60 Flirty Text Messages
After text messaging with someone for awhile, things can get kind of plain and boring. If your feeling like your text messaging life needs a boost, why not try out one of these 60 flirty text messages? We’ve got everything from cute and silly to spicy and romantic- take your pick!
1. Hey you 😉
This is a great, simple text message to start a conversation. Plus it’s flirty thanks to the winking smiley face. Win, win situation here!
2. Good morning handsome. Have a great day!
This isn’t just your average good morning text. It’s a compliment and a well wish all in one, and that’s a winning, flirty combination!
3. Would you rather do you homework or come hang out with me?
If you want to hang out with your crush, ask him this. You really think he will pick homework over you? Doubt it!
4. Ugh, I have a problem. I can’t stop thinking about you.
This is so funny and cute! At first he will be thinking you have an actual dilemma, but the only problem is he’s stuck on your mind- and he will love that.
5. You look good in that new shirt.
Is he wearing something extra cute today? Why not let him know with a flirty, complimenting text message.
6. Blue is definitely your color 😉
Again, this is a great compliment that lets him know it isn’t just the shirt- but anything blue makes him look amazing. Don’t forget the winking smiley face!
7. I’m so bored! Wanna go on an adventure?
Dates don’t always have to be for dinners and movies; sometimes you just wanna have fun! Invite him out for an exciting day or afternoon and see the sparks fly.
8. This homework is killing me! I can’t do anymore. Save me?
Men love to be the hero- even when it comes to simple, silly things like these.
9. Good luck on your game tonight. You’ll do awesome and look sexy doing it 😉
Everyone gets nervous before a big event, whether it’s a game, speech, or outing. Boost his confidence by not only wishing him good luck, but telling him how great and handsome he is!
10. We just landed in Hawaii. Ugh, I wish you were here!
Did you go on an exciting trip and miss your crush? Then you need to tell him!
11. Happy Birthday! If you could have one wish, what would it be? 😉
This might sound like a normal Happy Birthday statement, but the winking smiley face at the end lets him know you might have some R rated thoughts on your mind. Wonder what he will come up with?
12. I’m trying on these new bras, but I need a second opinion. Care to share your thoughts?
Warning: he might need a new phone after slobbering over his when he sees this text message! Be prepared to send him into a lustful daze with a few pictures of your new bra!
13. Come over, I have all your favorites. Pizza, beer, and of course, ME.
Let’s be honest: what guy could possibly resist that? He will be flying over to your house as quickly as possible with this flirty and alluring text!
14. OMG, you were amazing last night.
Trust me, every guy wants to hear this compliment. It’s what he lives for, and you’ll definitely see a boost in confidence the next time you guys are ‘together’.
15. Can’t wait to see you tonight. I think you’re going to like what you see 😉
If you’re planning to see him later on, why not get him excited? He’ll love reading this and you’ll definitely spark his interest.
16. Hmm, should I wear the red panties or the black ones? Can’t decide..
All men love to have input when it comes to the panty department. Seriously, ask him this question.
17. I could seriously use a little bit of testosterone in my life..
If he isn’t very suave, he might not get this text message. But 99% of men will know that you’re ‘testosterone’ comment is really a G rated way to say you want him.
18. When he asks what you’re doing, tell him you just got out of the shower.
He will probably start daydreaming about you dripping wet in nothing but foam suds. Yeah, he will certainly enjoy that.
19. I’ve been thinking about you all day.
Because everyone likes to know they are on someone’s mind.
20. Follow up with… it hasn’t all been rated G either.
This lets him know you’re not only thinking about HIM, but thinking about YOU and him- ‘together’.
21. Send me a picture 😉
Hopefully he will catch onto the winking smiley face and slip you a sexy picture. Then the ‘sexting’ can ensue.
22. Where have you been hiding?
When he texts you out of the blue, this is a cute way of telling him you’ve missed him and are very pleased he sent you a text message.
