10 Signs Your Crush Likes You Back
Wondering if the man you’ve been crushing on likes you back can be extremely confusing. It may be hard to figure out if a guy really, really likes you like you like him, especially if you’re not sure what you should be looking for. It’s not fun waiting around for him to tell you if he does or not and it can be frustrating hanging onto someone who you aren’t even sure has the same feelings for you. It may just be too embarrassing to ask because of the fear of rejection. So, to help you out here are 10 ways to tell if your special someone wants you to be his special someone, too.
1. Body Language:
We, as humans, say a lot with our bodies- sometimes more than we even say with our words. Body language is an important factor in any relationship; romantic or not. The way your crush moves his body may be telling you something this whole time! Does your crush fidget when he’s around you? Does he try to make eye contact with you as much as possible? Does he touch you a lot? Put his arm around you? Hold your hand? Do you catch him glancing at you, just like you glance at him? Even looking to see if he laughs or smiles when you laugh or smile may be the key to finding out whether he likes you.
2. Compliments:
It’s very unusual for someone who doesn’t feel romantic about you to give you a lot of compliments. Especially if the compliments are ones about your looks. Things like: You’re beautiful, you have an amazing smile, your laugh is cute, you have stunning eyes, etc. Also, if your crush tells you these things more than once, that’s a good sign that he really likes you back.
3. Getting personal:
Does your crush ask you questions about yourself? Does he pry for more information about you, your family, likes or dislikes? Does he talk about his personal life, goals, family, past relationships, secrets or something else that you wouldn’t tell just anyone? If he does, this may be a great sign that he likes you. Guys don’t open up to just anyone- actually, they don’t open up a lot period. But, when it comes to a girl they may like, they will try to get to know her and let her get to know him because he wants to be more than friends. He wants to let you in. This means he trusts you, but also wants to get to know more about you, too.
4. Friends & Family:
A guy doesn’t bring just anyone to hang out with him and his friends. If your crush wants you to meet his friends or his family, then you may be assured that he likes you as more than a friend. This isn’t always a sure signs, but in most cases a guy doesn’t waste time to go through that whole process for no reason. If he wants you to meet those close to him, it means that he wants you to get to know them and he wants both of you to get along.
5. Communication:
Does your crush make an effort to contact you first by texting, calling or even social network messaging you? Does he reply to your messages relatively briefly after you sent them? Does he answer most of your calls or call you back as soon as he can? All in all, does he make as much of an effort to talk to you as you do to him? If so, it means he really has an interest in you. Guys are forgetful creatures. They won’t usually make the effort to talk to someone who they don’t really want to talk to.
6. Dates and Presents:
A guy who gives you gifts, whether extravagant or small, really cares for you. He wants to impress you and make you happy by giving you things he thinks you’ll love. He obviously loves seeing you happy and loves that he’s the one doing it. If your crush takes you out for ice cream, to a movie, to dinner, to any event or place multiple times, it may mean that he wants to take you out on ‘dates’ and take the relationship further soon enough. Men don’t spend money on girls they don’t have any intention of seeing or dating.
7. People:
Whether people you know are telling you that they think your crush likes you back or you ask them for their opinion, that is a sign that he truly does like you. Third parties are better at seeing the signs than you are because they are not blinded by love. They can see clearly what’s going on and will be able to tell you the absolute truth.
8. Hanging Out:
If you find your crush wanting to be around you a lot, asking you to hang out more than often or offer to take you places, they make like you. If he’s doing these things then it usually means he wants to be around you and enjoys your company. If he offers to take you places or walk you home then he doesn’t mind taking time out of his day to do something nice for you because he wants to make you happy. Definitely a sign he likes you.
9. Exclusivity:
Is he hanging out with other girls? Do you find him talking to other girls, taking them out to date-like places, giving them gifts, etc? This may mean he doesn’t like you as much as you’d hope because he’s not staying exclusive with you. If your crush doesn’t seem to have any other important girls in his life besides you and pays attention to only you, it’s a sign he may like you.
