longer wants to date you. It is quite normal for an ex to end up being jealous or overly focused on you after a relationship. He may feel jealous when you talk to other guys, or he may just want to have the same access to your life. Either way, it does not mean that he plans on dating you again. While it sounds like he could still like you, it does not seem like he will want to date again anytime soon.
Caitlyn
March 26, 2016 at 3:52 am
Im so sorry you have to go through that. He has no right to treat you like that. If I was in your position, I would honestly not talk to him, because talking to him makes it seem like everything is okay. You deserve way better.
web admin
March 28, 2016 at 1:49 pm
You are absolutely right, Caitlyn. I am sure that your advice and words of encouragement will help her out. Thank you for commenting!
Katie
March 19, 2016 at 4:56 pm
There’s this boy I like and he likes me too, but he likes this other girl that goes to another school more. We talk everyday and we text almost 24/7. I have known him forever but he has known this girl forever and I don’t know what to do.
web admin
March 23, 2016 at 11:02 pm
He will have to decide that he likes you more. If not, he will have to see where a relationship could go with her or be rejected by her. Until he can move past the way he feels for her, it will be hard for him to focus on you. Although he likes you now, he may always wonder what could have happened with her if he does not at least try asking her out. There is nothing you can do to change his feelings other than continue to be a friend and talk to him. Good luck!
Rocket-to-the-ally
March 18, 2016 at 8:47 pm
So, theres this guy. He’s been hard core flirting with me, calling me babe and babygirl and stuff like that. He has a girlfriend but she doesnt seem too worried that he wants to sleep with me. We even talked about just chilling one on one. So im hella confused, he has a girlfriend, he’s flirting with me, she’s perfectly okay with him wanting to sleep with me. So i dont know what i should do.
web admin
March 23, 2016 at 10:07 pm
They could have an open relationship, or she may just not be super possessive. If you are both attracted to each other, it probably is not a good idea to be one-on-one because you would be placing a lot of temptation on both of you. I have no clue what is going on in his mind or their relationship right now, but you may want to think things through a bit. Unless you want to end up as the other woman or in an impromptu threesome, you might want to think through hanging out with him alone.
Rachel
March 18, 2016 at 10:42 am
I like this guy he doesnt have a girl friend and his family is super strict. I am best friends with his sisters and they tell me things about him like he jokes around and takes his sisters phone and is just like let me text my girl friend but then he says hes just kidding and they say he blushes whenever they talk about me they think he likes me but then whenever i see him he acts like im not even there and it seems like he avoids talking to me i dont know what to do or think:( please help
web admin
March 23, 2016 at 9:58 pm
It certainly sounds like he likes you. If his sisters think that he likes you, he probably does. Now, you just have to decide what you want to do about it. He may be too shy to make a move, so it may be up to you to make a move. Good luck!
Teri
March 17, 2016 at 2:15 am
I’m 15, and i really like this guy, he’s always on my mind 24/7 and also he’s new to our school.Just recently i done him a letter telling him that i like him and all. Him and friends all read it and they were asking me if i done it and i told them no because i didn’t want them knowing but knowing his friends they all knew it was me. And today my bestfriend asked him if he likes me and he said no only because i don’t know her and she asked him another question she said if you did get to know her would you go out with her? And he said idk…
Some of my fiends are saying that him and I would be cute together and others are saying other things.
I’m just confused on what to do all of my friends are telling me to go and talk to him but i can’t because I’m to shy to…
web admin
March 22, 2016 at 8:28 pm
Go ahead and talk to him! It sounds like his main reason to hold off on dating you is that he does not know you very well. If you could talk to him and get to know him better, he would have a chance to know you and like you. I think it is a bit to early to ask him out or make another move now; start with talking to him. Good luck, Teri!
R
March 16, 2016 at 4:45 pm
I like this guy and I’m great friends wifh his sister and she asked me who I have a crush on and I had to tell her cause I can’t keep a secret so I told her I like her brother. He doesn’t have a girl friend and his sisters tell me stuff about him all the time (I’ve liked him for three years by the way) they tell me things like he totally likes you whenever we talk about you he blushes and walks away but then whenever we’re around each other he acts like I’m not even there (like he doesn’t like me) he won’t even talk to me. I like him so much and I don’t know what to do:(
web admin
March 22, 2016 at 5:16 pm
If he likes you, ignoring you and trying not to talk to you may just be due to that. He may just be afraid to make a move because he likes you so much. You may want to have one of his sisters tell him about your crush. If he finds out that you are interested, it may give him the courage to just make a move or ask him out. Good luck, R!