23. Hey cutie. Haven’t talked to you in awhile. Thought I’d say hello!
If you haven’t talked to him for awhile, send him this. This compliments him while also letting him know he’s been on your mind.
24. Sweet dreams….with me in them 😉
It’s one thing to wish someone sweet dreams before they go to bed. It’s a whole other thing to wish them sweet dreams with YOU in them. He will certainly like the sound of that and close his eyes to his imagination running ramped.
25. Oooooh, I like the sound of that 😉
If he texts you something flirty or alluring, this is always a winning response (for obvious reasons).
26. Follow up with… Tell me more 😉
Combine these two if you’re really in the mood to turn him on, as these texts combine let him know you love what you hear and you’re sitting on pins and needles to hear more of his sexy comments.
27. I’m just laying in bed, bored. Care to join?
Perfect for those boring weekday nights when you’re in bed but don’t want to miss out on any of the fun. Either he’ll come over or you guys can have an enticing text message conversation until wee hours of the morning.
28. I really like our friendship, but I was thinking… maybe we could be friends with benefits?
Wow. His jaw will literally drop to the floor when he sees this. It’s definitely what every man wants to hear!
29. Let’s hang out tonight. I promise you won’t regret it 😉
Hmmm, have something sexy and fun planned tonight? This lets him know that he is in for a REAL treat. Just don’t flake on your promise ladies!
30. Let’s play 20 question. What’s your name? What’s your favorite color? Wanna go out with me Saturday night?
He will NEVER see it coming- and that’s what we love about it! Who could resist this totally not obvious and adorable way of asking someone out?
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Kaylah
February 25, 2016 at 12:34 pm
My crush likes me and I like him but he doesn’t know that and its weird to text him and I really like him what should I do and how should I txt him
web admin
February 26, 2016 at 11:39 pm
Just text him “hello”. You do not have to be super fancy to start a conversation. Most people start with “How are you?” or “How’s it going?”. Afterward, you can reply based on his answer. If he seems like he wants to keep the conversation going, then keep talking to him. Considering the fact that you already know that he likes you, I feel like it is a fairly safe bet that he wants to text you back. Make a move quickly though or he may end up giving up before long.
Abby
February 20, 2016 at 8:27 pm
So I really like thus guy and we will start having a conversation and all of the sudden he’ll stop texting me.
web admin
February 21, 2016 at 12:56 pm
He could be busy all of a sudden, distracted or he could have fallen asleep. I would not worry about it at all. Keep talking to him, get to know him better and see if he is interested. Best of luck, Abby!
Maria
January 31, 2016 at 3:28 pm
I’m with this guy for more than 3 months we had a big age gap. I’m really interested on him. We constantly dating now a days but I’m still clueless in everything between me and him. He used to tell me he really care about me and he’s happy being with me. Things bit little complicated maybe bcz where from different nationality and he’s view in life. I feel like I’m in a open relationship. But where both happy on each other company. I dnt know if I have to continue this. I just badly need ur advice. Thank you so much
web admin
February 6, 2016 at 9:02 am
If you have dated him for three months, it would be perfectly fine to talk to him about the status of your relationship. This is a normal point in the relationship for couples to decide if they are exclusive and if they are actually in a relationship. If you do not want to continue the relationship, now would be a good time to end things before it gets too serious. Likewise, now would be a good time to clarify your relationship status if you want to take things to the next level. The age gap does not necessarily matter as long as neither of you cares that it is there. Good luck, Maria!
AmmarJ
January 29, 2016 at 12:43 am
Hey I’ve known this guy since high school but then he was just a friend but now after 8 years i started talking to him.. He’s such a nice guy and would spend his time to chat with me.. We’re on a long distance.. How I know if he like me or not plus
web admin
January 29, 2016 at 8:19 pm
The fact that he continues to talk to you is a sign that he could be interested. Unless he is just really lonely right now, it seems like he probably does like you. You could always tell him how you feel and see what happens. He may be unwilling to have a long distance relationship because of the difficulties, but you will never know unless you ask him. Good luck, Ammarj!
