60 Flirty Text Messages
After text messaging with someone for awhile, things can get kind of plain and boring. If your feeling like your text messaging life needs a boost, why not try out one of these 60 flirty text messages? We’ve got everything from cute and silly to spicy and romantic- take your pick!
1. Hey you 😉
This is a great, simple text message to start a conversation. Plus it’s flirty thanks to the winking smiley face. Win, win situation here!
2. Good morning handsome. Have a great day!
This isn’t just your average good morning text. It’s a compliment and a well wish all in one, and that’s a winning, flirty combination!
3. Would you rather do you homework or come hang out with me?
If you want to hang out with your crush, ask him this. You really think he will pick homework over you? Doubt it!
4. Ugh, I have a problem. I can’t stop thinking about you.
This is so funny and cute! At first he will be thinking you have an actual dilemma, but the only problem is he’s stuck on your mind- and he will love that.
5. You look good in that new shirt.
Is he wearing something extra cute today? Why not let him know with a flirty, complimenting text message.
6. Blue is definitely your color 😉
Again, this is a great compliment that lets him know it isn’t just the shirt- but anything blue makes him look amazing. Don’t forget the winking smiley face!
7. I’m so bored! Wanna go on an adventure?
Dates don’t always have to be for dinners and movies; sometimes you just wanna have fun! Invite him out for an exciting day or afternoon and see the sparks fly.
8. This homework is killing me! I can’t do anymore. Save me?
Men love to be the hero- even when it comes to simple, silly things like these.
9. Good luck on your game tonight. You’ll do awesome and look sexy doing it 😉
Everyone gets nervous before a big event, whether it’s a game, speech, or outing. Boost his confidence by not only wishing him good luck, but telling him how great and handsome he is!
10. We just landed in Hawaii. Ugh, I wish you were here!
Did you go on an exciting trip and miss your crush? Then you need to tell him!
11. Happy Birthday! If you could have one wish, what would it be? 😉
This might sound like a normal Happy Birthday statement, but the winking smiley face at the end lets him know you might have some R rated thoughts on your mind. Wonder what he will come up with?
12. I’m trying on these new bras, but I need a second opinion. Care to share your thoughts?
Warning: he might need a new phone after slobbering over his when he sees this text message! Be prepared to send him into a lustful daze with a few pictures of your new bra!
13. Come over, I have all your favorites. Pizza, beer, and of course, ME.
Let’s be honest: what guy could possibly resist that? He will be flying over to your house as quickly as possible with this flirty and alluring text!
14. OMG, you were amazing last night.
Trust me, every guy wants to hear this compliment. It’s what he lives for, and you’ll definitely see a boost in confidence the next time you guys are ‘together’.
15. Can’t wait to see you tonight. I think you’re going to like what you see 😉
If you’re planning to see him later on, why not get him excited? He’ll love reading this and you’ll definitely spark his interest.
16. Hmm, should I wear the red panties or the black ones? Can’t decide..
All men love to have input when it comes to the panty department. Seriously, ask him this question.
17. I could seriously use a little bit of testosterone in my life..
If he isn’t very suave, he might not get this text message. But 99% of men will know that you’re ‘testosterone’ comment is really a G rated way to say you want him.
18. When he asks what you’re doing, tell him you just got out of the shower.
He will probably start daydreaming about you dripping wet in nothing but foam suds. Yeah, he will certainly enjoy that.
19. I’ve been thinking about you all day.
Because everyone likes to know they are on someone’s mind.
20. Follow up with… it hasn’t all been rated G either.
This lets him know you’re not only thinking about HIM, but thinking about YOU and him- ‘together’.
21. Send me a picture 😉
Hopefully he will catch onto the winking smiley face and slip you a sexy picture. Then the ‘sexting’ can ensue.
22. Where have you been hiding?
When he texts you out of the blue, this is a cute way of telling him you’ve missed him and are very pleased he sent you a text message.
23. Hey cutie. Haven’t talked to you in awhile. Thought I’d say hello!
If you haven’t talked to him for awhile, send him this. This compliments him while also letting him know he’s been on your mind.
