20 Romantic Questions to Ask Your Boyfriend
Trying to get a little bit more intimate with that special someone in your life? Well, get cozy and relaxed with your lover and try out these 20 romantic questions to ask your boyfriend.
1. How long do you see our relationship lasting?
There’s no better way to find out how serious someone is about a relationship than with this question. If he says anything other than ‘till the end of time’ or ‘forever’ or something along those lines, you may need to rethink!
2. How much do you love me?
Get ready to be showered with compliments, hugs, kisses and the likes, simply by asking this romantic question.
3. What is your opinion of marriage?
It’s every woman’s dream to get married, so if your man isn’t on board with marriage you may have a problem. On the other hand, if he thinks the man is a provider who should care for his woman till the end, you’ve struck gold.
4. Do you see us ever getting married?
Is there wedding rings and honeymoons in your future? You’ll never know until you ask him this romantic question.
5. What do you love about me the most?
Again, this compliment-provoking question is simply one you have to ask.
6. If I died in a horrible accident, how would you react?
If he is anything other than terribly distraught for months on end, he might not be as serious as you think he is.
7. How can I prove my love for you?
Feeling like really proving to your guy you love him more than anything on earth? Then you need to ask this question and find out what he’s craving for.
8. Do you feel like you can tell me anything?
Without trust and a bond, a relationship cannot be sustained. If he truly loves you he should be ready and willing to share even his deepest, darkest secrets.
9. Do you still remember our first kiss?
This question is actually more important than you think. Your first kiss was one of the milestones of the relationship and should be one of the most important things to remember. Warning: Hearing your man relive the night you and two shared your first kiss may be a tear jerker.
10. Do you remember the day we met?
Again, if your man remembers this amazing day, then he is definitely head over heels about you. Plus this question makes for a highly romantic reminiscing session.
11. What about me were you first attracted to?
Was it your beautiful green eyes? Your long brown hair? Your hilarious personality? Find out what has made your man gaga ever since the start.
12. What song reminds you about me?
This can really tell you a lot about what’s going on in his mind. Would he choose a crumby, yet totally adorable song like ‘Brown Eyed Girl’, or is it something a bit raunchy like ‘Ms New Booty’?
13. What’s is the craziest thing you would do for me?
If you’re wondering what exactly your man would be willing to do for your love, you’ll find out instantly with this cute question.
14. Would you sacrifice (something) to keep our relationship going?
Would he give up his hateful, jealous friends just to keep you? Would he stop playing video games if it meant saving your relationship? Choose one of his favorite things and see if he’d be willing to give it up for you!
15. Would you be my lover in the next life?
If he wouldn’t want you in the next life, he probably doesn’t really want you in this life. Time to hit the ‘end’ button.
16. Would you be loyal even if your celebrity crush tried to sleep with you?
Who could resist their celebrity crush? Only a man who truly loves you, of course! Can your man say no to the temptations?
17. Will you be with me no matter what?
Even if your looks went sour or you were suddenly dirt poor, your man should still be right by your side through it all.
18. What memory of ours do you never want to forget?
Finding out your man’s fondest memory of the two of you is always a heart melter. Enjoy as he reminisces about his favorite moments and take a second to just enjoy what the two of you have been through together.
19. Am I perfect in your eyes?
The answer should always be yes, no questions asked.
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20. Where would our dream honeymoon be?
It’s nice to imagine the two of you eventually saying your vows, exchanging rings, and being together for the rest of your lives. But that’s not all. There’s also the honeymoon. What romantic place would the love of your life take you? A beautiful beach paradise or by the fireplace in a cabin amongst ice-capped mountain tops?
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Teigan
April 27, 2016 at 5:20 pm
Hey I need advice on how to take my relationship to the next level we have been dating for 2 months we haven’t held hand, hugged, or even really talked about our relationship and I don’t know how to change that
web admin
April 29, 2016 at 8:04 am
Just talk to him about it or make a move. There is no reason why the guy has to make a first move, and it seems like he might be afraid of scaring you off by taking things to the next level. Go ahead and tell him how you feel, or you could just hold hands with him. Good luck, Teigan!
Baylynn
March 14, 2016 at 7:44 pm
Okay so I’ve been dating this guy for 4 months and I really want to kiss him, but I feel like it seems desperate if I make the first move. I think he wants to kiss to but I’m not sure. And I don’t want to move to fast for him. What if he doesn’t even want to kiss me. I don’t want to look stupid. What should I do?
web admin
March 16, 2016 at 11:07 am
If you have been dating him for four months, you have been together long enough to kiss him. I highly doubt that he would reject your kiss. After all, he is dating you, so it is pretty safe to assume that he wants to kiss you. If he has not kissed you yet, it is probably just because he feels shy or nervous. Go ahead and make your move! 🙂
Meg
January 25, 2016 at 11:10 pm
Thank you so much! These are great questions and after I asked some of them they branched off and we had a great conversation about our future together.
web admin
January 27, 2016 at 2:09 pm
That is wonderful, Meg! I am glad that this article could help you out. If you liked this article, there are a number of similar ones like it on Her Interest. Make sure to check them out if you have the time. Thanks for commenting!