Izzy
January 23, 2016 at 7:03 pm
There’s this guy I meet at a party and I can’t stop thinking about him and I’ve been messing him for a couple of days and our conversation is is getting a bit boring and I don’t want him to get bored of me help!!!
web admin
January 27, 2016 at 10:14 am
Why don’t you ask him if he wants to hang out in person? It is a lot easier to keep a conversation going in real life, especially if you do not know that person very well. Plus, it will give you a chance to figure out if you guys are actually compatible in the real world. Ask him to hang out, meet you for coffee or go on a date, and you will be able to see where things can go. Good luck, Izzy!
dooodo
January 13, 2016 at 9:58 pm
I have been talking to thus guy I got from a dating site . I think I feel in love with him in his photos although his in Turkey. We chatost on whatsapp but something use to say his leaving with someone when he told me his single.His a hard worker and at times I feel like being ignored when we don’t chat. But with him he sendse messages telling me he loves me and to me I don’t trust. He even mentioned to one day visite in Africa. I’m really in live with him don’t know what to doust I leave him or not
web admin
January 14, 2016 at 5:49 pm
Saying that he is leaving with someone does not necessarily mean that it is a date. Is there another reason why you think that it is a girl? Even if it is, you guys are not official yet and are just talking on a dating site. If he is dating someone casually, it is still a perfectly fine thing to do at this stage of the game. If you really want to be exclusive while you are just talking, you will have to express those feelings to him.
anu
January 6, 2016 at 1:31 am
Hi, I had a crush on a person some months back and he too seemed to be interested in me. But when I came to know that he is two years younger to me I started to move on and reduced my conversation. But he kept texting and calling me why I was avoiding him and after knowing about the crush he also said that he felt the same but could not express. he says he loves me so much and the age does not matter. He also shared that he was not a good guy and was in relationship with someone else until last year but from now on wards he wouldn’t look for any other but only me. He seems to be so romantic and demands that I chat and talk with romance all the time. At times I feel that he is just flirting with me and wants to satisfy him by the reply i give for his corny texts. how do I know if he loves me really
web admin
January 6, 2016 at 8:27 pm
There is no way to know for sure if he loves you–and it is probably more of an infatuation than love at this stage of your relationship anyway. Although his past relationship problems do not bode well for the future, it is still possible that he could be a loving, committed boyfriend. Often, people get better at relationships as they mature, and it can also make a difference if they really love their partner. The only way you will find out if this relationship could lead to love is to start dating him and see how things go. There is always a risk when you are dating someone (and even when you are married to them) that things won’t work out, but you have to make the decision to take the chance anyway.
That text
December 15, 2015 at 4:31 pm
Sorry I forgot to add, when I asked him what does he actually want from me he said a really close relationship. He texts me almost everyday and always replies to my messages and we can chat like until 1am
web admin
December 17, 2015 at 2:22 am
If he was just trying to use you, of course he would say that he wants a close relationship. Look at his actions instead of his words. He sexts you constantly and tells you what a bad guy he is. If you want just sex, go for it. Otherwise, you should recognize that you are probably going to be used.
That text
December 15, 2015 at 4:29 pm
I met this guy somewhere and our families know each other. So I decided to invite him on Facebook. He accpted and said Thank you for inviting me. So we chatted and we had a nice conversation. He then asked for my number and I gave it to him.:D After a few day I told him I’m kinda a bad girl and he said he’s a bad boy so I asked him in what way? He said he gets h##ny. Then he asked me if he can fantisize about me. I said I wouldn’t really care. So after a while he asked he would be mad if he touched me in a certain X-rated way. So said I’m not sure about that. He then asked if we can sext just for fun so said ok. I didn’t send any explicit pictures so I didn’t think it was serious. After that he asked would I like it for us to have $£x for real when we`re alone. I’m still a teen and he’s abit much older than I am. So would it mean he just wants me for $£x. Ps: asked him if he is just gonna use me and he said he’s not like that. When see him in person he’s a really great person and seems to like me. I don’t know please help me
web admin
December 17, 2015 at 2:20 am
It does mean that he just wants you for sex. If someone says that they are not using you (especially if the only relationship to date is through sexting), they are certainly using you. He might like you, but that does not stop him from only being interested in sex. With that said, it is entirely up to you if you pursue the relationship. If you are only interested in sex, then that is fine. If you even think that you will possibly want something more at some point, then don’t go through with it. He seems to be only interested in sex and using you, so only continue things if your only goal is to have sex.
