Capricorn Man in Love
CEO of the company, respected attorney, world renowned chef- these are just a few of the careers likely to be had by a Capricorn. Capricorns are extremely determined and single-minded individuals, and they won’t stop until they get what they want- even if it means traveling through horrendous obstacles to get there. Capricorns are always seeing the reality of every situation rather than the fantasy, which gives them an edge in certain situations- especially business situations. You won’t find a Capricorn taking a moment to daydream about things that could never be- they’d much rather be determining their next move on an important subject.
The Type of Woman Capricorn Needs
Capricorns tend to be a bit shy and reserved at first so they don’t rush into anything. They see relationships as a long term investment and tend to fall for someone quickly after entering a relationship. However, they prefer to stand back and assess their potential partner before making a move. That’s why Capricorn needs a real woman with a distinct personality, someone who likes the same things as they do. They don’t fall for someone with just a pretty face, which is why a Capricorn won’t typically go for eight inch stilettos and a mini skirt. Capricorn needs a lady who is as invested in the relationship as he is and is willing to go the extra mile to make it work. He doesn’t want a woman that plays games, but rather a mature woman who is seeking a lengthy relationship and is willing to work through problems.
Capricorn in a Relationship
For a Capricorn, even finding a potential mate is a bit difficult. The Capricorn will sit back and watch for awhile, noting what the female likes or dislikes and analyzing her personality. He wants to make sure it’s going to be worth his time- a match made in Heaven, so to speak. That being said, the Capricorn male is not a player and doesn’t go for one night stands. He won’t fall for a girl because of the way she looks, and would much prefer to get to know a woman before even entering into a relationship.Once the Capricorn has studied his potential mate for quite sometime, he’ll be able to determine whether or not she is worth the investment. (Capricorns are always judging something on longterm- whether it’s a relationship or a business proposal).
After entering into the relationship, Capricorn might seem a bit standoffish. It’s not because he isn’t interest (in fact it’s quite the opposite!), it’s more that he does not want to show off to much of his feelings in the beginning and ruin any possibilities. Capricorn knows he’s extremely into you and doesn’t want to mess anything up, so he tries not to scare off his partner with too much romance. However, after the relationship has moved past the initial few months of dating, a different side to Capricorn is shown: his affectionate, loving side- the side where he lets you know he’d do anything to keep you in his arms.
To put it plainly, Capricorn is seeking a long term relationship. Once he has found his ‘perfect girl’, he will do anything to keep her. He wants to be the man of the house and take of his lady, but also have a woman who is secure and likes the same things as him. However, Capricorn will have a problem if his woman surpasses him in any way (career wise, parent wise, etc).
Capricorn in the Bedroom
A lot of people think a Capricorn might be boring in the bedroom. His practical attitude and lack of imagination might seem dull, but that’s quite the opposite. In fact, Capricorn loves to please his mate. According to him, it’s best to find one or two things that work and stick to it. He will continuously perfect these few skills until he can please you within minutes. However, Capricorn does have a longing to please his woman in whatever way possible, so if you’re into whips, whipped cream, or sexy costumes, you may be able to sway him into it. If you like to be treated like a Queen in the bedroom (without having to return the favor), then you will definitely have a wonderful time with a Capricorn.
Negative Side of a Capricorn Man
One of the biggest negative trains of a Capricorn is that he tends to pessimistic. Capricorn, being an overachiever and hard-worker, always sees himself as ‘not good enough’. He uses this pessimistic attitude throughout most aspects of his life, and many find this negative mindset a bit of an annoyance.
Another problem you might notice with a Capricorn is their stubbornness. Capricorns have a certain way of doing things. They like what they like, and that’s it. If you disagree, they really don’t want to hear it. They are stuck in their ways and believe that what they think or do is best. This can obviously get on someone’s nerves, but if you can work through a Capricorns stubbornness you will enjoy their positive traits.
Lastly, Capricorns have a tendency to be shy- especially in the beginning of a relationship. This might irritate some women and leave them thinking that the man is uninterested. However, women need to remind themselves that Capricorn men are simply shy by nature and don’t like to give up too much in the beginning. Hold on to the relationship and you’ll see the man blossom into a hard-working and extremely dedicated individual that works tirelessly for his lady.
Compatibility
Capricorn and Taurus: The two make a wonderful match, both being level-headed individuals with a realistic approach. Just make sure you add plenty of fun and excitement to keep things interesting or your affairs may become mundane.
Capricorn and Capricorn: The perfect two! Both individuals have goals and determination necessary for a fulfilling relationship, and the two can easily have a business partnership at the same time. However, the relationship may get boring after time, so make sure to take time for some fun activities.
Capricorn and Pisces: Both individuals offer plenty of depth and communication, and if the pair can learn to appreciate the extreme differences between each other, the relationship will flourish greatly. In this case, opposites attract and can make for an exciting and fulfilling time!
Capricorn Man in a Nutshell
A capricorn man isn’t hard to figure out or very mysterious. He has two goals in his mind: how to reach the top of his career (or some other highly sought after goal) and finding the perfect woman for a long term and deep relationship. Capricorns are extremely dedicated and prefer to stick to their roots, not taking other’s opinions easily. They need a woman they can take care of for a lifetime, a gal who is willing to deal with his stubborn and ernest personality. But don’t let his hard-working mindset sway you from dating a Capricorn. These sweet men are pleasurers in the bedroom without needing any fancy footwork and will work endlessly to ensure his woman is happy- when it comes to the overall relationship, finances, home life, and more.