ConfusedLove
January 21, 2016 at 12:18 am
. me an my boyfriend know each other for years I always played hard to get because we where young an he always had a girlfriend he was kind of a little playa an the years went by we decided give it a shot an omg I fell for him instantly like I really fell hard we started dating right after my 18th birthday . well I thought everything was great like he treated me like a princess until I started to get this feeling like something was wrong one day I went thru his phone my opinion is if we together I shouldn’t find anything in it period but I did I found him talking to his ex saying he miss what they had knowing it crushed me I left him but he did everything I’m his power to get me back an I came back feeling stupid an low but I loved him so things started to get better we things with females came up again 😦 lord I don’t know why I stayed but I loved him an stupid as it sound we still together but I haven’t heard or seen him do anything he say he only want me an want to start a family
web admin
January 26, 2016 at 1:25 pm
Sometimes, it takes certain people a longer time period to overcome an old relationship. Between her continuing the texts and remaining feelings, it may have just taken him a bit to get his head on straight. This is not an excuse, but it is a possibility. There is no proof that he has ever cheated or acted on these texts. If he has been perfectly normal and loving since then, then I would not worry too much. He seems to really care for you, and this recent experience was hopefully a wake up call that forced him to realize what he was about to miss out on. Good luck! I hope that everything works out for you!
Cabby
January 2, 2016 at 8:18 am
This was so great!! Thank you lol. 🙂 kept me up for 30min talking to her on the phone!
web admin
January 3, 2016 at 4:03 pm
That sounds great! I am glad that these questions could help you. If you liked this article, we have similar articles on Her Interest that could help–make sure to check them out if you have the time. Thanks for commenting, Cabby!
sheryl
December 23, 2015 at 6:02 am
I am in a relationship from past 4 years… my boyfriend is actually a gold tht i hv found.. i lv him soo mch nd he too.. its like god has snd me an angel.. i wanted to know tht how i can thank my boyfrnd for being a very great person..
web admin
December 27, 2015 at 5:56 pm
I think that the message you just wrote would be a lovely way to tell him how you feel and let him know how important he is to you. If you look around, we also have romantic texts and love quote ideas on Her Interest. You could check out those articles and see if any of the messages would suit the sentiment that you want to express. Good luck, Sheryl!
Cyntia
December 19, 2015 at 4:59 am
My boyfriend and I have been knowing each other for 3 yrs and we just stared dating. He is such an amazing person, he is so sweet with me, we are best friends (even though we are dating) and he is always honest with me. I have been wondering if he is the one?
web admin
December 21, 2015 at 4:47 pm
You are the only person who could really decide if he is the one or not. Unlike in Hollywood movies, you don’t normally have love at first sight or a sudden moment when you know. It normally takes time for love to build up and for you to figure out that you have found the right person. From the sound of it, your boyfriend is definitely a candidate, but only you could figure out for sure.
feyimusty
December 6, 2015 at 9:46 pm
Am in a relationship wif a guy buh as time goes we lack communication,we broke up. Few month later I was approach by a young guy. Our relationship is ova 1 yrs now nd we really love each oda. So my ex boyfriend is disturbin me now dat he wanna cum back no matter position he will be. Plz I need ur advice
web admin
December 8, 2015 at 4:03 pm
If things ended badly and you were having problems before, what makes you think that things would be any better a second time? It is also really normal for an ex-boyfriend to come back when they think that you are serious about someone new. He obviously still cares for you, but part of what is driving him could be the fact that he has realized that you are serious about someone else. If you really love your current boyfriend, I would stay with him. There is no reason to ruin your good relationship now for a repeat of the rough relationship that you had before. Good luck, Feyimusty!
kiki
December 6, 2015 at 1:00 am
hey me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 2 months now and today at work on break I called him and we talked and I was like “ill call you when I get off work” and he said “okay I love you to mwuahh” and I asked him what he said because I was shocked he said it but I didn’t say it back because I didn’t know if he was serious, and after my previous relationship I kinda blocked my feelings off because of being cheated on. So I don’t know what to do, I don’t know if he really meant to say he loved me, and I don’t know what to do if he did mean it
can you help me please, thank you 🙂
web admin
December 6, 2015 at 3:32 am
I do not think that you have to bring it up right away. If he does say I love you again, you can always just explain how you feel. Tell him that you care for him a lot, but you are afraid of letting yourself care too much since your last relationships ended poorly. Everyone falls in love at a different rate, so there is nothing wrong if it takes you a bit longer to say I love you. Just make sure that you express to him the reasons why and that you do care about him so that he does not end up feeling hurt or confused. Good luck, Kiki!