10. He Tells You:
Either he tells you or drops hints that he likes you. That’s definitely a sure as hay sign he likes you back. If he says things pertaining to your future together, how you would be a good girlfriend, how he wishes he had a girl like you or if he straight out says, “I like you”, then he is most definitely interested!
daria
October 12, 2016 at 7:30 pm
Hey so I have a crush on a guy who is a year older and I dont really know if he likes me cause some of the sighs point to he likes me and then some are pointing to he does not and I am afraid to tell him how I feel
web admin
October 13, 2016 at 9:34 am
Try talking to him or flirting with him. If he tries to continue the conversation or suddenly seems bashful, it is possible that he does like you. It is also possible that he is just as nervous about making a move as you are, so you may have to do something to give him encouragement for him to realize that you are interested in him after all.
Brianna Cox
October 4, 2016 at 7:11 am
Im in quite a dilemma. The boy i like is two years older than me and is heading to college soon. He told my best friend that he “loves me to death” but he doesnt think i feel the same (i do)
My parents wont let me date until i am eighteen but i dont want to lose thus sweetheart. Im stuck and have no idea what to do.
web admin
October 4, 2016 at 10:49 am
Tell him what is going on. If he does not think that you like him back, he will move on completely and give up. Tell him how you feel and let him now that you are not able to date until you are 18. If he knows why you cannot be with him and that you do like him, he is more likely to stay friends with you and return when you are 18 years old. Best of luck, Brianna Cox!
Snow White
September 24, 2016 at 11:49 pm
Hello and thank you for your time…. So I’m seeing a therapist and a psychiatrist at a clinic for my adhd and anxiety. I have a huge crush on the man who works at the front desk. I’m quite attractive, so I felt confident enough to ask him if he’s single and offer him my number when I had the chance. I kinda figured he wasn’t allowed to get too personal with clients, which he told me. He said he can’t. He did say he was single when I asked, however. Then he went on to tell me that he’s a supervisor, which says to me that he’s interested in me but he doesn’t wanna lose his job, which is totally understandable. I chose to leave it alone after that, and I emotionally detached myself from the situation.
However, the last time I visited there, he seemed to make a subtle but definite move. There was another man with him behind the desk checking me in, and when he asked me for my name, my crush blurted out my full name before I could even have a chance to answer. Not only is it pretty significant that he knows my first and last name by heart, I feel like the fact that he made a point to say it when I was perfectly capable of answering the question myself was a sort of giveaway.
Plus he always calls me by my first name instead of ma’am or miss. The thing that throws me off however is the fact that he never tries to make small talk or anything….but he always talks to me ever so sweetly. I’m guessing he may be nervous or just afraid to give into his temptation because his job is important to him, and there’s always somebody around who can see his every move. The same day that he blurted out my name, I accidentally left my water bottle at the desk, and he came down the stairs and brought it to me while I was in the waiting room, asking if it’s mine. Hmmm…. generally nice, or fatal attraction? I’m sure he knew it was mine.
That encounter sparked my hopes back up, and now I’m obsessing over him again. I’m just not sure what to do. I wrote him a letter basically saying that I understand and I can be discreet, hence the letter and not me saying it out loud where people could possibly eavesdrop. Plus I’m better at saying what I wanna say in writing. I’m just so afraid to creep him out and/or seem desperate, or ruin any chances I might have had by putting myself out there AGAIN. It’s hard to tell if he’s shy, intimidated, or straight up not interested because of the fact that he takes his job seriously. Was that last display a good sign, or am I reading too much into it? Should I give him the letter or nah?
web admin
September 25, 2016 at 6:23 pm
It would be wise to hold off the letter at this time until you better determine your situation. You are right, he may lose his job for seeking a relationship with you. If he loses his job because of your flirtations – as some businesses are like that – you may find yourself feeling remorse. However, he may be showing interest in you and if he acts on it then he has made his decision. Remain mindful as you move into the future, and perhaps try to small talk with him. If he responds, then it is likely that he is positive toward you. Remain positive and focus on the task at hand!
Raniaa
September 23, 2016 at 9:24 pm
Well i have a crush on someone and i think he likes me too.He always tease me being with other guys , he always look at me and whenever he makes jokes he always looked at me and smile.whenever we are at the library , i usually go to the last shelf and he always follow and everything. Then his bestfriend ask me if i have a wechat id or not then in suprised he answer my wechat id and he was kinda angry at tht time ,maybe he is jeaous then i ask anyone can i borrow english textbook the he let me borrow his book and pen.then one day we were trying to play games and the boys wanted me to lost also my crush so he almost touch me before i move and lost 😉 .Then one day he stopped ,he flirts with another girl and talks to them , dont look at me anymore and because i flirt with another boy. Does he likes me to?
web admin
September 25, 2016 at 10:25 am
If you find that someone who used to have an interest in you now flirts with other people and you flirt with other people, then it is likely that those original feelings have passed. Focus on those in your life who want to develop a relationship with you. It is always important to take care of the emotional needs of those who you are dating instead of those who you are not. If you have a crush one someone, then it would be best to speak with him directly and honestly about your feelings. It is likely that he will appreciate your thoughts. Remain positive, Raniaa.