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Jamey Black
June 20, 2016 at 8:10 pm
Hello I’m an Aries woman crushing on a Capricorn man!!! What is the compatibility like between Aries woman and Capricorn man? Is it a good fit as a romantic couple? Would it work out between the two? Curious as to what’s in store for these two signs in particular
web admin
June 21, 2016 at 1:43 pm
According to astrology, you two are likely to be crashing into each other often. Both signs are hotheaded as the leaders of the pack. That said, he will often get away with things that you are surprised that you are letting him get away with. Enjoy your relationship, it is likely to be an exciting and passionate adventure.
Kiralazuli
June 15, 2016 at 5:16 pm
Hi! I am a Leo woman. I fell in love with a Capricorn man at first sight at my choir concert, he was nice. Over time, i started to develop a small crush on the guy. but, i wasn’t so sure. then, when i told one of my friends about it eventually i became sure that i actually liked this Capricorn. We talked a little, and he was nice. he did show signs of small stuttering, avoiding little eye contact, and a small smile? if i could remember correctly. Anywho, later that day i asked my friend to tell him for me. (because i had to leave) and later on that night she told me all he said was “ok.” for me, that ticks me off. so a few nights later i confronted him and confessed a little? Here is our conversation on that night:
Me: Hey, sorry to bother you. (espically if you are busy right now.) but i have a few questions to ask.
Him: Yea go for it
Me: So… about last monday. Orginally, i was going to confess face to face, but i had to go. so, the real question is, what did you mean by “Ok.”?
Him: Well what was i supposed to say?
( i took a good five minutes staring at the screen in shock, then said this. )
Me: Got your point right there… (Nervous emoji)
Me: im sorry if this is any weird, i was just curious of what that meant.
Him: Well to be honest i dont even know you, you seem like a good person but not for me. I would never get in a relationship just by talking online. and you like (favorite band), sorry but thats a huge turn off.
( after gritting my teeth and sucking it up, i say this. )
Me. … I understand.
Me: thanks for your time, and dont worry, no harsh feelings.
Him: Thanks for understanding.
After that we talk normally for a bit, but at our choir rehearsals i found out that was his brother the whole time.
TIMESKIP
I asked my friend Manny to ask whats his opinion on me in a game of Truth or Dare, then he comes back to me saying:
“He says your funny, smart, and your beautiful. OH, and that he likes you.”
BY likes me im not sure in a friend way or not, but i took it the other way. so now, after a while i would text him and he would open them but never respond, i would give him time but he would do the same thing over and over. i told my friend Alina about this, and she stood up for me, turns out he was busy and i was being the imaptient one.
so as we text, only for a little, he says hes sorry for not keeping in touch and this and that. and sends his sincerest apologies.
so then he would send little texts with hearts an smilies, even winks. i dont know if he is flirting, or just being friendly. im confused and i really like this guy, i have an idea on what to do, i just dont know how to explain it. How do i know he likes me? how do i know he is just being friendly? i already set my cards on the table, could this be a change? i dont know… Could you help me? Thanks! xoxo
web admin
June 15, 2016 at 5:51 pm
Since you two have a developing relationship, you may as well be clear with him about where you want the relationship to go. Tonight, if you feel up to it, ask him out and see where his mind is at. There is no harm in trying.
Michel
June 13, 2016 at 6:13 am
I’m a Leo woman and I’ve been seeing this Capricorn man since March of this year. While it’s new, it feels like we’ve been together longer than that. The first month we argued excessively; however, since that time we have not. He has told me he likes me very much and notices everything about me. He works two jobs and doesn’t have a lot of free time but I believe a person will do what’s important to them. So, if I’m important to him, he would spend more time with me. Just my opinion! It’s definitely a strong connection there. However, seems when we do get together its physical. He holds me afterwards and spends the night. I told him that I wanted to go out sometime. He says we will, but we haven’t been anywhere to date! Because of this, I have chosen to not be available when he wants to come over. Now, every time he calls or texts he accuses me of being with another man. He rides pass my house, I’m guessing to see if there is another car parked in front of my house. Then he tells me that I am bull****** with his feelings. What feelings????? He never tells or shows me anything. I should mention that he has been distant in the past. We could spend time together then he becomes distant. I hate that! My question is………..what’s the deal with him? Does he or doesn’t he want to be in this “thing” cause it can’t be considered a relationship, in my opinion?
web admin
June 13, 2016 at 5:42 pm
If he is prowling your house and accusing you of cheating, then perhaps his motives are not pure. It is important to have trust in a relationship, and if you have been faithful, then maybe he should spend some time looking at himself.
That said, you should text him back if he texts you. If you are not going to text him back, or anyone else for that matter, then be straightforward and explain the reasons why. He may just be hurt and his actions are in response to those feelings. For now, talk clearly with him about these concerns and move forward in response to that conversation.
Nisha
June 13, 2016 at 1:54 am
Hey
I met this capricon guy 10 months back. We have been the best of friends since then. He has a girlfriend. He does not speak much about his relationship though. All i know about his relationship is that he does not have any fights with her and that she is very understanding.
On the other hand both of us share an amzing bond and we do exchange alot of love and care for each other. He tells me alot of times i Love u and i revert back always. I do not know if he says it as a best friend or if he has other feelings for me. Once he asked me what would i do if he proposed me, he gets all caring and bothered if i am not available online even for say 1 hour. We talk for hours together over the phone everyday. We have shared so much with each other till date he always told me how important and special i was in his life and also told me a lot of times that it is very difficult for him to express sometimes but he does love me alot.
