60 Flirty Text Messages
After text messaging with someone for awhile, things can get kind of plain and boring. If your feeling like your text messaging life needs a boost, why not try out one of these 60 flirty text messages? We’ve got everything from cute and silly to spicy and romantic- take your pick!
1. Hey you 😉
This is a great, simple text message to start a conversation. Plus it’s flirty thanks to the winking smiley face. Win, win situation here!
2. Good morning handsome. Have a great day!
This isn’t just your average good morning text. It’s a compliment and a well wish all in one, and that’s a winning, flirty combination!
3. Would you rather do you homework or come hang out with me?
If you want to hang out with your crush, ask him this. You really think he will pick homework over you? Doubt it!
4. Ugh, I have a problem. I can’t stop thinking about you.
This is so funny and cute! At first he will be thinking you have an actual dilemma, but the only problem is he’s stuck on your mind- and he will love that.
5. You look good in that new shirt.
Is he wearing something extra cute today? Why not let him know with a flirty, complimenting text message.
6. Blue is definitely your color 😉
Again, this is a great compliment that lets him know it isn’t just the shirt- but anything blue makes him look amazing. Don’t forget the winking smiley face!
7. I’m so bored! Wanna go on an adventure?
Dates don’t always have to be for dinners and movies; sometimes you just wanna have fun! Invite him out for an exciting day or afternoon and see the sparks fly.
8. This homework is killing me! I can’t do anymore. Save me?
Men love to be the hero- even when it comes to simple, silly things like these.
9. Good luck on your game tonight. You’ll do awesome and look sexy doing it 😉
Everyone gets nervous before a big event, whether it’s a game, speech, or outing. Boost his confidence by not only wishing him good luck, but telling him how great and handsome he is!
10. We just landed in Hawaii. Ugh, I wish you were here!
Did you go on an exciting trip and miss your crush? Then you need to tell him!
11. Happy Birthday! If you could have one wish, what would it be? 😉
This might sound like a normal Happy Birthday statement, but the winking smiley face at the end lets him know you might have some R rated thoughts on your mind. Wonder what he will come up with?
12. I’m trying on these new bras, but I need a second opinion. Care to share your thoughts?
Warning: he might need a new phone after slobbering over his when he sees this text message! Be prepared to send him into a lustful daze with a few pictures of your new bra!
13. Come over, I have all your favorites. Pizza, beer, and of course, ME.
Let’s be honest: what guy could possibly resist that? He will be flying over to your house as quickly as possible with this flirty and alluring text!
14. OMG, you were amazing last night.
Trust me, every guy wants to hear this compliment. It’s what he lives for, and you’ll definitely see a boost in confidence the next time you guys are ‘together’.
15. Can’t wait to see you tonight. I think you’re going to like what you see 😉
If you’re planning to see him later on, why not get him excited? He’ll love reading this and you’ll definitely spark his interest.
16. Hmm, should I wear the red panties or the black ones? Can’t decide..
All men love to have input when it comes to the panty department. Seriously, ask him this question.
17. I could seriously use a little bit of testosterone in my life..
If he isn’t very suave, he might not get this text message. But 99% of men will know that you’re ‘testosterone’ comment is really a G rated way to say you want him.
18. When he asks what you’re doing, tell him you just got out of the shower.
He will probably start daydreaming about you dripping wet in nothing but foam suds. Yeah, he will certainly enjoy that.
19. I’ve been thinking about you all day.
Because everyone likes to know they are on someone’s mind.
20. Follow up with… it hasn’t all been rated G either.
This lets him know you’re not only thinking about HIM, but thinking about YOU and him- ‘together’.
21. Send me a picture 😉
Hopefully he will catch onto the winking smiley face and slip you a sexy picture. Then the ‘sexting’ can ensue.
22. Where have you been hiding?
When he texts you out of the blue, this is a cute way of telling him you’ve missed him and are very pleased he sent you a text message.