Jen
September 23, 2016 at 3:54 pm
HELP!! My crush and I met a month ago. The thing is his a year younger than me, I always sit next to him on the bus. We have long convos and have so much in common. I recently found out he thinks I’m cute when I’m mad and that he likes me alot. He carries my backpack and walks with me home sometimes. He offers to buy me coffee and he pays and let’s me hold his phone. But the thing is that his best friend is always around us both and slides in into our convo, asks uncomfortable questions and won’t let us be alone. My friends give him advice by always texting him on the bus and telling him what to do or say. I feel like their hiding stuff from me and won’t tell me I sometimes feel left out,hurt and overwhelmed. When no one is around or telling him to do something his more comfortable, he gets to be himself and I get to learn more about him. I don’t know how to get to tell me his own feelings ?
web admin
September 25, 2016 at 10:21 am
Speak with your crush about your feelings. It is likely that he has the same thoughts that you do. Tell him that you want to develop a relationship with him, and also tell him that you want your relationship to be between the two of you. Perhaps ask him out on a date. Perhaps ask him to spend more time with your without phones or other friends. He will likely appreciate your thoughts. Remain positive and enjoy life, Jen!
Princess
September 9, 2016 at 12:51 am
Please, if you can help me 🙁
So! I got this crush and, we were chatting like everyday, he is always the one who starts the conversation and I can say that our conversations are so damn long, But got this one evening he told me his crush 🙁 it’s just so heartbreaking </3 but days after he told me about his crush, he told me if we could hangout, I told him i think i can't and he was so sad and i was also so worried, so instead, I agreed at the same time, My question is, Do I have a chance for him?
web admin
September 9, 2016 at 9:32 am
He may have started talking to you because he needed a friend or he wanted a female’s insight about his crush. While it is possible that he likes you, it currently seems like he just views you as a friend. That could always change in the future though, so I would not lose hope yet. 🙂 I’ll keep my fingers crossed for you. Thanks for commenting and good luck, Princess!
emmaclynn
September 23, 2016 at 6:26 am
I think he is into you. if he talks to you all the time and tells you he likes someone else maybe he isn’t ready to say that he likes you.Be patient the odds might be in your favor honey !
web admin
September 25, 2016 at 9:54 am
Thank you for your insightful comment. If someone likes your but says that they like someone else, then it is likely that they are shy or confused. If you do not want him to be shy and confused, then speak with him directly and honestly about your feelings. Thank you for sharing your thoughts, Emma!
irish keyla tizon
August 23, 2016 at 4:06 am
what if my friend and i is making jealous someone but the one of my friend name john react and says to my friend that act also he should be in his room and then he never go near to us the he walk out
IS he likes me then?
web admin
August 23, 2016 at 5:18 pm
It seems as though your friend may be jealous of your friendship with the other person. If that is the case, then it is likely that your jealous friend has an interest in you. Determine what you would like for your future, but keep in mind that jealously is not a character trait to be nourished.
Nat
August 19, 2016 at 9:08 am
Right. Mines abit difficult. I’ve had a crush on this woman for about 4 years now. We work at the same place. She used to be my team leader back in the day we got on great.. sometimes shed sit and stares at me from her desk and make fun of me with the other team leader… it was like they both took a shine to me. Then she left being team leader and moved to different department our conversation would die off and it would just be morning, you alright? And eventually she ended up coming back as a team leader.. yet this time I think I’ve started flirting abit. I’m not the type to flirt I’d rather someone just tell me they like me. But she came over to my desk one day ..while everyone eles was on break and I thought she swore at me.. so I asked her did you just swear at me? She said no I wouldn’t swear I’m a good girl and it just slipped out my mouth I said I bet your not… she blushed and laughed and walked off.. I stood there laughed a little then went really shy inside because I wouldn’t of thought I’d ever do that… and today I just got back from a driving job and went to see the team leaders… and she said right I’m going to go and count some boxes because my trusty nat wasnt here and I was like I’ll go and do it if you want I’m here now.. but… was just wondering was that flirting from her part? I notice her stare down at my desk where i am at times and in my head I’m just thinking rarr come down make conversation with me.. she makes me weak and nervous all at the same time I only have to look at her chair in the morning when she ain’t there andoesn’t I mutter to myself how perfect she is… 4 years is along time to have a crush.. just I’m so curious about her and a few my mates know but no one at work actually knows I’m crushing on her… can you please tell me how do I break the ice with this one… she’s very sarcastic and it’s very hard to tell if she’s into me or not..
