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There’s few things greater in life then checking your phone and seeing a cute text message from that special someone- it’s one of those simple pleasures in life we simply can’t get enough of. Surprise that special person in your life and brighten up their day with one of these 50 ridiculously cute text messages!

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 1. You know what? I never, ever planned to like you this much and I never thought you’d be on my mind this often. Came as a total surprise but I’m loving it!

This is such a cute, yet romantic and somewhat deep text message. And let me tell you- it gets the job done. It tells that special someone that you like them, a lot, and they are on your mind more often than not. Who wouldn’t want to read something like this?

2. You’re the reason for my smile.

Such an adorable text message, plus it’s short, sweet, and to the point. Definitely one of the best and cutest text message ideas!

3. Words can’t explain what a wonderful person you are.

Awe, now there’s no doubt about it: this is a text message that WILL make their day. This text basically tells them that you can’t even come up with words to describe them, so they MUST be something pretty darn special.

4. You make my heart melt.

Super adorable and a little bit cheesy: it’s the PERFECT combination. They’ll love to see this pop up on their phone!

5. My life has never been the same since I met you. 

You can definitely (and probably should) follow up this text message with reasons WHY they’ve made your life so much better.

6. I miss you. Let’s see each other soon!

Everyone loves to know that they’re missed- so why not tell them how much you miss them and ask them out in the same text message? A totally winning combination that works every time!

7. I would wait an eternity for you.

Wow, that’s a long time. They must be something pretty amazing for you to hold out for them, and only them.

8. I love you, forever and always.

The perfect text message for a boyfriend or girlfriend you’re very serious with.

9. I can’t stop thinking about you.

Another great text message that lets them know how much you care about them and they’re on your mind 24/7! (And that’s exactly where they want to be!)

10. I’m so honored to be your girlfriend/boyfriend.

This one is pretty self-explanatory. You don’t just like it- you are HONORED.

11. I wish I could wake up right next to you.

Did anyone else think of the Beach Boys song “Wouldn’t It Be Nice?” Well, they had the right idea. We all wish we could fall asleep and wake up to the one we love most, so might as well tell them while we drift off into future fantasy land.

12. I would do anything to make you smile.

This says a lot. This says that you want them to be happy at all times, no matter what the cost. And that clearly shows how much you love and adore them. Their happiness is worth more to you than almost anything in the world!

13. You take my breath away.

One of those comments that we, especially females, never get tired of hearing. You can’t go wrong with this cute text message!

14. I have the perfect life now that you are a part of it.

This really says a lot. This says that THEY make your life not only complete, but PERFECT. And they must be something pretty incredible to take your life from okay to perfect overnight. Let them know just how big of an impact they make on you and your life!

15. I love you, (insert name here). All I need is you.

When you don’t know what to say, always revert back to the basics: the most powerful three word sentence in the English language: I love you. You CAN’T go wrong sending this text message, and you can put the icing on the cake by adding “All I need is you”.

16. Every time I see you I get butterflies in my tummy.

If you’re still getting butterflies in your tummy after months of dating, it can only mean one thing: love. This is a really simple and unique way to tell someone you’re VERY fond of them, maybe even falling in love with them (if you haven’t already). If you’re not ready for the big L word, then this is a wonderful, lovey option for a text message.

17. You make my heart race without doing a thing.

Much like butterflies in your tummy, heart racing is another big sign that you’re falling for that special someone.

18. I wish I could hold you and never let go.

It’s such a terrible thing to be holding on to your loved one so tight, then have to let go only to head home alone. You know you are already wishing you never had to leave their side, but letting them know makes them feel special and loved. So you might as well tell them and complain about it together!

19. You are my knight in shining armor/my beautiful princess.

If you’re dating your own personal prince charming, then this is definitely a text to send your guy. He will feel like your big strong superhero (and men LOVE to feel that way). On the other hand, telling her she’s your beautiful princess obviously makes her feel pretty and special- the way every woman wants to feel.

20. My love for you is never ending.

Ditch the traditional “I love you” comment and shoot for something even greater with this text message. You don’t just love them- you’ll love them for eternity. Why wouldn’t they want to hear something like that?

21. You are the light in my life.

Another great, cute text message idea that will make them feel like one of the most important things in your life.

22. I can’t wait to see you again.

We know you’re thinking it, so why not tell them! They will feel special and they’ll get even more excited to see you, too.

23. I love your hugs and kisses.

Sending this particular text message can only mean one thing: a serious increase in the amount of hugs and kisses you get from your partner. Sounds like a winning text message to me! Give them a confidence boost and let them know you adore their lovin’ and they’ll only want to do it more.

24. You complete me.

Again, this text message is seriously romantic and although short, has tons of meaning. This tells them just how important they are to you and your overall well-being. You simply couldn’t be the same person without them- WOW!

25. You are my other half.

Much like number 24, but using a different set of words.

26. I couldn’t live without you.

I mean, we all know you certainly COULD live without them- but for some reason everyone still thinks this is one of the cutest phrases out there. So you might as well use it!

27. Thank you so much for your support. I couldn’t do it without you.

Because sometimes getting a simple “Thank you” from the one you love makes all the difference. Tell them you appreciate them- I guarantee they will love hearing it from you.

28. Loving you is as natural as breathing.

So, as you could imagine, there’s probably no end in sight and it’d be real hard to stop doing something so natural.