Sara
March 14, 2016 at 4:34 pm
I really like this guy who just recently broke up with his girlfriend. But I liked him even when they were together. We text everyday, even when he was with his girl. Though he just told me that he cant be with me, but that he likes me. What do I do?
web admin
March 15, 2016 at 10:00 am
You should ask him why he cannot be with you–hopefully, he just needs space or there is something that you can do to make a relationship possible. He just got out of a relationship, so it may be possible that he just wants some time to be single. You already know that he likes you, so that is an excellent start. Ask him sometime why he cannot be with you right now and see what the answer is. Good luck!
georgia
March 12, 2016 at 3:19 pm
um.. well there is this one boy that like but he says we have to get to know each other before we start dating but now im scared because he does seem interested in me anymore like giving me money or something or a hug but…
web admin
March 14, 2016 at 2:36 pm
Take things slowly and get to know him better. It sounds like he is very in touch with what he feels and wants. He knows that he needs to know you better before deciding if this is serious or if the relationship should be continued, and he is probably right. Get to know him better, enjoy yourself and see where things go. Wanting to get to know you better is not a sign of rejection or anything wrong–it just means that you guys need to find out more about each other first. Best of luck, Georgia!
Faith
March 12, 2016 at 2:57 pm
I like this guy but he has a girlfriend. But he is texting me all the time and sending me x’s and calling me cute names and he said that he loves me and everything. What will I do?
web admin
March 14, 2016 at 2:34 pm
If he has a girlfriend, there is nothing that you can do. You do not want to get in the way of his current relationship or be the “other woman”. Even if he were to leave her for you, you would never know if he would just do the same thing to you in the future. For now, stay friends if you can handle it and wait to see what happens. It is easy to say you love someone, but he won’t be able to prove his love until he is actually single and available to date. Good luck, Faith!
Tina
March 10, 2016 at 12:35 pm
There’s this guy that I like and he goes to my school but he’s a junior and im a freshman. We’ve been texting for a while now and he broke up with his girlfriend yesterday. He makes it seem like he likes me but we’ve never talked in person and I’m really shy. How could I approach him in person, or what could I send him to make it seem like I want to talk in person?
web admin
March 10, 2016 at 4:47 pm
Go ahead and try talking to him in person–just talk to him as you would a friend. Since he just broke up with his girlfriend, you may want to wait at least a few days before you try flirting with him. If you guys text all the time, then there is a decent chance that he does like you. He probably did not do anything about it before because he was in a relationship. Now, it may be a little bit before he acts on his feelings because he will need a little time to heal now that the old relationship has ended. Make up an excuse to talk, just say hello or have him take part in a group conversation–as long as you are talking to him in some fashion, it will end up working. Good luck, Tina!
Krystle
March 5, 2016 at 9:32 pm
There’s a freshmen I like I’m in 8th well we talk to each other like bg & gf but we aren’t were dirty minded and love video games he knows I like him and I think he likes me a little we live a short life how can I show him he should love someone that loves him back because of the short life?
web admin
March 6, 2016 at 11:47 am
Just ask him if he wants to go out with you and be an official couple. It sounds like he likes you, so go for it! If you need ideas about what to say, there are multiple articles on Her Interest that cover texting ideas for a boyfriend, romantic quotes and flirty texts. Check them out and see if any of the texting ideas will work in your situation. Good luck, Krystle!