web admin
August 20, 2016 at 12:28 am
It is clear that the two of you have been flirting with each other. It is also for certain that the two of your are enjoying it. As you prefer the direct approach, perhaps it would be wise of you to speak with her directly and honestly about your feelings. Next time that she comes over to you and flirts with you, then be sure to flirt back. If you find yourselves in a private setting, then you could perhaps share your feelings there.
Dana
August 19, 2016 at 6:12 am
Hi! So I had this crush on my classmate for a month or two now. We used to talk but after he heard that I”m still “in love” with an another guy, he stopped talking to me. Since I’m an officer, he usually goes up to me to pay. But he never said “thanks” anymore and instead stares at me which made me a bit nervous.
-When a program was held at our school gym, I was sitting beside my guy classmate since there were no more seats left. Crush arrived late so he proceeded to find a seat. I thought he will sit by our guy classmates, but to my surprise, he sat on the lap of the guy classmate beside me. Since that classmate was teasing my friend, who was behind us, he sat beside her as soon as someone walked out. HE was now left sitting beside me, earning myself teases from my friends.
Actually, he sat beside me two times. Hehehe…
-I was doing my duty as the class treasurer and his bestfriend was the one collecting money for our t-shirt. If I’m not mistaken, I saw HIM stare at us when his bestfriend handed me the money. Then when I was at the front, about to go back to my seat, HE stared at us again when he stopped me to hand me the money. Is he that protective of his bestfriend? XD
-We had a class then. Since I was bored and was just beside the window, I looked out. My guy friend passed by so we exchanged smiles. But in the corner of my eye, I can tell that HE and his bestfriend(who just sits near me) saw us. Also, when I was about to go home, I saw another guy friend(ex-suitor of my bestfriend) sitting on the pathway. I was poor that time so I asked him if he would treat me or give me money. Our convo lasted longer than it should have but the weird thing is, my guy classmates were looking at us. I don’t even know why.
-My classmates and I bought something to drink and we were on our way back to our classroom when our paths crossed. He then asked if anyone of us saw Rose (his groupmate). I was trying to ignore him that time especially when my companions said they didn’t. To my surprise, he suddenly touched my shoulder and repeated the question. This caused me to look at him. I was trying my best not to freak out and casually replied. My companions repeated their answers and he walked away, leaving me biting my lower lip to prevent myself from smiling.
-Lastly, HE stares. I already caught him a few times. Everytime our eyes meet, it’s like he’s sucking my soul out of my body because they were pretty deep man.
I’m sorry if it’s too long but I’d appreciate it if you took the time to read this junk and give me answers. Thank you! 🙂
web admin
August 20, 2016 at 12:25 am
It is clear that the two of you are interested in each other. Be mindful of how this relationship with effect your social group. If you want to develop a relationship with him, then speak with him directly and honesty about your feelings. You can also choose to remain coy and flirt with him in other ways. Whatever you determine, be sure to express your feelings without hiding anything.
Dana
August 20, 2016 at 3:51 am
Thanks for the answer and wonderful advice! :))
Shannon
July 8, 2016 at 12:27 pm
Just asking if this is one of the signs that my crush my may like me anyways basically in class my teacher said put your hands up if your planning on having any kids in the future and when i looked around at the corner of my eye i saw my crush look straight at me as if he wanted to know if i wanted kids or not also sometimes when im walking home from school my crush catches up to me and the first things he says to me is are you OK? He is always so nice to me and always makes a conversation with me. So im not entirely sure if he really likes me or not but i just have this feeling he does.
web admin
July 9, 2016 at 1:34 pm
If you notice that he is paying a lot of attention to you and treats you with respect, then it is likely that he is interested in you. It would be best if you spoke to him directly about your feelings and your desires for your relationship. If he reciprocates your feelings, then you know that you can nurture a relationship with him. Enjoy life and be bold!