Skyler
December 6, 2015 at 12:20 am
I dont know how to tell my boyfriend that i like somebodyelse and is already talking to someone people tell me everyday that he’s cheating but when i ask him he says hes not i dont know who to believe at this moment
web admin
December 6, 2015 at 3:30 am
Do you want to be with your boyfriend? If you no longer want to date your boyfriend, just break up with him. If you are talking to someone else now because you want to retaliate, then you should stop. If your boyfriend is not cheating on you, he will be extremely hurt to find out that you were considering being with someone else. Right now, you need to decide what you want and go for it. If you don’t want to be with your boyfriend, that is fine–but you should tell him that it is over and end things before you find someone new. If you want to stay with your boyfriend, then you will have to start trusting him or actually figure out if he is cheating or not. You have a tough decision to make, but it is one that you need to decide about soon.
Emily
November 15, 2015 at 3:28 am
My boyfriend is the most amazing person ever, he is amazing with kids, he did research on how to calm me down when I have panic attacks, he treats me like a princess, he wants to spend forever with me, he looks at me like I’m the most amazing person on the earth. But he can get really angry, he’s never physical with me but he shuts him self out from me and hides and if I talk to him when he’s mad he won’t Talk to me or he’ll yell at me( which he always apologizes for) but any advice on how to help him when he’s mad?
web admin
November 16, 2015 at 4:39 pm
It sounds like he could use some anger management counseling or meditation. Taking a deep breath and counting to ten, meditating daily or finding constructive ways to use his anger (like working out) may help. Since he would have to deliberately do these things, perhaps you could talk to him about your worries. Try to speak with him when he is in a good mood so that he is more open to making changes and learning how to control his anger. If he went through the effort of learning how to handle your panic attacks and treats you well, then he should be willing to make this change as well.
Nicole
October 15, 2015 at 4:15 am
Soo there’s this guy that I’ve liked for tww years now an he says he likes me a lot an I just currently got out of a aggressive unhealthy relationship with a man older than I am.. Me an the guy I like have started talking again an I’m kinda running out of ideas to talk to him bout.. Any ideas??
web admin
October 16, 2015 at 6:14 pm
There are a number of different conversation starter ideas on Her Interest and a variety of different questions. If you search for just the word “questions”, you will come up with a number of ideas. Ideally, you will probably want to ask him about his hobbies, dreams and childhood. People naturally like talking about their own dreams and passions, so it will be an easy way to draw him into a conversation. Good luck, Nicole!
Rachel
October 1, 2015 at 6:52 pm
So I’m in a sticky situation. I’m in a relationship with a guy that I’ve known since we we’re 14 and technically we’ve only been dating for 4 years and I do love him very much. However we are not married and I feel like he doesn’t want to marry me even though he says he does. We currently live with his mom and little brother so we don’t have our own place yet. Also me and him share a car so it’s hard for me to use my car if he’s working. Why I’m in a sticky situation is because about a week ago a friend of mine that ive known dsince 2nd grade just moved about an hour away from where I live, and I haven’t seen him in 6 years. Me and my friend once dated on and off but somehow our lives we’re totally different and we ended up moving on. Now that I’ve gotten up with him a week ago I can’t seem to get him off my mind and he’s all I think about. Oh and the reason I got up with him is because I had a random dream about our first kiss even though I haven’t seen him in 6 years. He told me he actually thought of me and looked up my Facebook to see how I was and where I was in life. We have been talking everyday since I got up with him I just feel bad because I’m really starting to have feeling for this man and 1 he has a wife but I know he only married her because of her parents, and 2 I’m also in a relationship with a man. We are planning to meet up for dinner soon and all I can think about is how fast my heart goes when I talk with him and let alone see him in person. He has also expressed his feelings to me and we want to be more than just friends but we both have to keep it a secret. This type of situation is the first time in my life and I just don’t know what to do. Have any feedback? Thank you.
web admin
October 1, 2015 at 8:00 pm
You are playing an extremely dangerous game. If you keep seeing him, these feelings will continue to develop and it could wreck your relationship and his marriage. I am not saying that you do not have to follow your heart, but you should really consider all of the implications before you do anything. Do you see the other relationship working out? Do you want to marry the guy that you are currently with? Where do you plan on living if you broke up with your current boyfriend? If you no longer want to be with your current boyfriend, then break up with him, move out and then consider pursuing this new guy. There is no reason to try dating them both while you are still living with your current boyfriend. Plus, I would be that your current boyfriend is more interested in marriage than you think–he probably just does not want to propose to you or get married while he is still living with his mother.