23. Hey cutie. Haven’t talked to you in awhile. Thought I’d say hello!
If you haven’t talked to him for awhile, send him this. This compliments him while also letting him know he’s been on your mind.
24. Sweet dreams….with me in them 😉
It’s one thing to wish someone sweet dreams before they go to bed. It’s a whole other thing to wish them sweet dreams with YOU in them. He will certainly like the sound of that and close his eyes to his imagination running ramped.
25. Oooooh, I like the sound of that 😉
If he texts you something flirty or alluring, this is always a winning response (for obvious reasons).
26. Follow up with… Tell me more 😉
Combine these two if you’re really in the mood to turn him on, as these texts combine let him know you love what you hear and you’re sitting on pins and needles to hear more of his sexy comments.
27. I’m just laying in bed, bored. Care to join?
Perfect for those boring weekday nights when you’re in bed but don’t want to miss out on any of the fun. Either he’ll come over or you guys can have an enticing text message conversation until wee hours of the morning.
28. I really like our friendship, but I was thinking… maybe we could be friends with benefits?
Wow. His jaw will literally drop to the floor when he sees this. It’s definitely what every man wants to hear!
29. Let’s hang out tonight. I promise you won’t regret it 😉
Hmmm, have something sexy and fun planned tonight? This lets him know that he is in for a REAL treat. Just don’t flake on your promise ladies!
30. Let’s play 20 question. What’s your name? What’s your favorite color? Wanna go out with me Saturday night?
He will NEVER see it coming- and that’s what we love about it! Who could resist this totally not obvious and adorable way of asking someone out?
31. Randomly text him… Hey! Stop thinking about me!
This will undoubtedly put a smile on your face, and he will either tease you and say that you weren’t, or he’ll say ‘how did you know’? Either way, it’s a winner in our book!
32. Hey, I was wondering, do you believe in love at first sight? Or do I need to walk by you again?
Come on, I got a giggle out of writing this silly yet flirty text message! Put a definite smile on his face with this funny text.
33. I just woke up and you’re already on my mind.
What better way to say good morning to someone than with this adorable, flirty text?
34. Mmm, sexy. I love a man that can (fill in the blank).
This is a GREAT text message for any situation. Let’s say you asked him what he was doing and he said he was making dinner. Why not send him this text as a response? It works for almost anything: cooking, cleaning, working on a motorcycle, playing a musical instrument- anything!
35. I know you have a busy day ahead of you, but could you add me on to your to-do list?
This is sexy, and he won’t even see it coming. And let’s face it: we ALL enjoy texts like these. This will definitely turn him on, and he won’t be able to help himself buy say OF COURSE!
36. You have the most amazing (fill in the blank).
Again, this is an easy and flirty text that can let you say almost anything. You could say his smile his amazing, his eyes are amazing, or even his personality is amazing. It really doesn’t matter what you say- this text message is bound to make him smile.
37. I want to take you home with me and pleasure you in ways you didn’t know possible.
Wow. This steamy text message is certainly not for new relationships. But if you and your crush or boyfriend have been at it for awhile, why not send him this sexy message and get the fireworks flying? C’mon, you know he will absolutely love this text message. Be brave and let him know!
38. You make me feel so (fill in the blank).
Does he make you happy? Does he make you feel complete? Does he make you feel ‘hot’? Any text that lets him know he makes you feel a certain way is definitely a winner in our books.
39. I love your lips.
Of course, this is a spicy and romantic text message that boost his confidence and lets him know that yes, it is OK to kiss you and you absolutely love it.
40. Follow with… I can’t wait to taste them again.
There’s something about the waiting game that drives us all mad. So telling him you can’t wait to kiss him and taste him again is a surefire way to peek his interest and make him feel all warm and intense on the inside.
41. If I could rearrange the alphabet, I would definitely put U and I together.
You’ve probably seen this clever text message on other websites or even television shows, and for good reason! This cute text message is flirty and clever all wrapped up into one, easy and quick text message. It will definitely make him smile!!