Alina Jazzerr
June 21, 2016 at 9:53 pm
Couple of months ago, I was here when me and my crush are just in starting stage. I get a vague answers because I didn’t have much of a sign from him. Since then, things have improved a lot, I go out of my confront zone to ask for his social media. Then he started texting me first and even asked for my numher. Our relationship is really awkward in person, somehow I managed through texting to make him feels more comfortable by showing him my sense of humor. Hence, our conversation still remains general like him mostly asking questions. Is it him being polite because the conversation doesn’t have the endpoint or he really shows a sign of interest? Little about us, we are both shy but not like introvert. We always had little talk in person but then turn into awkward because we don’t know what to say or I might say no common between us beside school and clubs. Please help me out!
web admin
June 22, 2016 at 9:49 pm
It sounds like the two of you need to start spending time together in person and not over texts. Texting creates a barrier, just like emails and phone calls, and the best remedy for shyness is being together. Since you are able to do so, take advantage of your ability to hang out. Don’t be shy with him, as it is clear that he is interested in you.
Vianey Gonzalez
June 4, 2016 at 8:44 am
Hi I have have a crush on this guy, there are most of the times that I see that he is looking at me and he sometimes smiles at me when I walk by him. Also I have seen that when I am walking alone his friends just give me a weird look. We have never talked even thou I wish I could talk to him.but what I want to know is if he likes me by the way he acts when he sees me amd also by the way that his friends give me tht weird look …
web admin
June 6, 2016 at 7:22 pm
It seems like you have commented twice on this article. I have to answer and approve each comment manually, so it can sometimes take a little while for a comment to appear. If you do not see your comment right away, do not worry because you will. Read through my last response and let me know if you have any other questions. Thanks for commenting!
Vianey Gonzalez
June 4, 2016 at 8:41 am
Hi I have have a crush on this guy, there are most of the times that I see that he is looking at me and he sometimes smiles at me when I walk by him. Also I have seen that when I am walking alone his friends just give me a weird look. We have never talked even thou I wish I could talk to him.but what I want to know is if he likes me by thw
web admin
June 6, 2016 at 6:50 pm
Looking at you and smiling at you are signs that he thinks you are cute–it would be too early to say if he likes you though since you guys have never actually talked to each other. Go ahead and say hello to him sometime! You will never know for sure if he likes you or not unless you make a move and start talking to him! Good luck, Vianey Gonzalez!
Chloe
May 21, 2016 at 1:22 am
Hey there,I like one boy he is in my class. Third day of school,me and my friend made a group chat on facebook for our class. I sent there a message that I’m on the bench alone,and he reply to the chat grop that his with me. I didn’t want him to think that I like him so I avoiding him all the time. He taeases me a little,everything I say in a joke he remembers. Even he sneak attacked me with a hug from behind. I am really confused because he is always near me but I see him flirting with other girls,even he was dating with one of them this school year. I just want to know is this just some joking with me,or he likes me to.
web admin
May 23, 2016 at 10:00 am
It seems like you may have commented twice on this article. I have to answer and approve each comment individually, so it can sometimes take a little while for the comment to appear. If you do not see an answer right away, do not panic because you will. Read through my first response and let me know if you have any other questions. Thanks for commenting!
Chloe
May 21, 2016 at 12:21 am
I like one boy but I don’t know if he likes me. He is in my class,third day of school I made a group chat on facebook for our class. I sent a message that I’m out on a bench and he sent that he is with me. He always teases me a little. Even he wanted a protection from me because some girl was flirting with him. One day he sneak attact me,he hug me from behind. I always show him that I’m not interested in him because I don’t know if he just meases with with. I don’t know what to think,help me
web admin
May 23, 2016 at 9:59 am
It sounds like he could like you. Trying to hug you, wanting to be around you all of the time and trying to be around you are all signs that he could be interested. If he has not done anything more than that yet, it is probably because you always try to act not interested in him. Try talking to him more and flirting–that will hopefully give him the confidence he needs to think that you like him and ask you out. If you are feeling particularly brave, you could also try asking him out yourself. Best of luck, Chloe!
