Comments on: 14 Signs Your Guy Means It When He Says “I Love You” https://www.herinterest.com/he-said-i-love-you/ Fri, 03 Apr 2020 04:01:24 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=5.3.9 By: web admin https://www.herinterest.com/he-said-i-love-you/comment-page-2/#comment-77342 Fri, 03 Apr 2020 04:01:24 +0000 https://www.herinterest.com/?p=30970#comment-77342 You were concerned about the desires of your partner. Since your comment, the two of you have likely considered the future of your relationship. If the two of you are still together, then it is certain that he cares about you, and wasn’t just interested in maintaining a physical relationship with you. If you are not dating at this time, then your concerns may have been accurate. Take this time to determine what you want for your future, and take whatever action that you feel is appropriate.

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By: web admin https://www.herinterest.com/he-said-i-love-you/comment-page-2/#comment-75467 Thu, 19 Mar 2020 03:33:49 +0000 https://www.herinterest.com/?p=30970#comment-75467 It is clear that the two of you care deeply about each other. Nourish your relationship by spending additional time together in person. This will help you understand what your future may hold. If there is anything that you feel that you need to address, then speak with him about your thoughts and feelings. By making it easy for the two of you to have conversations, you will be able to overcome any obstacle that may develop.

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By: Hannah https://www.herinterest.com/he-said-i-love-you/comment-page-2/#comment-75412 Wed, 18 Mar 2020 20:29:52 +0000 https://www.herinterest.com/?p=30970#comment-75412 I met this guy through a mutual friend about 4 months ago, whom i have been dating now since January. It still surprises me til this day cause the first time we met, me, him, and his friend were drinking and ended up trying something neither one of us have tried before. My bf gained an interest since the first moment he saw me, which was obvious. For a couple months we talked almost every single day and we mutually started the convos. We would hangout alot and go on dates. We did alot of things together that brought us close as friends even he wishes the first night went differently. I wasn’t sure how I felt about him at first but I knew he was smitten by me cause he would always tell me how much he liked me. He even let me start borrowing his car and he would buy me alot of things (which he does buy things for people he cares about in general), and stopped talking to girls he’s been talking to for a while. But, I told him that I really cared about him as a friend and I did (alot) but wasn’t sure I wanted something serious. He on the other hand did, and was very sad when I told him that. And then when he was feeling less sad and depressed, he told me he won’t give up on being with me. He can’t cause he wanted me to be his so bad. I ended up staying with him every night almost cause I lost my job after something tragic happened in my life. He was the first person I called and he came to pick me up immediately. Ever since then, I stayed with him and spend almost every single day with him. It took me a while to move all of my stuff in but he just went with the flow. Anytime we would get into an arguement and I wanted to leave he would try his best to not give up and try to work things out with me. I got upset at him one night cause I felt he wasn’t giving me the attention he usually does and I started letting my insecurities get the best of me cause I started to actually fall in love with him. I told him to bring me home and we didn’t talk on the way there. Once we arrived, I walked out of the car and stormed inside. He tried to prevent me from walking away without talking about what was wrong but I didn’t want to. I went inside for a while and I thought he left afterwards but turns out he didn’t. He was waiting for me outside in the cold knocking on my window while I was smoking in the garage. His car kept on coming back in the drive way and sometimes backing out. After about 20 min. I finally heard the knocking while walking into my room. I went to my room, saw his hand knocking and decided to walk to the front door. I opened the front door while he was walking past and realized I was standing there. He came to me and hugged me tight and said “Can we please talk?” So I brought him inside. He started crying and that’s when he told me for the first time that he Loved me. He was even saying he was going to stay the night in the car cause he didn’t wanna leave and never see me again. All the other times he told me he had strong feelings for me. But this time he was genuinely crying saying he thought he was going to lose me and he couldn’t do that. That’s when I realized I really loved him too. Cause I was heartbroken and panicking inside the entire time when I thought he left. I low key wanted him to stay and the thought of never seeing him again crushed my heart. After that we grew stronger. He started knowing all of my flaws but not caring about them. His loyalty has been proven cause he never tried to hide anything from me and how he looks at other girls compared to me (according to my own observance and mutual friends) he doesn’t look at any other female the way he looks at me. And same vice versa. He doesn’t use me for sex and always respects my boundaries. He’s VERY protective. And we continue to learn more about each other and grow more genuine love for each other, eventhough it hasn’t been that long. But we have gotten into alot of big fights due to some struggles I have mentally and some insecurities I hold from a dark child hood. Eventhough I’m working on these things, I still struggle and we still struggle. But he has never given up, even after seeing my worst sides. Anytime I question his intentions and love he gets offended and very upset but never hesitates explaining things to me. He stands up for me, he never stops looking at me, he never stops touching or flirting with me. He encourages me and helps me to get back up since it’s been very emotionally hard on me this past couple of months but he’s trying to help me to where I can help myself more independently. And I am growing. Not to mention, he’s never tried to live with past girlfriends before and he’s dated them way longer than me or knew them way longer, but with me (according to his mom and almost everybody) he’s chosen to actually live with me and try to shoot for things in the Long haul. I struggle with bipolar and it’s affected my friendship recently with the mutual friend who brought us together. And they’ve been friends for years. My boy said to him after me and our friend made up: “Hannah is bipolar. I get why she is, and you and nobody else has to deal with it and I’ll respect that, but I’m going to cause I love her”. My boyfriend didn’t even tell me that, that was our mutual friend I had that falling out with that told me when I opened up about some mental struggles. I’ve never had a man love me like this but in my head of course it’s almost too good to be true. What are your thoughts on this love story? Do you feel it’s genuine or do you feel it’s a desperate kind of love?