42. Come over. Now.
Sometimes guys like it when women are a little demanding. This will peek his interest for 2 reasons. One, your being assertive and most men find that a very attractive trait. And for two, why do you want him over? And not just tonight or sometime this week, but NOW? Do you have something special planned? He will be running over before you can even send the next text message!
43. Dang, you look extra hot today.
People love to hear that they look good today. And saying something as simple as this will boost his confidence incredibly fast. He might just do a few more struts passed you so you can get an ever better look.
44. Have you been working out?
There’s only one reason why you would ever ask a guy that they’ve been working out: there muscles look bigger (or they look better overall). So if you’re asking him if he’s hit up the gym lately, you’re clearly stating that he’s caught your attention because he looks so great. To put it plainly. this text message simply can’t go wrong.
45. Mmm, come over here. I want to touch you.
Every man wants to be touched. End of story. This text will undoubtedly turn him on and he won’t want to wait another second to come closer to you.
46. Can’t wait to see you XOXO
At the end of the day, we all just want to be wanted- right? This text will make him feel special. It will make him feel wanted. And that’s something that will definitely make him happy and excited to see you too!
47. Guess what I’m wearing right now.
This will really make his imagination run wild. Are you wearing a sexy dress? Maybe a piece of lingerie? Who knows! Just prepared to send him a picture of what you’re wearing afterwards.
48. I was just telling my friends about you. They’re so jealous 😉
You’re talking to your friends about him? Yeah. Guys LOVE that. And they also love to know that they are making your friends jealous. Plus the winking smily face lets him know you told them ALL the details- and they are even more jealous about THAT.
49. I had a dream about you last night. It was definitely R-rated…
This can only mean one thing: you had a naughty dream about him. Be ready to fill him in with all the dirty details!
50. Did you know I can do the splits?
Men love a girl that is flexible. This sparks interest because he will want to see just how flexible you can be.
51. I’ve been a bad girl today. I need a spanking.
Men love it when a nice girl can be dirty, and they love it even more when they can spank her for it. Send him this text message and drive him WILD.
52. Talk dirty to me.
It might be on the spot, but men thrive on that! He will want to show you how passionate and exciting he can be over text messages. And trust us, you’ll love all of the things he comes up with trying to impress you and turn you on.
53. Don’t waste all of your energy at work today. You’ll need some extra energy for later…
He’ll be thinking, “Oh really? For what?” Maybe you have something extra spicy planned for tonight. The point is to get him thinking all day long and let the intensity build up so he’s ready to go at it all night when he gets home.
54. Ugh, I was rushing out of the house and totally forgot to wear a bra.
I’m pretty sure his jaw will drop after reading this, and soon after his imagination will kick in, day dreaming about how alluring you look in a top without a bra on.
55. I found my old cheerleading outfit. It still fits…
Every man has a fantasy about a girl in a cheerleading outfit. I don’t know why, don’t ask me. The point is- it’s just a fact about men, and he will love to hear this. Be ready to showcase it for him!
56. Ugh, I’ve had a horrible day. I need to unwind… 😉
I wonder what you have in mind? What better way to unwind than to…. (you fill in the blank).
57. Can you guess the color of the underwear I’m wearing?
Men like to talk about girls and their underwear. And that’s just that.
58. I’ve never met a man that can (fill in the blank) as well as you.
This could be something G or X rated- you make the call!
59. If I were with you right now, what would we be doing?
Get inside of his head!
60. I’m trying to fall asleep, but I can’t stop thinking about you!
This is just too cute for words.
What’s your favorite flirty text?