lucy
May 14, 2016 at 8:59 pm
I like a guy that is 2 grades higher then mine, for a person that has no feelings whatsoever for anyone ever since elementry (BTW, im in highschool), he manages to make me have a crush on him the 2nd time we talked, thats like 2 day time, for some reason I think that we have chemistry (you know psychology and all that good stuff.)I do see some signs that he likes me,like numbers 1,2,3 and 5. He notices when i wear something new and different and comments on it. He teases me about being together with another guy (does that count by the way?). And whenever I do get the chance to talk to my crush, my friends just totally ignore me and plays her music. I think he likes me, but maybe im just jumping to conclusions, so i would love it if you help me with this. Am i just imagining this because i have a crush or is this real?
web admin
May 16, 2016 at 9:10 am
It sounds like he likes you. Teasing you about being with another guy and doing the other things are all signs that he could be interested. He may just be uncertain about how you feel and afraid to make a move. You will never find out if he likes you or not unless you make a move, so take the risk and go for it! Good luck, Lucy!
maria m
May 14, 2016 at 11:33 am
i like two boys the first one is jason we have 4 periods together sometimes he talks to me when there is people around,he touches me softly on my arm and sometimes i catch him staring at me the other boys name is jorge he is in a grade bigger than mine so we don’t have classes together and i had a dream about which u already answer but sometimes when i see him that is mostly in the cafeteria but i found out yesterday that she has a girlfriend so i’m a bit heartbroken but i don’t get it because i always catching staring a me so i’m confused again
web admin
May 14, 2016 at 1:33 pm
If he has a girlfriend, look at the bright side–you have another crush that you can focus on. It sounds like Jason could be interested in you because all of the things that he does are normal things to do when someone is interested. The fact that Jorge looks at you all the time makes it sound like he could be attracted to you. Since he has a girlfriend, you should stick with Jason for now. Later on, you can start to reconsider Jorge if he is single. Until then, focus on Jason. If you are feeling particularly brave, go ahead and ask him out. Good luck!
caitlin wilson
April 26, 2016 at 1:54 pm
Hello I have this friend and I have a crush on me and he is always calling me and he always says hi cat and I am like hey a friend of mine is trying to help me but what should I do
caitlin wilson
April 26, 2016 at 1:56 pm
Crush on him typo
web admin
April 28, 2016 at 9:45 am
Don’t worry–I understood. 🙂 Read through my first response and let me know if you have any other questions.
web admin
April 28, 2016 at 9:45 am
If he is always saying hello and calling you, he may like you. Ask him if he wants to hang out sometime. You could also have you or a friend ask him who he likes or just ask him on a date. It sounds possible that he could like you, so go for it!
angelica
March 25, 2016 at 10:08 pm
Hey there,
I had this crush where we are not even friends and we do not talk much but i noticed some things about him
* when i would look at him i always catch him staring back at me
* he laughs silently when I make a joke
* when I talk at someone and cracks a small joke he would laugh silently
* also he becomes close to my friends except me and talks to them and jokes with them.
We do not talk a lot and maybe we do not talk always and one of his friends told me that “he is awkward with me” but i do not know. What is the probavle meaning of this? Does he doesn’t like me back
What is also the probable cause or menaing that a guys does not talk to youeven if he already knows that in your class, you two are the ones who have this “abnormal conversation” and does not communicate much?
web admin
March 28, 2016 at 12:04 pm
Being awkward around you would actually be a sign that he does like you. Staring at you, laughing at your jokes and trying to get close to your friends are also signs that he could like you. If he does not like you, he may just feel uncomfortable around you for some reason. Perhaps he does not know what to say or does not share the same interests. Whatever his reasoning is, it seems like he just does not know what to say when he is around you.
Vicki
March 16, 2016 at 7:12 am
The guy that I like doesn’t look at me not of the time when we’re talking and has never complimented me. Does that mean he doesn’t like me because he use to show most of the signs of a crush but then about a week ago he just stop completely and it like we are back to the beginning and I think it’s because I didn’t feel he really like me because he was flirtaous but now I feel he thinks I don’t like him. So what does talking without eye contact and no complaints mean?
web admin
March 16, 2016 at 10:29 am
He may just have given up–if he did not think you liked him or could not tell how you feel, he may have just given up. I would go ahead and start flirting with him and chatting him up. If he stopped flirting because he thought you were uninterested, flirting with him more openly will help to get things back on track. He needs some type of sign that you are interested, or he will lose hope. Let him know how you feel by flirting, and you should be able to get things back on track again. Good luck, Vicki!