If you go to dinner with your old flame, it will only make your feelings for him increase and increase the chances that you will end up doing something that you will regret. Before you do this, you need to decide what you want. If you do not plan on breaking up with your boyfriend, then don’t go to dinner or continue talking to this new guy. The temptation is not something that you want to have in your life, and you do not want to risk losing your current boyfriend for a fling with a married man.
Esmerelda
September 12, 2015 at 4:07 am
Soooo I made a really good friend and after about 3 months we started dating.. We have been dating for 4 months now and we really love each other. Recently he has been hinting at maybe wanting to kiss me but I have been too nervous to give him the chance, cuz what if I mess things up? Should I let him kiss me, should I kiss home, or should I leave things where they are and wait to see??
web admin
September 12, 2015 at 5:48 pm
If you want to kiss him, then go ahead and kiss him! You have to have a first kiss at some point, so that awkwardness and nervousness will always be there. Plus, you have been friends with him for seven months–and dated him for four of those months. If there is anyone that you should be comfortable with kissing, it sounds like he would be the one. Although it does not come naturally to everyone, it is not too hard to figure out how to kiss–all it takes is a little practice, and it sounds like he would be fine with that. Good luck, Esmerelda!
ashley
October 17, 2015 at 10:31 pm
just go with the flow of things
web admin
October 19, 2015 at 2:53 pm
That sounds like excellent advice. Thanks for commenting, Ashley!
Rox
August 19, 2015 at 5:08 pm
So i hav been dating a boy for a month.. We are in love.. But sometimes im havin doubts about us.. Sometimes im everythng and somtimes im nothing.. I really wnt to be apreciated by himm but i dnt knw if he really does love me:(
web admin
August 21, 2015 at 3:29 pm
The best thing to do for a good relationship is communication. As you guys get more comfortable with each other and get to know each other better, you should be able to start telling him how you feel more often. He probably does appreciate you and he obviously likes you. Your boyfriend could just be bad at showing it right now. Take some time to get to know him better, and if it still bothers you, let him know how you feel.
Cherry
July 30, 2015 at 4:29 am
I hv being dating this guy bt he never said like he love me en when i ask him indirect he tel mi how much he hated me before we become frd we are not that close,we kiss like after 3month..en i love him so much
web admin
July 30, 2015 at 6:09 pm
Have you tried just telling him that you love him? He could be afraid to say “I love you” because he might not know how you feel yet, and does not want to have you tell him that you do not feel the same way. I am surprised, however, that he hated you before you guys dated–it seems like a really drastic reversal in attitude.
olasunkanmi
July 23, 2015 at 12:45 pm
I av a close friend of my. I love her so much den I expressed my feeling to her Bt r reply was she can’t date me bcos we av been close frnd n I stll love her…so wot can I do to win her heart
web admin
July 24, 2015 at 9:11 pm
All you can do is just keep being cute and flirtatious. At some point, you may be able to get her to change her mind naturally. Often, people are hesitant to date their friends because they are afraid that the relationship is impossible to work out together. This is a terrible decision (at least, most of the time) because the best relationships are between friends. You guys obviously have a lot in common if you are friends, and there will be far fewer surprises in the relationship. Let her know that you are always there for her, and you would love to date her if and when she decides to. If you feel up to it, you could also let her know that you would still be friends if the relationship does not work out, and the best relationships often start from friendships.
Dee
June 13, 2015 at 11:47 pm
Hi, uhmmm I’ve been bestfriends with this amazing guy for two years and recently we started dating
Sometimes I feel weird asking/telling him things like this….That’s because I usually tell him about other guys
Do you think I should continue? lol
web admin
June 14, 2015 at 4:06 am
It all depends on your relationship. Some couples will share everything about their past partners and relationships, while other couples choose not to talk about it. If you guys want to share everything, then that is perfectly fine. Just be careful about how you talk about other guys. Even if he knows that you are not interested in them anymore, it can still make him feel jealous or insecure–be mindful of his feelings.
Life with him
April 17, 2015 at 10:50 pm
Me and my boyfriend have been dating for five months and I need some more questions to ask him and more things to talk about any ideas?
web admin
April 18, 2015 at 2:00 am
There are a number of different articles that you can use to get conversation starters. HerInterest has topics like would you rather questions, things to ask your crush and a wide range of ideas. If it is hard to start a conversation, try doing things together. If you are practicing a sport, going to a play, doing a hobby or hiking together, you will be able to find new conversation ideas naturally.
Adriana
April 17, 2015 at 2:28 am
So adorable using these ♡
web admin
April 17, 2015 at 4:21 am
That is great to hear! I am glad that you enjoyed them!