Comments on: 7 Signs He Doesn’t Love You Anymore

By: web admin

web admin — Wed, 27 Jul 2016 02:56:17 +0000

It is clear that he is choosing to ignore you and push you aside. Speak with him directly and honestly about your feelings. If he chooses to accept your feelings, then he will make a strong determination to be better toward you. If he does not decide to treat you the way that you need to be treated, then it would be best for you to end your relationship. At that time, you can look inward and determine where you want your future to go. Keep your head up and be bold.

By: web admin

web admin — Wed, 27 Jul 2016 02:53:53 +0000

If you are concerned that he does not share your feelings anymore, then speak with him directly and honestly about your feelings. Your best option is to be sure that you speak with him. If he shares your concerns, then he will make an effort to change his ways. If he does not listen to you, then you know that your relationship is over. Remain positive as you move forward and look inward to determine your future.

By: Kelly Burley

Kelly Burley — Tue, 26 Jul 2016 23:14:49 +0000

My boyfriend passed his driving test about a month ago. Before this, he used to message me and ring me 24/7 and get upset with my if i didnt reply in a couple minutes. He used to show he loves me. When he passed his driving test was the first day he took ages to reply. He started going out and hardly talking to me. I cried to him on the phone that it was difficult for me and we arranged a time in which he would ring me every night. He did this once. For the past month i have been the one texting to hardly ever get a reply. I NEVER get my promised phone call. Every night he apologises and every night he has a new excuse and the same thing happens the next day. Ive tried multiple times to talk to him about it, i’ve cried to him, told him i cant put up with it much longer but nothing changes. We don’t live close to eachother (about 100 miles apart) but we usually see eachother every weekend. We havent seen eachother in 3 weeks because his work shifts are so long and he “would be tired after”, yet he spent every moment he could with his friends – i just didnt see the point in making the journey to not spend time with him. He argues with me everytime i point out that im not happy and tries to justify his actions. Now, if i dont text him or ring him, we dont talk at all because he’s “busy” with his friends. Despite all of this, he still claims he loves me at the end of every phone call and hangs up when i say i dont believe him. He still claims he cares, yet when i ring him crying, he asks to talk another time when i’m not crying because he’s “busy”. He’s gone from the type of boyfriend that all of my friends wanted to the boyfriend that they wont stop telling me to leave yet he claims ive done nothing to provoke his behaviour.

By: bs

bs — Tue, 26 Jul 2016 20:59:55 +0000

I met the funniest kindest man almost a year a go… it felt like a fairytale the way he made me feel, I couldn’t believe that this man loved me so much…too much. Contact texting calling me for no reason, we would spend hours on the phone laughing and talking about nonsense. He wasn’t shy about letting everyone know how much he loved me. I still feel in love and overwhelmed just as much if not more… but even though he still tells me he loves me I feel it’s just not the same for him… he doesn’t make time for me anymore, well not as much he’s always busy…the texts feel forced and don’t flow like they used too. He’s always tired. .. he makes me feel like I’m intruding when I call him so I’ve stopped as much… then out the blue he will be all loving again… doesn’t last though. We quickly go back to him picking at me. And making me feel unworthy of anything… this is a problem because I don’t know where I stand anymore and it consumes my mind.. can’t concentrate on anything when he’s like this. Lately all the sweet chat we used to have feels forced and not genuine…bi know what is happening I’m not stupid I just don’t know how to cope when all I want is the man I fell in love with back.

By: web admin

web admin — Tue, 26 Jul 2016 05:32:18 +0000

Speak with him directly and honestly about your feelings. If you are concerned that he does not want to put forth the effort to establish a future with you, then let him know that you can not remain in a relationship that is insecure. He will either respect your directness and make a decision, or he will continue to remain without making up his mind. Be clear about what your needs are. Take his feelings at their word and take the action that you need to take.

By: Helena

Helena — Sun, 24 Jul 2016 17:31:47 +0000

I am with someone who was previously in a 10-year relationship. Our relationship started great, and we were open to talking about a possible future (I was initially unsure whether I could see one with him, which I expressed, while he wanted to eventually live together and settle). It’s been a year, and I can see a future with him. He, however, is unsure if he does. He has even said he thinks he loves me, but isn’t sure of that either. He has gotten colder as well but I know his work has become more stressful lately. I don’t know what to do in terms of staying with him. Will our relationship work? I can’t seem to act like how things were before. I have tried talking to him but he said it is his problem and he doesn’t know the cause for his feelings. I am heartbroken.