Gabi
December 8, 2015 at 9:37 pm
I’ve been talking to this guy for about a month now and he’s really sweet. He always asks for nudes though so I’m very clear that I don’t send nudes and he said wb a bra pic and I said maybe but then I didn’t send him one and now he stopped talking to me and isn’t answering any of my messages help
web admin
December 9, 2015 at 5:03 pm
If he stopped talking to you because you would not send nude photos or bra pictures, then he probably is not the type of guy that you want to date. He will either get over it and respect the fact that you do not want to, or he won’t. If he does not, then just forget about him. You deserve a guy who respects you and your boundaries. If he is already trying to force you to do things that you do not want to do, then it would only get worse later on. On the bright side, at least he revealed his hand now before you guys started as serious relationship.
becky barbeau
December 1, 2015 at 12:18 pm
im 52 yrs. old ive been seeing a guy for 1 and a half yrs. Hes moved in with me 4 mo. ago.b4 this we did things together happily.now hes been mad at me cuz he wants to see his friends without me.and wants nothing to do with mine either.im so insulted concidering his friends are single women he just wants to help them.somebody help me with this.Im a widow of 4yrs. And i honestly wasnt so sure about getting in a relationship.But this guy was so persistant in convincing me how much he loves me.loves us.He wrote beautiful texts morn day and night.always complimented me.But now all disapeered.Should i be happy he just living here with me,as all the while i stay nervous,about reluctently giving this guy my heart when i didnt want to.Becouse he flirts,flatters other women and says thats just who he is.Should i have him leave or stick it thru?
becky barbeau
December 1, 2015 at 12:20 pm
help!!
web admin
December 3, 2015 at 5:03 pm
I just answered your last response–it sometimes takes me a bit to get around to manually answering and approving each comment. Read through my response and let me know if you have any other questions. Good luck, Becky!
web admin
December 3, 2015 at 5:02 pm
It seems like things are starting to change in your relationship. If he no longer wants to see your friends or have you around his friends, then it seems like he is trying to disengage from your life. Before you give up on the relationship, try talking to him about how you feel. He may not be realizing what he is doing or how it is hurting you. If he still cares and wants to be in the relationship, then he will be willing to make changes. If he is not willing to make these changes and return to being the caring guy you originally fell for, then you may have to move on.
Good luck, Becky!
LL
November 30, 2015 at 8:45 am
Hello so im interest to someone i just met. We chat a lot. And today he asked if im interested in him or no. I said yes. Then he said “I have an interest in u too hahaha. It just we r tooo far away right now hahah u know? But feels like we r getting closer lolllll” we live far away right now, what does he mean? Does it means i need to stop hoping cause of the distance? Does he means i need to stop? What do you think he wants
web admin
November 30, 2015 at 9:58 pm
It sounds like what he means is that he is interested in you and likes you, but he is trying to let you know that he is not going to make a move because you live too far away. The “It feels like we are getting closer part” probably just means that he feels like he is getting closer to you emotionally/relationship-wise because he talks to you all of the time. I do not think that he wants to stop talking to you; he just realizes that any relationship will be difficult because of the distance. I would go ahead and keep talking to him–after all, you guys may fall in love and stop caring about the distance, one of you could move in the future or the conversation may just devolve into being just friends. You will never find out what could be possible if you stop talking to him now. At the very least, you will end up with a friend and somewhat to talk to.
