Comments on: Dating South African Men

By: web admin

web admin — Wed, 13 Mar 2019 19:51:20 +0000

Thank you for sharing your thoughts and feelings. We always appreciate when members of our community share their supportive comments. Please share more of your positive comments in the future. Have a great day, Asia!

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web admin — Wed, 13 Mar 2019 19:50:38 +0000

Thank you for sharing your positive and supportive comment. Please share more of your insights and experiences in the future. Have a great day, Asia!

By: Asia Cole

Asia Cole — Wed, 13 Mar 2019 19:10:45 +0000

First girl make amends with the mother, if she is happy everyone is happy. Mothers like seeing their children happy. Second be more involved in the family, if you act like an outsider they will treat you like one, so pull up your socks and work hard for what you want.

By: Asia cole

Asia cole — Wed, 13 Mar 2019 19:06:48 +0000

Tell him if you really mean that much to him, he will come out of the dark and tell the world how he feels about you!!!

By: web admin

web admin — Fri, 29 Jun 2018 07:34:27 +0000

The two of you may be interested in developing a relationship with each other. You are attempting to maintain a long distance relationship. You are also aware that his family does not support your relationship. Decide if you believe whether or not this relationship is viable. Speak with him about your thoughts and feelings. Have a great day, Tens!

By: Tens daye

Tens daye — Thu, 28 Jun 2018 02:47:33 +0000

I met a white South African man who wants to date me I private. He says his family would chastise his for dating a black woman. I live the USA and find it very hard to deal with this situation.

By: web admin

web admin — Tue, 29 May 2018 03:15:44 +0000

The two of you have a long history and strong emotional connection. His family’s feelings toward your relationship are impacting your relationship with your partner. You may find benefit in speaking with his family about your thoughts and feelings. If milk tart will help support this relationship and you want to maintain this relationship, then bring one over. Have a great day, Catherine!

By: Catherine

Catherine — Mon, 28 May 2018 08:53:41 +0000

Hi, i am currently dating a South African from Johannesburg and though i have known him since the age of 14 and i am now almost 18 we have only dated off an and for the last 2 years or so. My issue is that his mother does not like me i am 17 almost 18 and he is 20 almost 21 (2 days and 3 years apart). I don’t know why i have been told b some that it is beacuse he is the baby of the family being younger then both his older siblings and also beacuse the son and the mothers have close relationships. I keep getting told i am not allowed to stay over due to simple things like hs attitude chnaging from dating me and me not communicating enough or paying enough attention to the family. Please help me learn what to do and what the real underlying problem is… i heard that africans can be very close and family orientated and i want to be part of this. I have been told i could bring over a milk tart?

By: web admin

web admin — Tue, 09 Aug 2016 05:29:26 +0000

In response to your other question, no, I do not know this person. Thank you for keeping him in relative anonymity.

By: web admin

web admin — Tue, 09 Aug 2016 05:27:24 +0000

Do not concern yourself with social limitations like age. However, it is wise to be mindful of the effects that will happen to your social circles. If there are people who would be concerned about your relationship, it is possible that you will have your friendship circle adjust. That is normal in any relationship. If you want to further develop your relationship with this man, then speak with him directly and honestly about your feelings.