24. Sweet dreams….with me in them 😉
It’s one thing to wish someone sweet dreams before they go to bed. It’s a whole other thing to wish them sweet dreams with YOU in them. He will certainly like the sound of that and close his eyes to his imagination running ramped.
25. Oooooh, I like the sound of that 😉
If he texts you something flirty or alluring, this is always a winning response (for obvious reasons).
26. Follow up with… Tell me more 😉
Combine these two if you’re really in the mood to turn him on, as these texts combine let him know you love what you hear and you’re sitting on pins and needles to hear more of his sexy comments.
27. I’m just laying in bed, bored. Care to join?
Perfect for those boring weekday nights when you’re in bed but don’t want to miss out on any of the fun. Either he’ll come over or you guys can have an enticing text message conversation until wee hours of the morning.
28. I really like our friendship, but I was thinking… maybe we could be friends with benefits?
Wow. His jaw will literally drop to the floor when he sees this. It’s definitely what every man wants to hear!
29. Let’s hang out tonight. I promise you won’t regret it 😉
Hmmm, have something sexy and fun planned tonight? This lets him know that he is in for a REAL treat. Just don’t flake on your promise ladies!
30. Let’s play 20 question. What’s your name? What’s your favorite color? Wanna go out with me Saturday night?
He will NEVER see it coming- and that’s what we love about it! Who could resist this totally not obvious and adorable way of asking someone out?
31. Randomly text him… Hey! Stop thinking about me!
This will undoubtedly put a smile on your face, and he will either tease you and say that you weren’t, or he’ll say ‘how did you know’? Either way, it’s a winner in our book!
32. Hey, I was wondering, do you believe in love at first sight? Or do I need to walk by you again?
Come on, I got a giggle out of writing this silly yet flirty text message! Put a definite smile on his face with this funny text.
33. I just woke up and you’re already on my mind.
What better way to say good morning to someone than with this adorable, flirty text?
34. Mmm, sexy. I love a man that can (fill in the blank).
This is a GREAT text message for any situation. Let’s say you asked him what he was doing and he said he was making dinner. Why not send him this text as a response? It works for almost anything: cooking, cleaning, working on a motorcycle, playing a musical instrument- anything!
35. I know you have a busy day ahead of you, but could you add me on to your to-do list?
This is sexy, and he won’t even see it coming. And let’s face it: we ALL enjoy texts like these. This will definitely turn him on, and he won’t be able to help himself buy say OF COURSE!
36. You have the most amazing (fill in the blank).
Again, this is an easy and flirty text that can let you say almost anything. You could say his smile his amazing, his eyes are amazing, or even his personality is amazing. It really doesn’t matter what you say- this text message is bound to make him smile.
37. I want to take you home with me and pleasure you in ways you didn’t know possible.
Wow. This steamy text message is certainly not for new relationships. But if you and your crush or boyfriend have been at it for awhile, why not send him this sexy message and get the fireworks flying? C’mon, you know he will absolutely love this text message. Be brave and let him know!
38. You make me feel so (fill in the blank).
Does he make you happy? Does he make you feel complete? Does he make you feel ‘hot’? Any text that lets him know he makes you feel a certain way is definitely a winner in our books.
39. I love your lips.
Of course, this is a spicy and romantic text message that boost his confidence and lets him know that yes, it is OK to kiss you and you absolutely love it.
40. Follow with… I can’t wait to taste them again.
There’s something about the waiting game that drives us all mad. So telling him you can’t wait to kiss him and taste him again is a surefire way to peek his interest and make him feel all warm and intense on the inside.
41. If I could rearrange the alphabet, I would definitely put U and I together.
You’ve probably seen this clever text message on other websites or even television shows, and for good reason! This cute text message is flirty and clever all wrapped up into one, easy and quick text message. It will definitely make him smile!!
42. Come over. Now.
Sometimes guys like it when women are a little demanding. This will peek his interest for 2 reasons. One, your being assertive and most men find that a very attractive trait. And for two, why do you want him over? And not just tonight or sometime this week, but NOW? Do you have something special planned? He will be running over before you can even send the next text message!