By: web admin

web admin — Sat, 23 Jul 2016 23:16:31 +0000

You have been through an emotional struggle with your ex. I am sorry that you had to deal with someone cheating for so long. If you are able to leave him in your past and take care of your children, then that would be the best option. What is most important is your intellectual and emotional security. Remain positive as you move forward and determine to take care of yourself and your children. If you must speak with him, then do so honestly and directly. There is no time for indirect communication with someone who chose to act in such a manner toward you.

By: busybee

busybee — Fri, 22 Jul 2016 18:11:41 +0000

I HAVE BEEN IN A RELATIONSHIP FOR 16 YEARS .I CAN ONLY SAY THAT I AM STILL TRYING MY BEST TO MAKE THINGS WORK FOR THE BOTH OF US BECAUSE WE HAVE TWO KIDS TOGETHER. FOR TWO YEARS I SUSPECTED HE WAS HAVING A AFFAIR AND THE LAST YEAR OUT OF THE TWO, I KNEW HE WAS’NT IN LOVE WITH ME ANYMORE. SIGNS CAME SLOWLY ONE AT A TIME AND THEN HE LEFT WITHOUT A WORD.I CRIED FOR WEEKS BUT I GUESS SHE DID’NT WANT HIS ASS BECAUSE HE CAME BACK CRUSHED AND SINCE THEN I LOST MY TRUST IN HIM . I KNOW I SHOULD PROBALLY LEAVE BUT I DON”T THINK I’M STRONG ENOUGH TO DEAL WITH THE EMOTIONAL STRESS.SO FIRST SIGN WAS HE WAS TOO BUSY TO LISTEN TO MY CONVERSATION AND SHOWED VERY LITTLE INTEREST IN WHAT I HAD TO SAY. SECOND SIGN WAS COMPLAINING ABOUT EVERYTHING I DO . EVERYTHING I DID IRRATATED HIM. THRID WAS HE STARTED DISTANTING HIMSELF AWAY FROM US AND WHEN HE WAS HOME HE GO TO SLEEP OR GO IN THE OTHER ROOM WITH THE FAMILY.FOURTH SIGN WAS SILENT TREATMENT . THERES ALOT MORE BUT THESE ARE THE ONES THAT STOOD OUT TO ME THE MOST AND WERE THE MOST PAINFUL OF ALL.THEN HE LEFT ME AND I WENT THROUGH A DEPRESSION BUT I KEPT AWAY FROM HIM BECAUSE I WAS TIRED OF LOVING SOMEONE WHO WASNT IN LOVE WITH ME ANYMORE .I WISHED THINGS WOULD HAVE WORKED OUT BECAUSE I LET HIM BACK IM STILL STRUGGLING WITH THE TERMS OF HIM NOT BEING IN LOVE WITH ME ANYMORE

By: web admin

web admin — Thu, 23 Jun 2016 04:46:43 +0000

If you have found that your relationship has become unmanageable and her refuses to change, then it is time to look for a way to end the relationship. There is no reason for you to torture yourself for someone who refuses to listen to you. Try again to have a serious conversation with him and explain that it is a matter of respect at this point, and if he chooses to continue to ignore your concerns, then it is time to end the relationship. Be firm.

By: Cj

Cj — Wed, 22 Jun 2016 02:55:23 +0000

I’ve been in a relationship for 5 yrs and pretty much all of these signs are there. Whenever I’ve tried talking to him he gets furious and says how many times do we have to have the same discussion, that he loves me more than ever and doesn’t want to end the relationship. However none of his actions have changed if anything they’ve gotten worse. If I text it’s common for him to nvr read it let alone respond. We pretty much nvr have sex and he won’t confide in me. Or talk to me about things that are “stressing him” he says its bc he’s so stressed. He’s always getting mad at me even for things that I try to do to help. I know all the signs are there but it’s so hard bc I still love him so much plus we both have kids which also makes it hard bc it effects them as well.he says when the stressed in his life get better things will get better I just don’t know how long is too long and if I’m just fooling myself