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Emma
October 9, 2015 at 4:42 am
Dear web admin my name is Emma and I would like to say thank you for your help I talked to the guy and we’re great now he loves me and I love him but we are just going to be friends for a while until every thing settles down thanks for your help
web admin
October 10, 2015 at 3:46 pm
That sounds like great news, Emma. I am happy to hear that you were able to figure things out. Good luck and let me know if you need any more help!
guy
October 13, 2015 at 4:47 pm
Great job friendzoning the dude! Way to go!
web admin
October 15, 2015 at 4:14 pm
She is not friendzoning if she told him that she is interested and he is interested as well. They are just waiting for things to settle down a bit before they date.
My boyfriend
October 4, 2015 at 9:14 am
Sorry I think you misunderstood my question,
Let me just say my relationship is not going well and I haven’t kissed a boy in my life and don’t know how to kiss my boyfriend since he asked me to.. We also don’t see much of each other or talk much… So would really like some tips
web admin
October 5, 2015 at 2:08 am
Could you explain exactly what happened to make you not see or talk to him very much? It seems a little odd to be in a relationship with someone that you are not around a lot. As for kissing him, it is something that will come naturally. You can watch as many videos or ask as many friends as you want, but it is really just doing it and practicing that will make you better. Fortunately, I doubt that your boyfriend would have a problem with helping you learn–and it really is not as intimidating or hard as you think.
Good luck!
Yes mee
October 3, 2015 at 1:47 pm
hii im 16 and im dating a guy since one year he really likes me but he flirts with girls. Nd i hate it . What should i do?
web admin
October 5, 2015 at 7:45 pm
If he flirts with other girls and you do not like it, then talk to him about it. He might not even realize that he is flirting or he may just think that it is not a big deal. If you express how you feel and let him know that you would like him to stop, then it should help you to resolve your problem. As long as he really cares about you, he will listen to your worries and try to make you happy. Good luck!
Emma
October 2, 2015 at 6:28 pm
Hi my name is Emma I’m 16 and me and my boyfriend just broke up because of some different things that’s been going on at school I really like him and I still want to be with him do you have any suggestions on how I could get him back because I love him I think he still loves me I really want him back could u help?
web admin
October 2, 2015 at 7:50 pm
I think the easiest way would be to just talk to him about how you feel. If you are open, honest and communicate what you want, you are more likely to get it. At the very least, you will be able to figure out right away if he would want to date you again or if you should just plan on moving on with your life right away. Good luck, Emma!
My boyfriend
October 2, 2015 at 4:12 am
There was this boy who was friends with the boys in my class, so they told me he likes me…I have noticed often he looks at me…So there came a time when the boys in my class told me he wants to talk to me (lol, was so nervous) when I went to go see him he told me he likes me and wants to date me, so said yes! So the following day he asked me for a kiss and I told him I am not ready!! A few weeks passed and this boy who I think has a crush on me told me my boyfriend is cheating on me, confronted him and he said the person is lying.. He stopped going to school cos we were done with exams, but he waited with me in the mornings at the bus stop… I am a shy person so I don’t talk much to him… Somedays he will be in a hurry and all we say to. Each other is Hi and bye… Please could you help me to inprove our relationship!!
web admin
October 2, 2015 at 4:19 pm
Wait–so the boy you like asked you for a kiss while you are with your boyfriend? And you have a crush on someone while you are dating someone else? Although it is normal to feel an attraction for other guys when you are in a relationship, you should not encourage that behavior. If you want to break up with your boyfriend, then break up with him first before you move on to someone new. If you do not plan on breaking up with your boyfriend, then you should probably not kiss or flirt with another guy. Doing so could cause your current relationship to end, and it will bring a lot of stress into your life.
Denishia
September 29, 2015 at 8:42 pm
Thanks for the great date nights ideas. I will probably ask him if he wants to come over to my house to watch some movies on Netflix and pizza!
web admin
September 29, 2015 at 9:36 pm
That sounds like a great idea–I may have to do that myself tonight. There are few new series on Netflix that look pretty good.
Have fun, Denishia!
Denishia
September 30, 2015 at 3:31 am
I love Netflix!! I’m watching Gotham right now, thanks again!!