43. Dang, you look extra hot today.
People love to hear that they look good today. And saying something as simple as this will boost his confidence incredibly fast. He might just do a few more struts passed you so you can get an ever better look.
44. Have you been working out?
There’s only one reason why you would ever ask a guy that they’ve been working out: there muscles look bigger (or they look better overall). So if you’re asking him if he’s hit up the gym lately, you’re clearly stating that he’s caught your attention because he looks so great. To put it plainly. this text message simply can’t go wrong.
45. Mmm, come over here. I want to touch you.
Every man wants to be touched. End of story. This text will undoubtedly turn him on and he won’t want to wait another second to come closer to you.
46. Can’t wait to see you XOXO
At the end of the day, we all just want to be wanted- right? This text will make him feel special. It will make him feel wanted. And that’s something that will definitely make him happy and excited to see you too!
47. Guess what I’m wearing right now.
This will really make his imagination run wild. Are you wearing a sexy dress? Maybe a piece of lingerie? Who knows! Just prepared to send him a picture of what you’re wearing afterwards.
48. I was just telling my friends about you. They’re so jealous 😉
You’re talking to your friends about him? Yeah. Guys LOVE that. And they also love to know that they are making your friends jealous. Plus the winking smily face lets him know you told them ALL the details- and they are even more jealous about THAT.
49. I had a dream about you last night. It was definitely R-rated…
This can only mean one thing: you had a naughty dream about him. Be ready to fill him in with all the dirty details!
50. Did you know I can do the splits?
Men love a girl that is flexible. This sparks interest because he will want to see just how flexible you can be.
51. I’ve been a bad girl today. I need a spanking.
Men love it when a nice girl can be dirty, and they love it even more when they can spank her for it. Send him this text message and drive him WILD.
52. Talk dirty to me.
It might be on the spot, but men thrive on that! He will want to show you how passionate and exciting he can be over text messages. And trust us, you’ll love all of the things he comes up with trying to impress you and turn you on.
53. Don’t waste all of your energy at work today. You’ll need some extra energy for later…
He’ll be thinking, “Oh really? For what?” Maybe you have something extra spicy planned for tonight. The point is to get him thinking all day long and let the intensity build up so he’s ready to go at it all night when he gets home.
54. Ugh, I was rushing out of the house and totally forgot to wear a bra.
I’m pretty sure his jaw will drop after reading this, and soon after his imagination will kick in, day dreaming about how alluring you look in a top without a bra on.
55. I found my old cheerleading outfit. It still fits…
Every man has a fantasy about a girl in a cheerleading outfit. I don’t know why, don’t ask me. The point is- it’s just a fact about men, and he will love to hear this. Be ready to showcase it for him!
56. Ugh, I’ve had a horrible day. I need to unwind… 😉
I wonder what you have in mind? What better way to unwind than to…. (you fill in the blank).
57. Can you guess the color of the underwear I’m wearing?
Men like to talk about girls and their underwear. And that’s just that.
58. I’ve never met a man that can (fill in the blank) as well as you.
This could be something G or X rated- you make the call!
59. If I were with you right now, what would we be doing?
Get inside of his head!
60. I’m trying to fall asleep, but I can’t stop thinking about you!
This is just too cute for words.
What’s your favorite flirty text?
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Lolio
July 24, 2016 at 3:15 am
I really really like this guy and we flirt all the time. He asked me to go out with him secretly… On his Instagram chats he talks about all these nudes that girls send him… What should I do… Btw I said yes to going out secretly and I regret it.. Should I? Also the he said the reason he wants to secretly go out is because he doesn’t want everyone asking cuz it’s annoying
web admin
July 25, 2016 at 10:03 pm
If you do not want to enter into a relationship with him, then tell him directly that you do not want to go out with him. You should explain to him that there is no chance that he is getting naked pictures of you if you are not in a relationship. Explain to him, if you decide that your feelings agree, that you need to be treated with the respect that you deserve. Move past him and find someone who does not collect pictures of naked people in his life.