Linda
November 29, 2015 at 7:00 pm
Hi im 15 years old and I have a crush on this boy who is 18. He’s very nice to me and Is sometimes flirty with me on the phone and in person. Sometimes he stares at me and then he laughs when I catch him. I have his number and we talk over the phone almost everyday and we always talk to each other every Monday and Friday(which are the only days I ever see him) I’m not sure if he like me or just wants to be friends since he’s older than me
web admin
November 30, 2015 at 8:09 pm
It is entirely possible that he likes you. If he calls you all of the time and talks to you all of the time, then there is an excellent chance that he is interested. If he likes you, the age difference does not necessarily matter to him. As long as your parents would not mind and the age difference is legal in your state, there is nothing wrong with it. Once you are over 18, it is actually very normal to date someone several years or even a decade older than you–it only really makes a difference when you are under 18 years old. If you think that he could like you, why don’t you ask him to hang out with you alone some time? He flirts with you all the time, so it sounds like he would be fairly open to the idea.
Jealousy
November 27, 2015 at 6:18 pm
My crush knows I like him and he was been looking at me quite often. We are in the same class and he came in the class holding another girl he isn’t even dating or doesn’t even probably like her but was looking at me while doing it, so just looked away… While at the bus stop he went to same girls in our class to stand next to them and was laying his arm over their shoulders and looking at me… Y is he trying to make me jealous with other girls, or is he even trying to make me jealous
web admin
November 28, 2015 at 1:30 am
It is entirely possible that he is trying to make you jealous. He could be uncertain if you actually like him or it was just a rumor, so he could be trying to see how you react. Other than just wanting to ascertain his feelings, I am not sure why he would do that–after all, making someone jealous when they already like you is ridiculous. There is also always a chance that he does like the other girls. My guess would be that one of those two reasons is the right one–he is either to see if you like him enough to react, or he actually is interested in the other girls.
Tiffany
November 23, 2015 at 11:25 am
So, i like this boy for a few months. When we were in class he walked pass me and just started looks at me and smiles at me, i don’t know what to do about it. Or when my friends and I were talk about other guys he just gets upset and just starts walking away to his friends and starts talking to them about why my friends and I are talking about other guys, i ask my friends if he like me and they said no he doesn’t like me but one day my friends walked up to him and his friends and asked them if he like me and they all didn’t say anything to my friends so i didn’t think that he will be starting to look at me again. I think I like him but i don’t know how to say it to him. And also he now likes to talk to me and its like its just him and me talking for the whole day and sometimes his friends say to us why are you both talking to each other for that’s not like you both so now we talk and laugh and look at each other in the classrooms now and that is all for today.
From, Triffany
web admin
November 25, 2015 at 11:00 pm
If he likes to talk to you, then you are already well on your way to getting him to like you. Plus, there is an excellent chance that he already likes you. He laughs with you, worries when you talk about other guys and tries to get your attention. All of these things makes it seem like he could be interested in you. If you want to tell him how you feel, it is probably easier to do online or via text. You could even have one of your friends tell him if you are too nervous to talk to him in person. If you are worried that he is not interested, you could always just hold off on telling him your feelings until you talk to him more and get to know him better–then, you will have a better idea about how he feels. Good luck, Tiffany!
Confused
November 13, 2015 at 5:52 pm
Hi, so have this crush on this certain boy for about months and out of this 7 months its 5 months he knows I like him. I had his number and we chatted once and it was a great convo but after that he lost interest chatting to me that was a few months ago…I recently invited him on FB and he accepted me but doesn’t chat.. Very recently my friend caught him staring at me like a deep stare… I often see him look at me frm a distance or when he walks past me he takes a quick glance at me. I don’t know what does this mean beacause he saw a pic of him on my friends phone which she sent to me and said he wants to talk to me but hasn’t come forward but has been looking at me ever since then.
web admin
November 13, 2015 at 6:33 pm
If he is not chatting or responding to you, then he might not be interested anymore. There is also a chance that he just does not know what to say, so he just looks at you instead of responding. I think that it is currently a 50/50 chance that he likes you right now, but there is no way to know for sure. If he said that he wanted to talk to you, then it is possible that he is interested and is just trying to work up the courage. It is normal to feel shy around a crush, so he might just be having problems telling you how he feels or acting normally around you. Perhaps it would help if you walked up to him and struck up a conversation.