Suddenly he has started avoiding me and he doesnt pick my calls anymore or he doesnt text the way he used to before. We used to talk 24/7 now he doesnt seem to be bothered at all. He doesnt care even if i dont come online for days. He says he is scared that we might get feelings for each other. I really dont know what to do. I dont understand if he has feelings for me or not? why is he refraining himself from me suddenly. When i asked him he said he loves his girlfriend alot and he does not want her importance to go away from his life. thats why he wanted to stop everything here. He says he doesnt want me in his life anymore and the next day he calls me and cries that he does want me in his life. I really do not know what am i to infer from all this? Please help.
web admin
June 13, 2016 at 5:33 pm
If he is currently in a relationship then it is your responsibility to either have him quit his current relationship or for you to end any relationship other than simple friendship. This is for two reasons, the first and most important is that you do not want to hurt his current girlfriend. Secondly, are you sure that you want to nurture a relationship with someone who is willing to cheat?
If he stopped talking to you suddenly, then it is more than possible that his current girlfriend found out or he was overcome with remorse. Tell him that it is important to you that he remains with her or chooses you, it is his decision. But, in the end, what matters most is the feelings of an innocent person are on the line here. You do not want to be the cause of the suffering of someone else.
Vivienne
June 10, 2016 at 5:23 am
Don’t even know where to start from, I’m a taurean, met my cap guy via social media in February 2016, we met for the first time late April, he’s quite a public figure, reckoned that’s why he was a bit distant, he had a highly publicised divorce, we have a connection, met up 3ce, sex once which was completely unplanned and I beat myself up for weeks after that, he reassured me all was well but he’s been distant. Takes days to respond to messages, I don’t call as he doesn’t respond, i used to daily send lengthy messages, until he stopped responding, now i send once in a week or two and he gets round to responding sometimes. He can randomly send me a message by 7.30 in the morning, telling me he misses me or inquiring about my wellbeing, i sent him a message that i wanted to spend ny birthday with him, he claimed not to have seen it and apologised. He calls me endearing names and cracks a few jokes but that’s it, we hardly speak! I needed some professional advise about work etc, we agreed to meet at his, I arrived and was in there for barely 15minutes as he was poorly and needed to rest, I let myself out, not sure why he still let me come when he knew I would spend little time with him, he was an hour late by the way even though he responded to my text to acknowledge I was waiting for him, not sure if its a good or bad sign, sent him a message a few days later, requesting to get his opinion on the professional pathway I needed to discuss with him, I mentioned that I wouldn’t mind getting my response via text etc as he seems uncomfortable around me, I said this cause he wanted to high five me the last time we met! I declined and hugged him instead. He got upset at my comment and I apologised. Don’t know if I’ve finally ruined things as I genuinely like him and wish for a proper relationship, he’s been badly hurt in the past but that was 3 years before us, how long will he take to unravel? Should I wait for the walls to come down or just move on?
web admin
June 10, 2016 at 7:47 pm
I do not think that you have ruined things. It sounds like he realized after you got to know each other that you were not the partner that he was actually looking for. It sounds like he is afraid to tell you that he is not that interested in pursuing a relationship going with you, so he has chosen to be distant instead. Unless something major changes right now, it sounds like he is not that interested in a relationship with you or not interested in a relationship at all. Personally, I would choose to just move on and forget about it for now. Good luck!
Mayra Martinez
June 4, 2016 at 6:40 am
Hi im a 23 year old cancer woman ,dating a 28 year old Capricorn man .we have been together for 6 months now , after just 3 weeks from the time we met he decided to ask me to be his girl friend .so now it is 6 months later and all he does is come over to my house and have sex with me stays for about 2 hours a WEEK i cook him dinner we have sex we talk a lil than he leaves to be ride his dirt bike or be with his friends. He has not taking me out on any dates , he did try the first time we met but i had left my ID at home so we had come back to my place. I have asked him time after time to take me out and his response is i will just dont force it. Every time i try breaking up with him because of this , he runs to my house and assures me that there is no one else , and he just needs time to think and that he never wants to hurt me in any way. 6 months no dates just sex and i still only get 2 hours a week with him..should i stay or should i go ? He did say he loves the way i treat him and take cares of him but isnt ready to be a boyfriend full time but he is going to try to change for me and just to give him some time to think .
web admin
June 6, 2016 at 6:22 pm
He might be telling you the truth–it is entirely possible that there is no one else in his life. At the same time, it seems like he views you as just a fling and someone to spend a little time with. For the most part, it seems like he likes to spend most of his time with friends and doing his own thing. While there is nothing wrong with that type of relationship, it does not seem like the type of arrangement that you want. There is no reason why he could not take you on a date instead of just arriving at your house for sex–even if he was short on money, he could make a candle lit dinner for you somewhere. I would have a serious talk with him about what you want, and end things if both of your relationship goals are not in line with each other.
Bimi
May 29, 2016 at 5:11 pm
Hey I really need you guys.I meet a capricorn guy that I like him so badly he likes me back we are seeing each other not so much cause we live a little fear with our parents we know each other for 7 months,I feel a chemistry in between And I show my emotions idk if it’s good he just seem like he don’t know if he is going to feel the same but he likes me I’m so confused idk how to react I dont wanna lose him idk what to do? ?
web admin
June 4, 2016 at 12:20 pm
It sounds like the chemistry is good–he might just be bad at showing his feelings. If he has been with you, told you he likes you and continued to talk to you for seven months, it is safe to say that he likes you. Just relax and your enjoy your relationship. If you are not actually dating him yet, try asking him out because it sounds like he likes you. Good luck, Bimi!