Anyone
July 17, 2016 at 5:54 pm
Ok so I dated this guy and he is really sweet. I broke up with him because my friends told me he was cheating. I don’t think he was but I broke up with him anyways. I just got home be his brother had a bd party and when I went into his room he came too. I sat on his bed and his brother came in. Not the one who was for the party. The guy I dated put his arm around me and keeps playing with me. I don’t know how I feel. Then we were playing a game and he said I’m texting my gf repeatedly and he texted me. I don’t know if he was joking. I don’t think we should go out but I think he likes me I don’t want to date him because nobody will know. I think he thinks I’m embarrassing if he’s with me. He’ll say keep it a secret. He don’t want body to know. I think that’s offending and I don’t know if he likes me or not. He flirts with me a lot. I don’t know what’s to come. What if he asks me out? I don’t want to date him but I really like him. for what it’s worth nobody likes me and I don’t want to date a guy who doesn’t except me. what should I do????? Please help me.
web admin
July 17, 2016 at 10:02 pm
You need to separate yourself from this person immediately. It is clear that he is a person who is not treating you with respect. If you find that you are able to explain to his girlfriend that he is cheating on her, then you should do so. No one should be cheated on. Take a firm stance against this person and other people like him as you move forward in life. Nothing is more important than your safety and your self respect.
Anonymous
July 5, 2016 at 9:58 am
I really like this guy and we text all the time. All my friends and I think he likes me and he does stuff to show it. Such as sending videos of him diving or medals he’s won in races. Should I ask him out or just wait?
web admin
July 5, 2016 at 7:14 pm
You should speak with him directly about your desires. If he reciprocates your feelings, then you know that it would be wise to develop a relationship with him. Your best option is to be direct and honest. If he does not share your feelings, then you should move on from him, but by the sound of your story, it seems like he will agree with you. Ask him out and be happy!
Anyone
July 17, 2016 at 5:34 pm
you should TOTALLY ask him out!!!! He clearly likes you. Maybe you should send him hints you want to go out. Just don’t come off as desperate
web admin
July 17, 2016 at 9:59 pm
If someone is interested in developing a relationship with someone, then it is best to be direct and honest. Speaking boldly and clearly will not come out as desperate. Thank you for your insight.
Kelsey
June 24, 2016 at 8:24 pm
There is this boy that I like and he likes me too. He asked me out though and I turned him down because my dad would not be so happy actually none of my family would even though they all know him and like him. The other reason I turned him down is because there is this boy that I actually love and he likes two other girls and I we don’t barely even talk but I still have hope that we still have a chance of being together. The boy that asked me out though is now texting me and my parents don’t know. He calls me cutie and tells me goodnight and I told him when I get 13 or 14 I will probably date him and he said that he will be waiting for me. What should I do??
Kelsey
June 25, 2016 at 6:54 pm
Please help me!?
web admin
June 25, 2016 at 9:55 pm
I hope my comment helped you!
web admin
June 25, 2016 at 9:20 pm
Be mindful of your parent’s desires. At this age, what is most important is continuing to grow your relationship with your parents. There is no reason to not continue speaking with him, but I would speak with your parents as soon as you are able. It is important that you respect them as you age, this way you can receive their respect in regards to your relationship.
Alec
July 4, 2016 at 11:07 pm
Gurl I know exactly what you are going through. I’ve liked this guy for awhile and we even dated twice. But I never liked him as much as a certain someone. So I told the certain someone how I felt. He turned me down, but even though he turned me down, I knew that I could move on and find new amazing guys and I have. Now I’m sixteen and have a really super sweet boyfriend. If I hadn’t told the certain someone how I felt then I couldn’t have moved on and found my current boyfriend. You should tell the guy you love how you feel. If he likes you back then do something, if not, then hun find the strength to get back on your feet and find someone that is worth your love.
Good luck sweetie! Email me how things went please!
web admin
July 5, 2016 at 5:28 pm
That is great advice, Alec! Thank you for such positive sharing with your fellow readers!
Anyone
July 17, 2016 at 5:37 pm
girl if that guy you love has other girls in his mind stop looking!!!!!! There is only room for one of you and if you let him ask another one out your gonna be heartbroken. Take your opportunities. Give him a chance.
web admin
July 17, 2016 at 10:00 pm
Thank you for your comment. Do not allow people to treat you without respect.