Shay
September 29, 2015 at 3:24 pm
There’s this guy and he said he wants a kiss from me! He likes me a lot. I like him a lot. He thinks about me. How do I get him to ask me out?
web admin
September 29, 2015 at 10:38 pm
Instead of getting him to ask you out, why don’t you ask him out? You already knows that he likes you, and he has even told you that he wants to kiss you. There is no reason that you could not ask him out. He may be too nervous to do it himself, or he may take too long to get around to doing it. If you want to have him as your boyfriend without waiting forever, then just ask him!
Denishia
September 28, 2015 at 11:41 pm
Hi,
My name is Denishia I’m a 20 years old college student and I’m currently interested in this guy Edward who is 18 years old high school senior. Me and Edward use to date back when I was 15 years old and he was 13 years old, our relationship lasted for about three months because his grades was slipping and his mom had broke us up. Five years later we had reconnected, He had a girlfriend at the time but had broke up with her because he wasn’t interested in her. I want us to date but we are taking things slow because for one he is still in high school and we won’t be able to do much, and I want to fall in love with him like I did five years ago. What do you think?
web admin
September 29, 2015 at 1:04 am
I think that taking things slow sounds like a good idea. Go hiking, go out to dinner, see a movie or make pottery together–have adventures and activities that help you to bond and develop your relationship again. In a relationship, it will be important to have date activities that help you to remain close to each other, so it would be great if you could get in the habit of doing that now. Plus, it will help you to fall in love with each other again.
Curious Fool
September 21, 2015 at 5:49 pm
Hello…
I would like to know what way can you prevent pregnancy 100%, I am scared to have sex because of this reason and would like that!!!
Ps. I’m still a teen
web admin
September 22, 2015 at 2:08 am
There is no way to prevent pregnancy 100 percent other than abstinence. With that said, I believe the IUD is over 99 percent effective and there is a birth control shot as well. When condoms are used correctly every time, that works about 80 percent. Since birth control medications do not protect against STDs, you will want to use a condom as well—especially since the person that you sleep with right now will not be the person that you marry in all likelihood. As an added benefit, using birth control pills/the shot/an IUD as well as a condom will provide you an even higher protection from getting pregnant. To figure out which birth control is the best and safest for you to use, schedule an appointment with your doctor and talk it over with them.
Please Help
September 19, 2015 at 4:44 am
Well the person who told me doesn’t like me and the other is a boy who I think has a crush on me…When we are together he is so sweet and kind to me… Also I am new at dating so I dnt know how to act, what to say.
web admin
September 19, 2015 at 8:35 pm
Do you like the second guy? If you do like him, then it should be easy enough to ask him out or see if he wants to hang out with you sometime. As for the first guy, I would not bother with him. If you know that he does not like you, then it would be extremely difficult to change his mind. Instead, I would just focus on the guy that you already know could be interested in you.
Please Help
September 17, 2015 at 1:30 pm
Hi, this guy asked me out and he is kinda cute and he looked like he really likes me so I said yes…someone told me that he has been cheating on me so I asked him about this and he said that person is lying…we have only been dating for three weeks now and I don’t know if this relationship is working or if he really does like me.
web admin
September 17, 2015 at 7:50 pm
In general, it is not a good idea to listen to what other people say about your relationship, unless they are a very close, trusted friend. The other person may have misinterpreted something or they may have their own reasons for lying. If your crush is dating you, you can essentially assume that he does like you. He just probably has problems showing it right now. What do you think? Do you like him as much as he likes you? Is there anything going on or weird behavior that would make you think that he is cheating on you? Who was it that told you that he may be cheating?