Pb711
May 26, 2016 at 2:47 am
Hi I’m 30 yr Scorpio women in love with Capricorn man. We been together since 2 years but all I m always confused about is whether he loves me or not. He never says but would reply that if I don’t feel than what’s the use of answering. One time he would do all little n precious things for me and other day he would jus ignore. That’s the point I loose my temper n fight cuz he repeatedly does this and comes back normal as if nothing happened. Recently he again started ignoring me and we had big fight cuz of this. And now he is behaving so cold. I’m confused whether he really loves me and is jus angry or there is some other gal in his life and that’s the reason he is ignoring me. Please help
web admin
May 26, 2016 at 9:49 am
It sounds like he is tired and annoyed that you keep asking him how he feels and demanding proof that he loves you. If you were in his shoes, it would be fair to feel the same way. I don’t know how he feels now, but he must have loved you before because he chose to stay with you for two years. He probably became increasingly annoyed by your insecurities and worries, which led to the argument. Now, he is most likely ignoring you because he has no clue what to do next. While it is always possible that there is another girl, there is no indication that there actually is one. It seems like he just became frustrated by your constant questions and demands, and he is ignoring you because of this now. If you get a chance, try to get your relationship back to normal. Some people are unable to express their feelings verbally, so do not assume that he is uninterested just because of what he says–judge him by what he does instead.
Pb711
May 28, 2016 at 12:51 am
Can I get him back ? He does calls n talks for hours but only when he wants. Even met saying that He is meeting jus because I want to see him. When I call he won’t answer and jus ignores. He wasn’t like this . He is annoying me and making me feel that I have lost him actually. That’s not I want to be treated. But I don’t want to loose him also. I don’t know what to do to get things back on normal track or its over for him and I should jus leave him n go. Kindly guide.
web admin
June 3, 2016 at 9:41 am
I would give up on calling him for now. Each time you call him makes him think that you are chasing him and being needy. If you hold off on calling, he will realize that you are not always going to be there for him whenever he wants you. Take some time to focus on your own life and heal. In another few weeks or months, you can always reach out to see how he is doing (unless he reaches out to you first). If you keep being there for him and calling him first, he is never going to treat you the way you deserve to be treated.
Ojasvi
May 25, 2016 at 11:30 pm
Dude!! I am deeply in love with a Capricorn man
I want to be his bae
However I think we might hv kinks together because I am an Aquarius and both of us are quite stubborn
I am ready to sacrifice and compromise
But my zodiac doesn’t allow me to do it all the time
What should I do!!
Plizz help me
web admin
May 26, 2016 at 9:45 am
Work on having open communication and acceptance in your relationship. While your astrological sign impacts your personality, you still have the power to choose your life. If you want to compromise and have a strong relationship, you can do it. Every relationship takes work, and both partners have to be willing to work at things for the relationship to be a success. Good luck, Ojasvi!
Justina
May 17, 2016 at 3:50 pm
Could a Capricorn and gemini be together?
web admin
May 18, 2016 at 4:19 pm
Anyone can be with another astrological sign because individuals do not always match up to their astrological descriptions perfectly. Plus, people who are good at communicating and committed to making it work can generally overcome most relationship obstacles. Good luck, Justina!
Nylah
May 11, 2016 at 5:44 pm
Hi, my story about my cap is kinda long seeing that we know eachother for 16 years. Is it possible to email my story(not sure if I can keep it short lol) to you and Herbie(love his advice).
A lot has happen between me and this cap man and he has been a red line through out my life. Over the years when I thought my feelings for him where over, it came back 10 times stronger making me realize he’s the one for me. We been having good contact and he really knows me like no other man can. He has seen me growing over the years from a girl to a woman. Still compliments me, notice little details about me, he’s always checking out my pictures. I do feel and believe he’s the one for me. It’s just the situation he is in right now that can’t make it possible for us to be together at the moment. I just wonder sometimes when or how long will it take before he makes the steps towards me because I know caps take a lot of time to think before they make a decision. He says things like one day your gonna be a great mother. Interested in my passion asking me how much the equipment cost that I need to do my work. Tells me he is proud of me when I achieve my dreams.
One thing I don’t understand is why he sometimes ask me where my man is or why I don’t have a man yet. When he clearly knows that I want him as my man and I tell him that to. One time he asked me why him as in why I want him. Is that his insecurity?
For his bday I give him gifts that he cherish for years and he lets me know he still has it. Recently I got him a custom made gift and he was speechless for a few minutes and then kissed me. After he said you are amazing!
I do my best not to bug him too much with texting. I mostly leave it up to him. Once in awhile I will send him a good morning text and he responds back. Well I could go on and on but like I said the story between me and my cap is quite long lol. I just kinda put out some high lights. Hope you can make sense of it. And help me out a bit of not I would be gladly to send a email with more details. Thank you!
web admin
May 13, 2016 at 9:39 am
Sixteen years is a long time to wait for someone to be single and ready for a relationship. If I were you, I would just ask him out and see what he says. If he says no, then you will know that you need to start moving on in life and find someone else. If he says yes, then you will finally get what you want. It is unfair for you to have to wait around for decades in the hope that he will finally want a relationship. You have a life to live, and there are many other guys in the world who would work well with your personality. If he is not ready or able to have a relationship with you after 16 years, move even. Even for a Capricorn, that is a very, very long time to drag out.
Alana
May 7, 2016 at 8:09 pm
Hi, I am a 22 year old Taurus who has fallen for a 23 year Capricorn male. We dated for a total of 5 months before I called the relationship off as I was not happy. I realized afterwards why- I read up on his star sign, I realize he was being stand-off-ish and he does really love me. He is worth the wait to me if only I knew what to look for sooner. We barely fought I just didn’t feel loved.