Pryanka
June 19, 2016 at 1:38 am
I and this guy have been dating, this year marks d 3rd yr …during d past years we never had a good chat.but we love eachoda…its a long distance relationship…. dis year d way we chat changed a lot….we chat abt our feelings and so many things…we even talked of kissing and having sex,we kissed and I like it…but is it right to do DAT? hope it’s not early?
web admin
June 19, 2016 at 11:22 am
If the two of you have been dating for three years and yet you have not had a good chat, then perhaps you should take the reins and have a good chat. If you have been together for three years, then it is entirely reasonable to want to move your relationship to a physical level. Try to meet him in person to see if the spark is there.
Bri
June 18, 2016 at 7:11 pm
Well ok i have a childhood friend i like him so much i told him and he felt the same but everytime i bring up how much i like him he shuts it off and ends the conversation but wen i tell him why he tell me i changed and he doesn’t feel the same so does he hate me or like me?!?! Im so confused help me please
web admin
June 19, 2016 at 11:19 am
Bri, if he is telling you that he no longer feels the same, then it is likely that is the case. He doesn’t hate you or he wouldn’t still be talking to you. He may not have strong relationship feelings toward you, but he is still your friend. For now, treat him like a friend and perhaps those feelings will come back to him.
lauren
June 14, 2016 at 10:16 pm
ok so i like this one guy and he likes me too and he asked me out. how do i get him to love me more? i need some advise.
web admin
June 15, 2016 at 5:25 pm
Lauren, allow your relationship to grow naturally. You just began your relationship, your mutual love with develop by itself.
Lucy
June 13, 2016 at 1:48 pm
So… I’ve been going out with my boyfriend for seven months now and we are both in yr7 and I just found out that he liked another while we have been going out. What should I do? Should I break up with him or stay with him? Or should I tell him how I feel about the situation?.
web admin
June 13, 2016 at 6:02 pm
It is fine that he liked someone else. What is important is if he made any action toward he while in your relationship. If he cheated on you, then end it. If not, accept that everyone is human and these things occur. Be sure to tell him how you feel regardless of the situation. Honesty is the most important thing in a relationship.
Ash
June 12, 2016 at 5:17 pm
I’ve fallen hard for this guy and he said he feels the same but he said he wants to ask me out and at the same time doesn’t and me and him been flirting a lot for a couple of days and I really want him to ask me out should I ask him out or should I let him ask me out and let him be ready?
web admin
June 13, 2016 at 9:51 am
Just ask him out. He is obviously nervous for some reason or is afraid of making the next move, so just ask him out. If there is a reason behind his hesitance, then you will most likely discover it when you ask him out. At the very least, you should talk to him about what is holding him back. If he does not have a clear answer, ask him on a date. Good luck, Ash!
Mutu
June 11, 2016 at 11:24 pm
I recently started dating a friend (female) I have known for about a year. We used to text a lot but when we started dating, things changed. We are 3 weeks old now and already our communication has lots of hiccups. She doesn’t pick my calls most times, takes long to reply and when she does, she just ignores messages i sent earlier.Generally, the excitement is no longer there. Am trying my best to be as patient as I can be but it’s really getting to my nerves. What should I do?
web admin
June 13, 2016 at 6:08 pm
If you find that your partner is ignoring you and feel that they are no longer interested in you, perhaps you should go straight to the source. Ask her directly where she feels she wants the relationship to go. If she is indecisive, then look inward. Determine if you want the relationship to continue, if not, then explain to her respectfully that you are ending the relationship.
:-)
June 11, 2016 at 12:04 pm
okay so around october i started talking to this guy and we know we like each other but i never wanted to date him because my friends who go to school with him (i used to but moved) say he’s an ass. around december he sent me nudes and then we got in a fight because i got mad because i didn’t want them etc. my mom found out and someone told the police, still don’t know who did. then when i got my phone back in may we started talking but i soon told him i don’t want anything, so he acts like HE PLAYED ME. then we get to talking once again and he admited that he only did that because he didn’t want to show that he’s hurt from me. he says he really really likes me and we talk late on the phone almost every night. he says that he doesn’t talk much to people he doesn’t care about, making him seem like an ass. another problem is that my parents don’t know that we are talking again. they hate him for what he sent me. i don’t know what to do.. do i continue to talk to him..? and if i do, how do i tell my parents?