Megan
September 1, 2015 at 5:25 pm
Hello, I posted this before but put wrong email. so I started a new job about 3 months ago and there is a really nice guy that I have started to like. I think about him all the time. Every time we pass each other we smile and exchange eye contact. He also looks at me every time he passes. We occasionally say hi but we are always in a rush. We where finally in the lift together but I couldn’t talk I started sweating and having butterfly’s. But recently we have been staring at each other more. So I looked him up on Facebook and sent him a message saying ‘hey, hope you don’t mind me adding you’ but he never replied. He is also hardly ever on Facebook. I don’t want to be creepy and find out his number. I want to talk to him and ask him out but really don’t know what to say as we have never had a full conversation. I don’t want to ask him in work as my work place is very busy and could be embarrassing for the both of us. Please help and does he like me?
web admin
September 2, 2015 at 10:56 pm
I responded to your first comment below–just look for the response that was posted to see the answer. As for worrying about what to say, just start with hello and go from there. You can ask him what he has planned for the weekend or how his week is going. If he is interested in you, he will give you a longer response or ask questions to keep the conversation going. Also, there is no way to figure out if he likes you or not yet because not enough has happened. Try talking to him at work when you get a chance so that you can better gauge his interest level. Good luck, Megan!
kandy
October 2, 2015 at 1:27 pm
hi it is kandy,
it is sure that there is chemistry between you guys and consequently no reason to give up, you just courage to talk to each other. just keep on, matters of the heart are never easy.
web admin
October 2, 2015 at 4:41 pm
That sounds like excellent advice, Kandy. I am sure that Megan will appreciate it. Thanks for commenting!
Megan
September 1, 2015 at 5:05 pm
Hello, so I have just started a new job3 months ago and there is a really cute guy that I am really starting to like. Everyday when we are passing we are smiling at each other. When we pass we say hi but we are always in a rush and haven’t got time to speak to each other. Every time we pass each other he is always looking in my direction and we catch each other’s eye. So I looked him up on Facebook and added him and sent a message saying ‘hey, hope you don’t mind me adding you’ but he didn’t reply. we where in the lift together alone and I couldn’t bring my self to speak to him I was too nervous. Does he like me? I really want to ask him out but I don’t want to come across needy! Please help
web admin
September 2, 2015 at 10:54 pm
I would wait a bit to see if he accepts your friend request. He might not use Facebook very often or he may not use the messaging part of Facebook. Wait a week and see if he accepts your friend request. If he has not, then there is always a chance that he just does not use Facebook. If this is the case, you can try to say hello to him in person and start a conversation. With any luck, he will be as interested in you as you are in him.
Zar
August 23, 2015 at 3:55 pm
Hi… I’m in love with one guy almost 4 yrs . In the beginning he love me so much .. But he change so much & I still love him ,right now he’s not here he’s gone to meet his family every day & night I text him but sometimes he didn’t and make all the time excuse I know very well he tell me lie . I help with him so much like he wasn’t PR @ haven’t Visa .. He did neka with me but just front of Goverment eye .. So many times I asked him lets get married and I want to all your family and friends know about . All the time he ignor he said no way how can I say to my family ?? I know very well they not acepet u .. But I really want him to be my real husband not just paper work husband .. Please help me what should I do ??
web admin
August 23, 2015 at 4:53 pm
Have you tried talking to him about this? Marrying him to help with his visa was an extremely nice thing for you to do, but now it looks like you have the difficulty of being with someone who is just a paperwork husband. Perhaps you could just sit him down, tell him how you feel and let him know that you want to be more than just his wife on paperwork. Let me know what his response is, and I can try to help you out more. Good luck, Zar!
Confused
August 18, 2015 at 3:39 am
Hi,
I would like some advice/insight from an outsider.
I met a a guy online and chatted for about a year, we finally made plans to go out. That was one of the best “dates” that I have been on. We met at a sports bar and got along great. After the date he text me and told me how much fun he had and how awesome and beautiful I was. A week goes by and we met up again and another great date.
He mentioned that he wouldn’t and hasn’t ever made the first move. I am a very shy person and don’t know what to make of it. Is that his way of telling me he doesn’t see me as anything more than a friend?