I found out later that a week after we broke up a close friend of mine Lied to him and said I cheated on him and he stopped putting in effort to make us work (i had no idea what had happened or why). I found out later on what this friend had said and she denied it in front of him and myself. That’s when he told me he knows I didn’t do it and she’s a bad person and I should stop hanging around with her. I called him after and he agreed to see me on Sunday to talk. I messaged him In the morning to see if it is still happening and he replied asking what it is I want to talk about- I replied and said ‘A large matter of things but don’t stress I don’t want to ask you to get back together I know that ship has sailed’ I really do want to keep trying but I have no idea what to do or say or how to handle the situation. H had told me that he’s never been so sure of someone in his life and that He wanted to marry me. It’s hard to believe it when he keeps saying things to push me away.
web admin
May 9, 2016 at 8:31 am
Talk to him about how things ended and express everything that you think. At the very least, this conversation should give you the closure that you need to move on. At most, you may find out more about what was going on in his mind and you may even be able to get back together. As for your friend, he is right–you really should consider removing her from your circle of friends since she has not acted like a friend in any way.
Grace
May 1, 2016 at 4:24 am
Hi!I’m a Leo-Virgo cusp girl. I’ve been texting a classmate of mine from the past 8 months. He’s a Capricorn. I’ve found that within 3 months of texting, he started flirting with me a lot through texts. He keeps teasing me on a lot of things (in a nice way),keeps complimenting me. I feel he’s opened up to me a lot since I first spoke to him. Also, he texts me more than before, though at times he just disappears, and it annoys me! He’s repeatedly called me a sweetheart, and has said that I’m special. I would like to know if this is a typical Capricorn guy behaviour? Do they flirt with everyone, or is it only the ones the love? I’m getting mixed signals, because there are days when he texts a lot, and then there are times when he won’t text unless I text him first. How do I know if he’s being serious, or only flirting? Any advice will be helpful. Thanks! 🙂
web admin
May 3, 2016 at 9:31 am
It sounds like he is interested in you–he may just disappear at times because he is busy or has his phone on silent. As for how serious he is, the only real way to find out is to go on a date with him and see how things go. It is way too early in the relationship to know if someone is serious or if it would work out. From the sound of it, he likes you as more than just a fling, but the only way to really know is to date him and see how it goes. Good luck, Grace!
Jasmine
April 22, 2016 at 3:02 am
Hey, I’m a Pisces Woman that met a Capricorn Guy through Tinder last year November after being single for a year and a half , Chatting with him Online was amazing it made me crave to meet him more, every time when we had planned to meet my work or his would eventually come in-between but we eventually met, the day we met he invited me to a BBQ at his place and when I got to his place, I discovered that I wasn’t only meeting him, I was meeting his entire family, that was something I had never experienced I was shocking and it was really shocking, that day I actually had a great time with his family they made me really welcomed, we were having a great conversations and I remember one of his uncles placed his arm around my shoulder out of nowhere he called him out saying his uncle should keep his hands to himself that was a bit of a surprise but that night I ended up being physically intimate with him because he made me feel so secured and protected plus I was wanted too. After that first meeting we kept in touch and days went by without him wanting to see but he would call and text me like he normally did, not seeing him started frustrating me and I eventually asked him to where I stand with him than he was brutally honest with stating that he did tell me that he was not ready for a relationship, when he said that I had the choice to walk away but stayed, staying made m fall deeper in love with him and definitely tried by all means to show him that I really wanted nobody besides him, I went as far as helping restructure and rebrand his company because I thought in the long run if we have a family together it will be for our kids but it seemed like it wasn’t enough, made a decision to walk away and save my precious heart because it was hurting so I wrote him a note stating that “I can’t take it anymore loving a man so deeply that everything I did wasn’t acknowledged feeling like my heart has been taken for granted by him and that its time for me to let him go maybe he will come across the woman his been looking for in this lifetime.” When he responded it was quite shocking that he was hurt by me wanting to give up on him, he went all emotional on me stating that he thought I was fine with how things are between us and that he can’t believe that I want to throw away everything we have worked for and what we have together, that statement right there confused me more because last time I checked this man didn’t want a relationship with me and now his getting all emotional and please keep in mind that the decision I made to let go wasn’t what my heart really desired because I love that man unconditionally so a friend of mine advised that I should just take a step back because the ball is in his court now and I did. Remembering our conversations his a man who didn’t believe in Valentine’s Day but on Valentine’s day he made reservations for me and him at this other beautiful Game Reserve, I didn’t complain I just enjoyed the romance. I continued being with him even after so many of my close friends said that I should let him go but I don’t know why he has this strong hold on me and each day I fall deeper in love with him. Lately his been talking about his dreams and goals something his never done, he talks about how many kids he wants and which schools they should be studying in and that his going to take the responsibility of taking them to school every day, he even showed me how much the schools will cost him and that he has to work harder to secure a better future for his family, I have never had such conversations with him. A week ago he took me to his family traditional wedding and I was introduced by him and his brothers as his woman. We’ve been spending so much time together lately working towards his business and my business, he ditches his brothers just to come to my place to just sleep next to me without even having sex, sometimes when we are together he doesn’t say much he keeps quiet and just stares at me and I forever say how he makes me feel jokingly and how sexy or gorgeous he looks and he would smile without saying a word. Guys help me out here I’m a bit confused, this man said he doesn’t want a relationship but his doing all of this, does it mean he has fallen for me?
web admin
April 23, 2016 at 11:29 am
It sounds like his heart and mind are in conflict. He did not want a relationship or anything serious, and that probably has not changed. Over time, it seems like he has developed feelings for you, and your decision earlier to leave probably made him realize just how much he liked you. Unfortunately, it seems like his brain still does not want a serious relationship–part of the reason may be that he wants to be successful enough in life to have a house, family and stable life. I am not really sure what you should do at this point. Until his mind and heart are in agreement, his confusing behavior will probably just continue. You would know best what your chances are and if you are willing to stay around for a few more months to see if anything changes. Good luck, Jasmine!