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By: web admin https://www.herinterest.com/he-said-i-love-you/comment-page-2/#comment-73489 Wed, 26 Feb 2020 18:51:27 +0000 https://www.herinterest.com/?p=30970#comment-73489 It means he likes you for who you are. While it sounds nice, I feel like he should be able to list a couple of qualities he likes about you if he is genuinely interested–perhaps that will just happen after you have dated each other for longer.

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By: Madison https://www.herinterest.com/he-said-i-love-you/comment-page-2/#comment-72619 Wed, 19 Feb 2020 03:42:32 +0000 https://www.herinterest.com/?p=30970#comment-72619 I asked my guy if he loved me and he said yes. and i proceeded to ask him why,and he said because your you, and i sent him a question mark and he just said your madison. what does that mean?

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By: web admin https://www.herinterest.com/he-said-i-love-you/comment-page-2/#comment-71329 Sat, 08 Feb 2020 20:09:20 +0000 https://www.herinterest.com/?p=30970#comment-71329 It is easier for many people to write long and thoughtful emails. Messaging may be difficult, as it isn’t generally a medium used for long statements. It is clear that he cares about you, so speak with him about your thoughts and feelings. When he retires, nourish your relationship by spending additional time with him in person.

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By: web admin https://www.herinterest.com/he-said-i-love-you/comment-page-2/#comment-68082 Wed, 08 Jan 2020 06:33:54 +0000 https://www.herinterest.com/?p=30970#comment-68082 People fall in love at different speeds, so it is entirely possible that he is in love with you. The only way to find out for sure is to take a chance and see where this relationship ends up going. Good luck, Testimony!

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By: web admin https://www.herinterest.com/he-said-i-love-you/comment-page-2/#comment-66003 Mon, 23 Dec 2019 06:26:41 +0000 https://www.herinterest.com/?p=30970#comment-66003 It sounds like he is taking you for granted and using you when he just needs someone to spend time with. He is being completely unfair to you, and you do not deserve this at all. The fact that he is still dating other people seems to indicate that he has no interest in going back to a serious relationship and is only using you. Whether it’s for his own ego or just convenience, it definitely sounds like he is stringing you on.

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By: Leo Right https://www.herinterest.com/he-said-i-love-you/comment-page-2/#comment-65753 Sat, 21 Dec 2019 03:28:28 +0000 https://www.herinterest.com/?p=30970#comment-65753 I spent 6-1/2 years with a man that had all of by the actions your article describes. We were engaged I truly loved him, and still do. I thought everything was fine, he got a phone call over A year ago and threw me out of our house.
After a year we have started talking, he said, he didn’t feel like I trusted him and also didn’t think I would leave when he threw me out. He ended up telling me that he never thought I would come back to him. I am very confused he is dating 3 women right now, and telling me he still is in love with me and thinks about me everyday. We have met for lunch, then he will ask me to meet him the next date and stands me up.H e told me he had to clear some stuff out of his life before he and I could be back togethet. namely his kids…. what is strange is everyone thinks I up and left him which is not the truth. I am still hung up on this guy, I gave up a great job to stay home and raise his children and help him start a new business. We were engaged 6 months after we got together, after all of that time, I now have nothing. He even asked me what I was doing for Christmas this year, but I am not sure he means any of it…. I feel like he is stringing me along but I don’t know why.

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By: Testimony https://www.herinterest.com/he-said-i-love-you/comment-page-2/#comment-65368 Tue, 10 Dec 2019 17:38:10 +0000 https://www.herinterest.com/?p=30970#comment-65368 I, have a feeling that he loves me, when he says it and look into my eyes I believe him, but I’m scared I might be wrong, he keeps trying to make me happy, and says it. I think he’s actually genuine about it, but sometimes, I ask myself if I’m not d one only imagining it

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