We have discussed getting together again and I’m wondering if I should try to make the first move. He did mention that he is into the “chase” and I have no problem with letting the sparks fly to fuel the fire but aside from telling him I enjoy his company how else would I let him know that I’d like to try and establish something more?
web admin
August 19, 2015 at 7:38 pm
Hmm…he seems to be a bit confusing, to say the least. His first comment, “I never make the first move”, is what shyer guys say so that their date knows that they will have to make a move first. The second comment about wanting to do the chase makes it sounds like he wants to be the one pursuing you. Since you guys did meet on an online dating site, chances are that he is looking for some type of relationship, commitment or fling. I suppose the best thing that you can do–if you want to–is to just make a move like holding his hand or leaning in for a kiss. Afterward, let him pursue you and he can have both of his opposing wishes.
juliana
August 14, 2015 at 4:07 pm
** Sorry for my bad English,I am not good at it**
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I am in relationship with a guy that I really love, we have been hate each other before and we turned into best-friends , we talked a lot then he fell in love with me , but always i was escaping and didn’t want to be more than friends with him. after a few months we always were fighting about little things and the real reason that i hated him very much for no reason while he was loving me so much and wants to find a thousands way to be with him in a relationship. after a few years I saw him and we talked to each other and asked me “what are we now? friends or what? ” , at this time I fell in love with him and since 29.5.2015 we are together. he was really caring of me at first time but now there is a little difference , He is very busy at his work and i appreciate , I don’t see him so much , I’m really sad about that but I just appreciate . but that’s not the problem , the real problem that He don’t let me to talk to other boys while he get a girls that work with him at his works from their home to work , I am sad because he do what he doesn’t let me to do , He says to me always ” No, no and no” but when he do something that i don’t like I can’t say “no” , the second reason that we don’t talk too much , just ” good morning ” and we talk at middle night when he arrives to home a little bit and he goes to sleep. I don’t feel that he cares about me like before, he was having a free time more than now , and he was caring about me more than now! There is a lot of reasons that hurting me but I don’t want to do . I try to find ways to let him wants me more , and feel with my feeling , feel with me that i don’t like what he is doing , i just want him to know his fault and to know that I miss him so much and i can’t live without him.
he always says that i need to talk to my mom about our relationship ,
and the fact is I really want to talk to her about him but the real problem that I am afraid to talk to her about my boyfriend and then we fight and break up! I don’t want this to happen but what he is doing let me not talk to my mother. I can’t hide this anymore. I need solutions for all of this.
web admin
August 15, 2015 at 6:58 pm
You should tell him that either you can talk to other guys or he cannot talk to other girls. It is understandable that he does not want you to talk to other guys, but he should be held to the same standard. Get him to choose: either you both get to talk to the opposite gender or neither of you do. If he is unwilling to hold himself to the same high standard that he holds you too, then forget about him. It is not fair for him to expect so much out of you when he does so little. Also, I would potentially be wary: I could not understand for sure if this is what you meant, but it sounds like he has stopped you from talking to your mom. If that is the case, then you should leave immediately. Limiting your relationships with friends and family members is a sign of an abusive, controlling relationship. I may have just misread your message, but if this is the case, then be very, very careful and get out while you can.
Evelyn
August 23, 2015 at 6:27 pm
i think u should tell him this
web admin
August 23, 2015 at 8:20 pm
Excellent advice, Evelyn. Thank you for commenting!
Dom
August 12, 2015 at 10:34 pm
So my boyfriend hasn’t texted me in two days,and I sent him two text messages.he read them but didn’t reply should I continue to be patient or just text him?
web admin
August 13, 2015 at 11:50 pm
It looks like you may have commented twice on this one! If your comment appears right away, don’t worry because it will. I have to read and respond to each message individually, so it can sometimes take a while. Read through my first response and let me know if you have any questions! Thanks for commenting!