Vicki
April 12, 2016 at 4:26 pm
Hi so there this Capricorn I’ve about 6 months ago the first three months were just little chit chat nothing big but then in like Jan. We started having more intriguing conversations and they were one on one and I started liking him but then I didn’t pursue because I had been wrong and wasted my time on guys before and he was kind of flirtaous but then all of Feb he started flirting with me it was subtle no complaints or much eye contact but a lot of hugs and physical contact and always saying hi or staring at me or whenever I don’t see him or pretend I don’t he yell Hi Victoria or squeeze my arm or my side but then one time he was really touchy and flirty saying things like she’s with me or she mine and I think the whole time since Jan I might seemed passive I didn’t take it seriously because it was so sublte but out the blue he stopped almosted aboided me and our convos got shorter and more awakward or quiet and he started not looking at me all when we talk but sometimes he would be the one starting the convo in the first place and his hugs got friendlier and side hugs and arms around the shoulder but then today and he went back to more romantic hugs and leaning near me and convo was deeper and he leaned near me and his hugs were right and we laughed like we use too I know capriconrs can be distant but it lasted two months and he was touch and flirt y with others during the time he avoid me however I’m confused because he still purposely tries to run into me and went for hugs even though they were short and friendly and he get mad if I walk past him without saying hi and on my birthday this libra was hugging and yelling good things like a boyfriend would he watch him with a stern face the whole time so what does this mean our we just meant to firends and my time has run out or could be possible interested. Herbie any advice as well?
web admin
April 14, 2016 at 8:57 am
He may have just thought that you were not interested and gave up temporarily, or he may have been getting bad advice to make you jealous. It sounds like he could like you, so it may be a good idea to make a move while you can. He is currently flirting with you and talking to you again, so this would be a great time to make a move if you can bring yourself to do it. Good luck!
Louise
April 12, 2016 at 7:41 am
I’m a Cancer Woman 43 My Cap man is 47. We started off talking over the phone with a few visits between but mostly by phone my dilemma is he waited patiently for 2yrs for me as I was celibate upon meeting him. He told me on our first night together(sexually) He was going to marry me! Now he’s acting strange will pop up on my job at any given time if he calls me and I don’t answer the phone fast enough he’s angry, He’s threatened me if I were to sleep with someone else what he’ll do to me, but still remains acting weird we would talk every night before bed now no calls just random pop ups to my job and he just shows up on me in the store shopping, catching me totally off guard It’s like I’m being watched or something I love him I just wish he’d know he doesn’t have to act so strange.
web admin
April 15, 2016 at 7:17 am
You have several options: 1) Talk to him about what he is doing. Be open and supportive, but make sure you show him how strange his behavior is–and how controlling it appears to anyone else. Hopefully, he will listen and adjust his behavior. 2) Break up with him. Following you, showing up randomly and stalking you to the grocery store are very, very serious things to do. If he is doing this before you get married or move in together, imagine how much worse it could be if you are together. While he may tone things down once he feels more secure, these behaviors are also an early sign of an abusive relationship. Most abusive relationships start wonderfully because the abusive spouse only begins to reveal their darker side after they feel fairly secure in the relationship and it has been going on for a long time. Be careful, Louise.
Cassandra
March 23, 2016 at 7:57 pm
Hello I am a pisces woman,I have known my cappy for about 2 years its been an on and off. I have fallen for him deeply he knows I like him. At the begining he would text me alot but I notice the more we are getting attached the more he is distant, and this hurts me due to the fact I don’t know what he is thinking he never express emotion. From reading about capricorn he truly is one. Since we have gotten closer he now tells me he is busy all the time if I dont txt him he doenat tx me I always say I am done he will then notice I am starting to move on and he txts me like if nothing has happen if i dont reply in that instant he double txts or if i dont reply that moment or day he gets mad but will still be persistant the next day. I asked him why is he always busy for me what is that he wants he just says he is always tired he work alot. I told him i have a feeling he is seeing someone else. He then said keep this in mind if you ever wanna be with a successful man he is going to be a busy one but the time he spends with you he will make it special. i told him i didnt have a problem with him working alot its one of the reason i have fallen for him because he is very dedicated and has goals. Moreover… He told me once out of the blue “te quiero” in spanish which means “I like you”. Or “I love you”. I had been waiting for him to say words like that for along time and after a year he said it, I asked him if he really meant it and he made a little joke and pretended he never said it. When we are togeher I can feel the energy and connection that we have. The way he stares at me when we are together he stares at me deep with a smile on his face. When we are together everything is good we laugh and talk about our day and he often brings up the future. He asks me if I want kids, he also tells me he needs a wife to save his money and call him out on his spending/ shopping since he likes the finers things. But I dont know where I stand or were will this go he doesnt like me asking him over and over about “us”. He is soo distant when we are not together he doesnt txt me u less I txt him he will reply and with a short msg what should I do?..
web admin
March 28, 2016 at 8:50 am
If he has problems committing, then take a step back and don’t force him to do anything. Even when he is busy, he is there for you when you need him and you guys hit it off when you are together. Most likely, he is just busy with work and has a bit of a commitment phobia. He is still there after a year, and he said “te quiero” without being forced, so he must like you a lot. Give him space, don’t force things along and see what happens. He seems to be really interested in you, so I would not worry so much about the times when he is too busy to hang out or his inability to put his feelings into words.
