Comments on: How to Tell if a Guy is Gay https://www.herinterest.com/how-to-tell-if-a-guy-is-gay/ Tue, 11 Dec 2018 01:02:50 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=4.9.8 By: web adminhttps://www.herinterest.com/how-to-tell-if-a-guy-is-gay/comment-page-1/#comment-39439 Wed, 21 Jun 2017 01:47:32 +0000 https://www.herinterest.com/?p=17175#comment-39439 He is interested in sexual encounters with these men. He may not actually have met any of them. This kind of sexual infidelity and emotional infidelity can be difficult to explain and accept. However, you must make a decision. Now that you have found a phone like this several times, you can be certain that his attraction is very strong. Speak directly and honestly with him about your feelings. If you believe that you want to end the relationship because of his infidelity, then it is certainly within your rights to do so. Best of luck, Jamie!

]]> By: Jamiehttps://www.herinterest.com/how-to-tell-if-a-guy-is-gay/comment-page-1/#comment-39423 Tue, 20 Jun 2017 16:16:32 +0000 https://www.herinterest.com/?p=17175#comment-39423 I am a 34 year old woman with a major concern. I have been with my boyfriend for 11 years now and have found 7or 8 times over the years a hidden phone to where he was talking to men who dress like women. When confronted by this he always says “it is just a joke” I mean he is talking sexual to these guys and even said to a few of them he wanted to meet up. I don’t think he has met up with any of them although I find it difficult to believe it is just a joke. Can someone please help me out a bit with this. The most recent hidden phone I found was just two months ago.

]]> By: web adminhttps://www.herinterest.com/how-to-tell-if-a-guy-is-gay/comment-page-1/#comment-37046 Sun, 02 Apr 2017 16:23:50 +0000 https://www.herinterest.com/?p=17175#comment-37046 Whatever it is, it sounds like he is doing his best to figure things out on his own and hurt you as little as possible. I would not immediately assume that he was gay–family problems, issues at school or a heavy workload could all be easy and more common reasons why he can’t really focus on a relationship right now. Hopefully, he will figure these things out on his own and come back, but there is no way to know if he will return to you or how long the wait would be. For the moment, your best choice is probably to move on and focus on healing.

]]> By: Kellyhttps://www.herinterest.com/how-to-tell-if-a-guy-is-gay/comment-page-1/#comment-37016 Sun, 02 Apr 2017 01:09:04 +0000 https://www.herinterest.com/?p=17175#comment-37016 Help I wanted to come back to my ex, we hung out and everything, but I asked if we could get back together, and he said we could not, because he had a situation he was dealing with, and he then said he loved me, and will always be there for me, and he didn’t want to hurt me, and it brings tears to my eyes to think that, he is hurting me, but he said he was tired of feeling this way, and have no choice, and so forth, and he just can’t be with anyone right now, not that he don’t want to, but can’t!! He said he got to work some thing out for himself, ok, but I’m like what could it be, I think the feelings he have, is that he is attractive to men. But yet he said he can’t be who I want him to be, so that means he is gay? Please help me?

]]> By: web adminhttps://www.herinterest.com/how-to-tell-if-a-guy-is-gay/comment-page-1/#comment-36917 Thu, 30 Mar 2017 17:18:25 +0000 https://www.herinterest.com/?p=17175#comment-36917 For the moment, just be supportive and wait. He needs to figure out his own sexuality. He may be bisexual or gay, but he needs to take some time to figure that out. It can be confusing to have feelings like this, and it can take quite a while to figure them out. He may ultimately realize that the labels do not matter as he is with the right person (you), but it can take time. Learning to accept himself and understand himself takes time, so you will just have to wait. It isn’t easy or fair for you, but he is trying his best to treat you with respect and avoid hurting you.

]]> By: Lose22https://www.herinterest.com/how-to-tell-if-a-guy-is-gay/comment-page-1/#comment-36908 Thu, 30 Mar 2017 12:33:52 +0000 https://www.herinterest.com/?p=17175#comment-36908 I am a straight women and I am here to get some advices from you. Me and my boyfriend are dating for 9 months right now. We spent 6 first months together and 3 months separated because I need to leave him to finish my school. He lives in Canada and I live in Thailand. First of all when we knew that we need to live far away from each other we decided to do long distance relationship.

In the first 6 months, we spent time together, we were really happy with each other. There was no sign or anything that he’s gay/bi or struggling with his sexuality because the way he treated me, showed me that I was his entire world. However the happiness could be end. Me and my boyfriend came back to Thailand together in December 2016 and he left me on January 2017 and we plan to live together on June 2017 once I finished my school.