Nichu
November 6, 2015 at 12:33 pm
I love this boy but I am afraid to tell him. I am just 13 so d=he is also 13. I told my friend I like him but she said that to him so I just said That I dont like him. BUT I am using some texts from this site like “I really like our friendship, but I was thinking… maybe we could be friends with benefits?” and “If you could have one wish, what would it be?” that all I used I dont know how to make him like me!!!!
Nichu
November 6, 2015 at 12:34 pm
And also I am his friend On Facebook! So ya
web admin
November 8, 2015 at 4:11 pm
That is always a good start. Good luck, Nichu!
web admin
November 8, 2015 at 4:11 pm
If you already used those texts, then he knows that you like him–even though you told him that you did not. If he knows that you are interested, then he can always make a move if he feels the same way. For the moment, I would just hold off on doing anything else until you see what he does. If he responds with a flirty text, then you can assume that he is interested in you as well. If he does not flirt back, then there is a strong chance that he is not interested.
Alyssa H
November 20, 2015 at 6:54 pm
Hunny your 13…calm down I mean I understand where your coming from, but cannot love someone you do not know. And Do Not become someones friend with benefits at 13! Be responsible, and obviously your friend is not a good friend, Im just telling you, be careful and dont worry You dont love him if he hasnt really talked to you ..like ever…
web admin
November 20, 2015 at 9:05 pm
That sounds like great advice. Thanks for commenting, Alyssa! I am sure that Nichu is happy to get the extra insight. Thanks, again!
Girl
November 3, 2015 at 2:39 am
I have a crush on this guy he is like so handsome hahaha and we text each other and he kinda flirts what should I do. ??
web admin
November 4, 2015 at 3:48 am
Keep texting him and see where it goes! If he flirts with you and you think that he likes you, you could always try asking him on a date. It sounds like he likes you, so I think that you would have an excellent chance of getting a “yes”!
Kiara
October 25, 2015 at 6:12 am
hello. its been a long time abt 5 yr i got a crush on a boy. we r friends on FB and recently he proposed and i said yes. he is flirty already dated 2 girls unlike me. he will b my first BF when we chat i hesitate alot, reply him taking a lot of time.
he always ask me to meet him at seaside. i really miss him and want him in ma life.
web admin
October 25, 2015 at 6:07 pm
If you want him in your life, then go ahead and have him as a part of your life! If he already asked you out, then it is obvious that he likes you and wants to be with you. Although it is normal to be shy around your first boyfriend, you do not have a lot to worry about. After all, he was the one who asked you out and wanted to date you. Make a plan to go on a date with him and see if you guys are as compatible in person as you are via Facebook. Congrats on the new relationship! I hope that everything works out well for you, Kiara!
Dave
October 14, 2015 at 4:22 am
so I have a crush on this girl. I met her at homecoming football game and never talk in person but we alway text each other. I used those flirty text messages from you and she said ” I was so sweet and every” we even texted each other till 2:30am but i’m not sure if i should ask her out or not and i really need your advice. Thank you for this useful website too.
web admin
October 15, 2015 at 6:28 pm
I think that you could go ahead and ask her out. It sounds like she could like you, and since you do not see her anymore, there would be no way for you to really bring the relationship forward unless you make a move. (Plus, if you wait too long to do anything else, she may grow disinterested in just texting) On the bright side, you do not see her a lot in real life, so even if she rejects you, you will probably not end up having to be around her at all. All in all, it seems like you are in a pretty good position to ask her out and it seems like she could like you. Good luck, Dave!