Cassandra
March 29, 2016 at 6:03 pm
he is afraid of commitment he had a bad breakup with his fiance he once mentioned ..it will be difficult to trust in someone else..he told me that before saying ” te quiero”. He has told me he doesnt want a relationship and its understandable since he seems to be terrified of being hurt again I dont want to loose him Im in love with him.
web admin
April 3, 2016 at 7:47 am
You could wait a few weeks and see how everything plays out. If he does not start to seriously fall for you then and seem more interested in a relationship (even if it is not “official”), you can always move on. Good luck, Cassandra!
Herbie
April 8, 2016 at 8:56 am
Hi, Cassandra. I am a Capricorn man myself and I’d like to say a few things about all you’ve said. Being a Capricorn, I tend to do the same things as what you’ve described and sometimes it may be hard to handle, I mean I’ve been given up on multiple times, even recently. I would like to tell you that he does love you, and he cares so so deeply, but as a Capricorn his nature is confusing. I did that a lot to my beautiful ex partner. I often waited for her to start a conversation and I often times got mad at her over really dumb things. I was a bit of an a**hole as well, but truthfully alls I wanted to do was make her happy. Watch her smile and make her proud, I still do. When a Capricorn man has fallen for a girl, he tends to be overly cautious and likes to test his partner. I did that a lot, and I like to be right all the time, and if I’m not, I get mad. He is working a lot, trust me. He’s not losing interest or seeing someone else, because a Capricorn is way too loyal, believe me. You being a Pisces women and him being a Capricorn man, makes you two very compatible. As a Capricorn I can say, even when I was around the girl I love…I had a straight face on and played calm when internally my heart was beating and I felt alive. And after spending so much time with her, I got really goofy and fun, and weird. After a Capricorn is comfortable, he truly makes himself at home. He loves you Cassandra. Don’t give up on him. I hope I’ve helped. Best of luck to you guys
web admin
April 8, 2016 at 9:21 am
That is wonderful advice, Herbie. I am sure that Cassandra appreciates getting the personal feedback. Thanks for commenting! 🙂
Herbie
April 8, 2016 at 9:58 am
Thank you for allowing me to comment! Hope I helped.
web admin
April 8, 2016 at 4:17 pm
I am sure that you did. 🙂 Thanks for commenting!
Melissa
April 10, 2016 at 1:35 pm
I’m a Capricorn woman and just met a Capricorn man that have been pursuing me for 3 months now and I finally gave in then all of a sudden I notice if I don’t text he doesn’t or if I don’t call, we don’t talk…then yesterday I deliberately did not call me and I never heard from him so I called today and he text me almost an hour later saying that he hope I was ok because I never called him all day yesterday and he went on saying that he is busy so I said to him that he was a busy man when we met and if that’s his reason for not reaching out to me then maybe he shouldn’t pursue something he doesn’t have time for. Now, as a Capricorn woman refuse to chase any man that will just not happen, he is a very sweet man but I don’t like the feeling of being ignored.
web admin
April 12, 2016 at 11:08 am
It doesn’t sound like he is deliberately ignoring you–he seriously is just busy. Over the course of a lifetime together, there would surely be times when he is more busy or less busy, so can be expected that things like this would happen. He could also be terrible at calling or texting in general, so it might not be a reflection on how he views you in the relationship. By reacting with telling him that he can just leave if he does not have time, you are pushing him away from you. If I were in your shoes, I would just relax. Instead of relying on texts and phones to communicate, perhaps it would work better for you guys to try to spend more time together in person. It’d help you to feel loved and appreciated it, and it would help to overcome his communication problems. Good luck, Melissa!
J
April 17, 2016 at 9:54 am
Hi Herbie,
Since you are a Capricorn man maybe you can help me out with understanding a Cap man I know. To start I am a Capricorn woman and I met a sweet kind hearted Capricorn man, we hit it off great and would text each other constantly. He started with flirty texts and over time we started getting more connected. We met one another and shared a very passionate kiss. He told me he wanted long term and that he really liked me. But when he would invite me over to his house I was busy with my school work to go. Eventually, he started saying he was not interested in me but I did not believe that based on his actions of me seeing him driving in my neighborhood and basically he found my Facebook and friended me but deleted the request. I am completely confused by his behavior because he told me he was shy and I really did not believe it. Please help with insight?
web admin
April 23, 2016 at 7:54 am
He may have just assumed that you were trying to brush him off when you said that you were busy. The rest of his behavior makes it sound like he is interested, although driving through your neighborhood all the time is a little weird. If you have free time in the near future, ask him on a date and see if he wants to hang out. He may just need a bit of encouragement to get back into the relationship mode. There is also a chance that he is not interested after all, but asking him to hang out or go on a date will help you to see if he is interested or not. Good luck, J!