Dom
August 12, 2015 at 9:32 pm
So my boyfriend hasn’t texted me in two days and I sent him two text messages and he read them but never replied what do I do should I continue to be patient or just text him?
web admin
August 13, 2015 at 11:49 pm
I would not text him. If he is super busy and could not respond, then it will make you seem clingy or it could annoy him. And if he is considering a break up, texting him even more often would not help anything. As hard as it is, the only thing that you can do right now is wait–and if you get a chance, talk to him in person to see what is going on. You will be much better at judging his real feelings in person than you would via text anyways.
Kira
August 14, 2015 at 7:29 pm
it probably means hes trying to say that he doesn’t love you anymore. hes probably trying to break up with u or he might just be really busy and have no wifi or credit x
Rena
August 12, 2015 at 8:54 pm
I was going out with this guy for about 5 months it was a serious relationship. We never had an argument, we never had a disagreement. When I look back, I had the best relationship with this guy !!! And then he text stating that ” worried not falling into a deeper connection, even though I really like you “. So we did not speak for a couple of months or so. No one text! So out of the blue decided to text him because I saw him at a movie. And wanted to make sure it was him. It turned out it was. We text each other. He asked me to go the beach with him the next day. So that was a first date after a long time. Now, we had catched up on life, we both had so much to say. And we played paddle ball on the beach too. All in all we had a great time that day !!! Something was missing and it was the emotion. I wanted to show him how I felt. But it was difficult to show in public because I am traditional girl, and a God fearing girl. I’m sure in his eyes the date probably felt like friends. But that’s not the signals I wanted to convey to him. So the next day I text him, letting him know that “I had a great time, I am thankful for going to the beach with him and playing paddle ball” Then he text back “the best part is hanging out with me and knowing that we can be friends”. I felt like it was the end of the world. I really was not trying to perceive the date as friends, “I want to be more then just friends.” In fact I text him that too. Then he text me back, ” that he wants to be friends, and he is not ready for more, and has doubts about having a long term relationship, and he said if we can’t be friends then just let him know, but right now he wants to be friends” This was his last text I received from him. I have not responded to it. It’s been almost two weeks without communication. This is how I feel about the situation, I really like him, I think it’s more then like I love this guy, I think about him everyday. When we are together we have the best time. It’s beautiful!!! I want to see him and or text him, but I just don’t know what to say to him, especially it’s been so long. One more thing , we are friends on Facebook, he hasn’t posted anything since he said he wants to be friends. And he usually post things about work or stuff about life in general. Haven’t seen a thing in the last couple of weeks. Which is making me think, hope he is okay.
Please help what do I do in this situation. I want to text him, but I just don’t know what to say to him, like I said I really like this guy, it’s more then like, I love him , just haven’t expressed that to him. And now he wants to be friends, what can I do to send the right signals to him. Thanks for your Assistance ! May the good Lord bless you in a special way, as you continue to help others. Bless your business.
web admin
August 13, 2015 at 11:47 pm
It sounds like you are in a rather unfortunate situation! I do not think that you have done anything wrong–you do not have to throw yourself at someone for them to like you, and you were just being yourself. It seems like he just is not interested in a relationship, and he never moved past just the initial attraction. Unfortunately, this can happen sometimes. If you can handle being friends with him, then go ahead and do it–sometimes, friends end up falling in love after all. Be aware though, that transitioning to friends to something more can take years. My current husband was actually my friend first, but I was never interested in him in high school and we remained close friends. It might not always work to be friends and hope for more, but it worked for my husband–plus, right now, it seems like your best bet. Good luck!
Advice
August 12, 2015 at 3:41 pm
I’ve been talking to this guy who live long distance but comes close to where I live on the weekends. I like him and I kind of think he feels the same. I want to ask him if he wants to hang out this weekend. He’s just not the most forth coming when talking.
web admin
August 13, 2015 at 10:18 pm
I don’t see anything wrong with hanging out–friends hang out all of the time, so it is not like he would assume it was a date and say no. Plus, you will get a better idea about how he feels by actually talking to him in person. It is so much easier to tell if someone is interested in person than it is online. Go for it!