(idk if it matters but i’m a sophomore)
web admin
June 13, 2016 at 4:53 pm
Whether or not your current relationship with him at this time is platonic or sexual, it is important that your parents are aware of your situation. If you feel your relationship with him must remain hidden from your parents, then be mindful that the future will hold some tough and unpleasant conversations. It also seems that he has been rude to you on multiple occasions, and it is important to take that into account. For now, I would stop talking to him and take some time to allow your mind to work out the situation. Keep in mind that your parents care about you and they are likely not to approve the relationship, and it is important that your future boyfriend and parents respect each other as you don’t want to cause a division between you and them.
Confused
April 6, 2016 at 7:52 am
I really like this guy and we have known each other for a while. We recently started talking after a gap and he expressed his interest but clearly.Even then, things were going great and we used to talk a lot but suddenly he disappeared and his messaging became very sporadic. I haven’t spoken to him in a few days and I don’t know if I should push it.
web admin
April 6, 2016 at 12:47 pm
He may just be busy, or he may not be as interested after all. I would wait before you assume the worst–he is probably just busy, or he may have stopped chatting because he is unsure about your interest level in him. You have not talked to him for a few days, so there is nothing wrong with reaching out. Say hello, ask how things are going and get the conversation restarted again. Good luck, Confused!
Sag
April 4, 2016 at 9:38 am
I like her few years but our relationship is just a good friend type.sometimes she make me feel like she also like me.should i approach for her or else?
web admin
April 6, 2016 at 10:53 am
If you like her, approach her about it. You will never know what could be possible unless you take a risk. If you do not at least ask her out, you will spend your next relationship wondering what could have happened and wishing that you could be with her. Even if she rejects you, it will give you closure in knowing that you made the right choice and can move on. Best of luck, Sag!
Juan
April 3, 2016 at 12:10 pm
Ok so me and my crush we were texting and she fell asleep on me and we just have normal conversations but I wanna change it up and give her a hint that I like her but I don’t know how help
web admin
April 4, 2016 at 5:29 pm
Send her one of these flirty texts, flirt with her or just ask her out. It sounds like she could like you–and may even guess that you like her since you cuddled her and spend time with her. I would just ask her how she feels. Make sure that you emphasize that you do not want things to be awkward or weird if it does not work out. Fortunately, it sounds like you have an excellent chance that she will say yes, so I would just go for it. You will never know what can be possible unless you take that risk, so go for it and you will hopefully have a girlfriend on your hands before long. Good luck!
unicornlover!
April 2, 2016 at 2:38 pm
There’s this boy in year 10 and I’m in year8. We r really good friends and we text each other lime everyday! Well if we aren’t texting then we r probably skyping each other. But he seems to me like he may have a crush on me but I really don’t know obviously I want him to coz I’m literally head over heels for him. The worst thing is that he kinda already know that I ‘used’ to like him.so that was sorted out but I still do do him an h told him. Over text during our convos he adds a lot of blushing emojis once he sent 6in one row!! I mean I freaked out .he also use to prank me well he still does its like our little joke on a few occasions he’s texted me saying I love you but then said it was a joke but I don’t know I it actually was. Get this on a recently I have sky ping his twin bro and he pushed him out of the way as a ‘joke’ and started to style his hair in front o the camera!! And before that that I was talking to his bro and behind him he was showing me his muscles an from the corner I could see him showing his six pack it’s like he is trying to impress me! But I don’t know how to get it out of him I need to know who j likes but he won’t say! Please help
web admin
April 4, 2016 at 4:10 pm
It sounds like he likes you. Texting you all the time and Skyping with you all of the time are both signs that he is interested in you. He knows that you like him, so it seems like it would be cruel of him to talk to you so much since it would lead you on. It sounds like he very well could like you–perhaps you should just ask him out or ask him if there is any possibility of you two having a future together.