TripleChocđ
March 10, 2016 at 4:04 pm
I don’t know how to post comments so I’m gonna put it here…Anyways..there is this guy in school that I have a crush on but I am really confused about what he thinks of me. On snapchat, he added me on his first account and always sees my story, but after forgetting his snapchat password he made another one and I added him, although on THAT account he didn’t add me back..đWhen I snapchat him and send him messages on there, he always replies, but I don’t talk to him at school that much. At school, he talks to me first, although it’s something like asking me for a pencil or asking if I got an A which he said he didn’t find surprising or telling me he is behind me on a computer game at school, but I seem too shy to reply, but on Snapchat, I snapchat him first always. Also, everytime I look at him, he looks at me too. Like that thing you do where two people happen to look at each other at the same time..all the time. But at the same time I don’t know if he thinks I’m weird because he didn’t add me or follow me on Instagram. One of my friends knows I like him and she thinks he likes me back but I doubt it. He recently broke up with his girlfriend about 2 weeks ago. We’re not that close, and I wish that we were.
TripleChocđ
March 10, 2016 at 4:06 pm
Oh and I’m 12 in 7th grade..just to let you know the situation better
web admin
March 10, 2016 at 5:25 pm
Got it! No problem!
web admin
March 10, 2016 at 5:01 pm
He may have just had to add so many people on the second account that he forgot to add you. The fact that he talks to you a lot online seems like a positive thing, and making excuses (like asking for a pencil) to talk to you is another sign that he could be interested. The fact that he has not added you to Instagram could mean that he just does not use Instagram a lot, didn’t get the notification or is not interested in you. It really seems like it could go either way. The recent break up could be the reason why he is so confusing, since he may need a chance to heal. If your friend thinks that he likes you, then it seems quite possible that he does. Nothing is for sure, but it seems more likely than not that he is interested.
Kenzie
March 3, 2016 at 8:24 pm
So, I’m 17 and I am talking to this amazing guy. We have been talking for a while now. I am ready to be in a relationship with him but he keeps telling me that he doesn’t want to rush into things which I totally understand and want him to take his time because I don’t want to mess it up. But every time we are talking about something, he randomly brings up how he wants to take it slow and how I don’t know when he will ask me to be his girlfriend officially. I really like him and I don’t know what to do. Because he keeps saying that he doesn’t want to rush into things when we won’t even be on the subject of that. He told me he is nervous and that he doesn’t want to say or do anything to mess it up. He has already met my father which is a big deal and they approve of him but I’m so lost with him.
web admin
March 4, 2016 at 9:39 am
It looks like you may have commented twice on this one, but that’s okay. I have to answer these individually, so it sometimes takes a bit for the responses to appear. Read through my first response and let me know if you have any questions. From the sound of your situation, it seems like you just have to be patient and he will ask you out. He needs a few days or weeks to heal and then he will be ready for another relationship. Best of luck, Kenzie!
Kimberly
March 2, 2016 at 12:05 am
So there’s this guy, we talk everyday and he seems like he likes me but he’s in a “complicated” relationship. We call each other “bestfriend” but he’s always being so sweet to me, telling me nice things and asking how my day is, I’ll wake up and want to text him but he always wakes up first to text me. Idk.. I’m confused. By calling me his bestfriend, a he friend zoning me or what?
web admin
March 2, 2016 at 8:12 am
He might be calling you his best friend to friend zone you, or to let you subtly know that he is not in a good place for a relationship right now. He could also like you, and calling you his best friend could be his way of not making you feel uncomfortable by hitting on you. It seems like it could be either option right now, and his behavior could be due to being a friend or because he is interested. Perhaps you could ask one of your friends what they think–often, outsiders have a better idea of when someone is interested than the two people who are actually involved. Good luck, Kimberly!
Kallee
February 29, 2016 at 4:41 pm
I am 13, and I really like this guy. He is in a lot of my classes and I can never get him out of my head. He is really nice to me, and he acts like he likes me but he seems to do that with everyone. I’m not popular, but he is. I’m not a nerd either though? He stares at me a lot. I really don’t know if he does or if her doesn’t. All my friend say he does, and other people say we would be cute together… I’m all confused.
web admin
March 1, 2016 at 10:01 am
If he acts like he likes you, then it is entirely possible. After all, love knows no bounds. The fact that he is more popular does not mean that he is not interested in you–if he is interested, the difference in your social statuses wouldn’t even matter to him. If your friends think that he is interested, listen to them. It is often much easier for other people to tell if someone is interested than the couple involved. Best of luck, Kallee!