Reese
March 22, 2016 at 11:29 pm
Hello, I could really use your insight. Im going to paraphrase the first 10 months…Talk online, become good friends, have sex once, appear to fall for one another but resistant to relationship. Dec 2015 I find out he is engaged, not divorced. It got messy for a bit…He wanted to stay friends, I tried, I couldn’t and ended it. We talked sparingly after that. Recently, we have reconnected. When I broke it off, he confessed he was only getting marred in October 2016 bc he doesnt want to be alone. Now, I asked him if he thinks we will ever be together, and he doesnt know. We are both Capricorns. We havent physically seen eachother in 6 months. He said he cant wait to see me again. I cant think of a better person to spend my life with. He also said today that I am the only person who knows about the things he is into in the bedroom. We are literally one mind there. He has already tried to come see me once, but I told him to drive back home (this was when he first started talking again and i needed to think). He is excited for the plan we have to marathon his favorite seasons of our favorite show…He also said the little trinkett i got him last year is his favorite, that he loves it. Im just rambling…My heart and intuition tell me we will end up together, eventually…But my logical side trys to correct me…I guess I was just wondering what you thought…We are passionately crazy for one another sexually, and enjoy the others company – even if the majority of us having known each other has strictly been through conversation. Your thoughts? Thank you.
web admin
March 27, 2016 at 2:20 pm
Hold off and see what he does about his engagement. If he calls it off for real, then it sounds like you have an excellent chance with him. If he is unwilling to call of the engagement, then you will not have any chance with him beyond just a fling or an affair. See what he is willing to do, and then stick to your guns while you wait for him to do it. It sounds like you guys have great chemistry, so he will hopefully realize that and break things off with her before long.
Anon
March 22, 2016 at 3:20 pm
Hello,
i am a libra woman who is currently studying for a series of board exams at the local library….it was there that i met a very reserved capricorn man who is also studying for the same (along with a bunch of other people from our school)…
i was very intrigued by him, but he would only ever stare at me as i passed by, and was always surrounded by his group of guy friends… soon his friends initiated conversations with me, and i was slowly able to introduce myself to this reserved capricorn man… who shook my hand and was very polite, but never smiled…
it was not until one whole month later that he FINALLY initiated a conversation with me, where he mentioned that he had noticed me and liked how very focused and studious i was…
after that he would make it a point to say hi and bye to me everyday (i was the only female he talked to) and would start random conversations with me if i passed him the halls…
months passed before he decided he was going to leave the country for a bit… and he never once contacted me during his absence of 2 months… until one day, he re-appeared (back at the library) and was overjoyed to see me and tell me about his travels…
since he’s been back, he has been initiating A LOT more conversations with me (ranging from 30 min to 2 hours), volunteering personal information and sharing feelings, telling me about his family, goals in life and passion projects, trying to make me laugh and getting to know me as a person… (all the while, never flirting or touching me and just being a complete gentleman, and only ever complimenting my work ethic)…. and he is ALWAYS there to help me and never asks for anything in return…
however, he only does this when he sees me in person…but when i am away (ie. 4 days at home, or at a different lib on the weekends) , he never tries to email me first (i don’t have a phone, so he knows i only communicate through email)…. i know we are busy with our boards, but wouldn’t he want to say ‘hi’ if he was truly interested? i understand capricorn men need space, but i can’t tell if he needs space or is just not interested…
he is very handsome and i can understand if he is not interested in me, because girls are usually throwing themselves at him…. but he only talks to me (maybe because i don’t smother him? even though i used to be painfully shy around him initially, but have gotten more confident now that we talk so often)… so i can’t tell if he just wants to be friends, talks to be when he’s bored or is slowly trying to ask me out?
he’s asked about what i do on my weekends and to unwind… but he knows that i don’t take breaks… so i wonder if he wants to hang out? but it’s difficult to read him because he NEVER flirts and is very respectful of my space… perhaps i am confusing his ‘niceness’ for ‘interest’?
your help with this matter will be very much appreciated.
web admin
March 27, 2016 at 1:16 pm
It sounds like he is interested. Perhaps he is not communicating during those times because he knows that both of you are busy, and he is just respecting the work that you are trying to do. He sounds very kind, sincere and straightforward, so perhaps casual flirting is not his forte. It seems more than likely that he is interested, so keep talking to him and see where things go. He may just be worried about starting a relationship when he is so busy, or he may just be trying to respect how busy both of you are. Either way, it’d be worth it to see things through and see what type of relationship is possible. Good luck!
Herbie
April 8, 2016 at 11:19 am
Hi again, I’d like to express that I am a Capricorn and would like to explain that when we don’t message first, we’re waiting for you to message us first, as a test essentially. Us Caps only show interest in a girl who shows interest to us. He’s interested, just unsure if you are. He’s waiting for you to initiate conversation.Hopefully I helped!
web admin
April 8, 2016 at 4:17 pm
That is interesting insight into a Capricorn’s mind. 🙂 Thanks for commenting, Herbie!
Melissa
April 10, 2016 at 1:38 pm
Hi, well this helps me alot… I was getting very offensive about the miscommunication
web admin
April 12, 2016 at 11:09 am
I am happy to hear that Herbie’s comment and advice could help. Good luck and thanks for commenting! 🙂
Cricri
March 21, 2016 at 8:28 am
Hey. I have a capricorn man in my life for about 2 years now. We met at a party where he was all over me and i pushed him away. He said i was the most beautiful woman he has ever seen. Then after some time, we met a few times under various circumstances, mostly on public events. We spoke and got along normally. We later had unemotional, just physical sex, twice (two different times). We went on our own later and last october i found out he was very depressed. I wrote him because he shut all of his friends out, and as it came out, i am the only person he even has contact with. Yesterday he came to visit me, it was the first time in more than 6 months we saw each other (all the communication was made online). He was here for 8 hours and we just sat and talked about deep things. At the end i hugged him, in a friendly manner, and felt that he was unconfortable. Now he is kind of cold when he writes me. What is going on? Does he really se me just as a friend or does he want something?
web admin
March 24, 2016 at 5:42 pm
It sounds like he just sees you as a friend now. Considering that he was depressed recently, he may have just wanted to get in touch with someone and have some type of connection. Talking to you may have helped to stabilize his moods, although it seems like he did not want anything more than that.