olivia
April 1, 2016 at 2:27 pm
Hello! I have fallen hard for this guy, he living in a different country, we never met, but I also lived there for a little and been on a holiday there a lot. we started to talked just like a routine, more like friend, but sometime it seem like a bit of a mix between friend and more than friend. we just been talking since last two months, he is slightly change how he normally talked in a negative way, coz I fancy him a lot and im not sure what he’s thinking about me like in the beginning first we start talking he seem to show off that hes interested in me for a bit, but now thing changed. sometime he doesn’t replied and I just a little worried bout him so I kept text him again and this happened quite often. im not sure what to do from this and not sure that I meant to kept texting him when hes not respond? please help thankyou xo
web admin
April 4, 2016 at 1:22 pm
It is possible that he is not as interested anymore, but the lack of communication may just be because he is exceptionally busy with work, school or his family. Give him a few more weeks before you give up. If things return to normal by then, then you are in the clear. If not, you can always move on and find someone else.
Noxlala
March 25, 2016 at 7:06 am
I met this guy through social media , we started flirting , ended up hooking up, at 1st it was abt having fun nothing serious….but now I’m so hooked and he is giving me mix signs…..one minute he is all over me like a rush, then next he is cold like ice……I’m confused not sure if I could sit down talk with him or let go
web admin
March 28, 2016 at 11:49 am
Take things slower and see what happens. It sounds like he may be starting to fall for you. The sudden cold attitude may be because he doesn’t want this to be more than a fling, so he is trying to keep himself from feeling anything. Give the relationship another month and see where it stands. If he does not seem more interested and does not bring up an official relationship by then, you will know that it can only be a fling.
Ashley
March 23, 2016 at 2:18 pm
I Have know my boyfriend for 5 years and finally after 2 years said yes to him asking me out one day I sent him a text and the Auto correct sent him something that looked like I love you and he said I love you too before I could fix it and I wasn’t ready to say it yet now I am telling him I love you now and then what do I do?
web admin
March 28, 2016 at 8:23 am
Relax! Depending on your current relationship level, you could just tell him that it was autocorrect and that you like him a lot. You could also just let it ride. If you guys date for long, you will end up falling in love with him (and if not, the relationship will end). Perhaps this is a sign from fate that you should be more adventurous and take the risk of falling in love. 🙂
Dev
March 11, 2016 at 11:28 pm
I like this one girl but she don’t like me and she call me childish please help me to slove these problem thank you
web admin
March 13, 2016 at 6:10 pm
I am not sure what you can do. Take some time away from her for a few months or longer. She said she is not interested in you and was rather mean about it. From the sound of your situation, I doubt that she would end up liking you in the next few months. Give up for a few months or years, and it will give her a chance to change her mind (and hopefully become a bit nicer, too).
kaitlyn
April 19, 2016 at 2:11 pm
Maybe you should text her to see how she is doing. just send her something like, ‘hey. we haven’t talked lately, just wondering how you were doing!’
web admin
April 23, 2016 at 8:31 am
That sounds like excellent advice, Kaitlyn. I am sure that Dev will appreciate getting it. Thanks for commenting!
stephanie
July 25, 2016 at 6:26 am
hey you are so cute
web admin
July 25, 2016 at 10:58 pm
Thank you for your friendly post. It is nice to see positive posts between our readers.
Amaya
March 10, 2016 at 12:38 pm
I’ve fallen hard for this guy, who I think already has a girlfriend (sadly). He’s amazing in every sense of the word :L. We’re good friends and I’ve known him for a while. Sometimes it feels like he’s being flirty which confuses me and gives me hope D:
Should I maintain a platonic relationship, or try hinting at going a little further? Halp please x.x
web admin
March 10, 2016 at 4:48 pm
First, find out if he has a girlfriend for sure. Just ask him if he does. That way, he will take it as a hint that you are interested without you actually having to say it. Plus, you need to find out if he has a girlfriend or not before you proceed. If he is single, go ahead and flirt with him or ask him out. If he is in a relationship, keep everything completely platonic until he is single again. Good luck, Amaya!