My boyfriend had the problem about his anxiety and depression. And It came back and get worse again since we live separated. He told me on Mar,26 2017 that he wanted to break up with me because he’s now struggling with his sexuality and doesn’t want to hurt me. He doesn’t know if he is gay/bi or straight. I was so upset and ask him to think about it again. Because for me it seems like he starts thinking like that because his anxiety and depression. and it’s unfair for me to never give my opinion about it. He told me that the first time when he had sex was with a guy. And he’s enjoy chatting with guys in online chatting as well. He said he never hook up with a guy. And most of his relationships were with a girl. However he also cannot live without me. He said he doesn’t want to regret in what he will decide. He ask me for more time to think about it and will see the professional help soon.

I can accept and support who my boyfriend really is. we decided to step back to see what is going on. It is really hurt and a lot of painful. I think he is gay right now but i still want to wait and have a little bit of hoping that it will be just his sexual fantasy thing. Do you have any opinion about this? I don’t know what to do right now and I need your advice. And let me know if you have any experience about this kind of situation.

]]> By: web adminhttps://www.herinterest.com/how-to-tell-if-a-guy-is-gay/comment-page-1/#comment-33793 Tue, 17 Jan 2017 20:44:30 +0000 https://www.herinterest.com/?p=17175#comment-33793 If you have asked him this question and he denied being gay, then you have your answer. Either is he not gay or he is lying to you. Try to spend additional time with him. If you do not trust that he will not leave you, then perhaps you should end the relationship. However, as you have mentioned that you are insecure, perhaps it would be best for you to not concern yourself with these thoughts. Have a great day, Lover!

]]> By: LoversLane1https://www.herinterest.com/how-to-tell-if-a-guy-is-gay/comment-page-1/#comment-33791 Tue, 17 Jan 2017 20:38:25 +0000 https://www.herinterest.com/?p=17175#comment-33791 Hi- I have been with my bf for almost 2 years. He is a really nice guy, very responsible and seems to really love me and I love him. I have insecurity issues, due to childhood and relationship issues. When we first started dating, since the relationship was going well I kind of felt that there had to be something wrong. But for a long time things went very well. Then I just got a feeling that he might be gay. I started to notice that he looks at guys, seen it a handful of times, he thinks I dont notice. I asked him if he was gay he said no. But I mostly accuse him of being gay and get angry if I see him look at a man. Once I had his phone and I saw an old message he had sent via Instagram to a famous rapper/comedian asking him if he and his manager (another comedian) had “homosexual homosexual feelings for each other since they traveled together so much”. The message was like 8 months old and I just found it odd. I asked him about it and he said he sent it in jest. I did make a big deal out of it and we got into a huge fight, which is what I do when I notice this. He then gets mad, tells me Im irrational. I cant stop thinking he might be gay. Should I be worried? I really dont know what to do.

]]> By: web adminhttps://www.herinterest.com/how-to-tell-if-a-guy-is-gay/comment-page-1/#comment-29552 Thu, 08 Sep 2016 16:39:02 +0000 https://www.herinterest.com/?p=17175#comment-29552 Your crush would be the best person to say if he is gay or not. I would actually be less worried about the gender he is attracted to and the fact that he has a girlfriend. While it seems like you have kept your relationship to just texts and flirting, it will someday be tempting to cross the line. If you do, you will never know if he would be just as willing to cheat on you as he was on his current girlfriend. If it were me, I would end the romantic aspect of the relationship until he is single again. When he is single, then you can date him. Good luck, Miyumi!

]]> By: Miyumihttps://www.herinterest.com/how-to-tell-if-a-guy-is-gay/comment-page-1/#comment-29531 Thu, 08 Sep 2016 09:35:06 +0000 https://www.herinterest.com/?p=17175#comment-29531 I have a guy friend and he has a girlfriend the 3 of is were officemates, december last year this guy talked to me alot and even called me on my cellphone,he even wants to have a video call, at first i don’t really like him, but i gave it a shot, so i asked him if he likes me and as what i expected his answer was yes. We became fling from that time on. Kept on texting each other , late night calls, etc.. but sometimes he’s so sensitive, more sensitive than me,he talks about sexual fantasies and he even confessed about masturbating almost everyday, finding it weird but still i like him. I asked him couple of times if he was gay but his answer was firm-no! He always told me that our relationship should remain a secret since he has a girlfriend,one day we had an argument because i told my other bestfriend about our relationship and its been 3 days he didnt even contact me.. but some of my friends ive asked told me that this guy is gay. Even my boy friends told me he’s gay. Help me.

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