29. You + Me = Together Forever in Happiness

Seriously?! This needs no explanation. This is just a super-duper adorable text message and we can’t get enough of it. Ah!

30. If loving you was against the law, I’d be happy to spend the rest of my life in prison.

This text message will DEFINITELY make them smile- maybe even giggle, like I just did. Either way, you can make sure your partner feels loved AND give them a reason to laugh all in one text message.

31. I never knew what love was until I met you.

Awe, now that’s just absolutely beautiful.

32. Every time you smile it warms my heart.

Another beautiful text that makes our hearts melt.

33. Do you know how wonderful it is to wake up every day knowing I have you? You’re perfect. I love you.

Did anyone else just turn into a puddle after reading that? Beautiful. Breathtaking!

34. People come and go, but I will always be here for you.

Trust me. Whoever they are, they will always want to hear something like this.

35. You are the only one for me.

Yes, yes, yes. Send this one!

36. If I could rewrite the alphabet, I would put U and I together.

This one is totally a classic, but it makes us smile EVERY time.

37. I’m just sitting here thinking of you and wanted to tell you that I love you.

This can only be described in one word: “Aweeeeeeee!!!”

38. Cuddling with you sounds so perfect right about you.

Be ready for a, “I know, right? Get over here!” response.

39. You brighten my day with the sound of your voice, so call me ASAP- I want to hear it.

We can only hope they’ll call you seconds after reading this text message.

40. You’re the missing piece to my jigsaw puzzle.

A little bit cheesy, but still really cute nonetheless.

41. For the last 24 hours, 1440 minutes, and 86400 seconds, I have missed you.

Wow.

42. Thank you for taking such good care of my heart without knowing anything about cardiology.

Hahaha! Another one of those seriously dorky and funny text messages that still have tons of cuteness and romance. A definite winning combo when you don’t want things to be too serious!

43. You are my favorite reason to lose sleep.

You know how you accidentally spend an extra 6 hours texting that special someone even though you’re supposed to wake up in 2? Yea, well- don’t make them feel bad when you’re dog tired the next day. Make them know it’s A-OK with a silly text message like this one!

44. Falling in love with you is the second best thing in the world, because finding you was the first.

Now that is just TOO amazing. Who wouldn’t love to read something as beautiful as that.

45. I love all the stars in the sky, but they are nothing compared to the ones in your eyes!

Sometimes you need to amp up your “I love your eyes, they’re beautiful!” comment- and this is the perfect way to do it. We love this wonderful compliment because it’s unique and totally beautiful.

46. Missing you gets easier every day, because even though it’s one day further from the last time we saw each other. It’s also one day closer to the next time we will meet.

Does this need any explanation? It’s over-the-top romantic and we simply can’t get enough of it.

47. Love is sweet when it’s new, Love is sweeter when it’s true, but sweetest, when the one loving is you.

A totally fun and special lovey-dovey poem that is guaranteed to warm their hearts and put a smile on their face.

48. Between a million yesterdays and a million tomorrows, there’s only one today. And I would never let it pass without telling you – I’m thinking of you.

Do you ever think your partner gets tired of hearing the same ole “I miss you/I’m thinking of you” text? Then spice things up with this beautiful and romantic text message.

49. Its big, it’s warm, and it’s fuzzy. Before you get any ideas – it’s a big HUG from me to you!

Absolutely adorable and may even have him second guessing his thoughts a bit. Sounds like a winning combination to me!

50. If a kiss was a raindrop, I’d send you showers. If a hug was a second, I’d send you hours. If smile was a drop, I’d send you a sea. And if love was a person, I’d send you ME!

Because who on earth wouldn’t love to get a totally romantic and cute poem like this one?

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How to Text a Guy You Like https://www.herinterest.com/how-to-text-a-guy-you-like/ https://www.herinterest.com/how-to-text-a-guy-you-like/#comments Thu, 04 Sep 2014 21:48:42 +0000 https://www.herinterest.com/?p=16400 I think we’ve all been in this situation one time or another: you’re staring at your phone, wondering what you’re going to text that special guy you like. You don’t want to seem like a nag, but you always don’t want to be boring or desperate. So what’s a girl to do? Check out these […]

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I think we’ve all been in this situation one time or another: you’re staring at your phone, wondering what you’re going to text that special guy you like. You don’t want to seem like a nag, but you always don’t want to be boring or desperate. So what’s a girl to do? Check out these 15 easy ways to text the guy you like- all full proof ways that will leave you cool, calm, and comfortable.

1. Start off Strong

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Obviously the most important thing you need to remember is to start off strong. If you start off on the wrong foot, the rest of the conversation is likely to follow, which leaves you with a boring, uninteresting, and totally terrible text message convo. Start off strong by coming up with something new and unique. For instance, instead of the same old “Hey, what’s up?” try saying something like, “Hey! How did you do on that math test?” or “Hey are you watching this crazy baseball game?” Anything that will strike up a conversation.

2. Ask Questions

The best way to keep a conversation going and get to know someone better is by asking questions. Start off with the basic questions: what kind of music are you into? What’s your favorite movie? As the convo continues, try diving into some more personal questions: what’s the most embarrassing moment in your life? How long was your last relationship? Why did it end? Keep the questions rolling!

3. Don’t Be Boring

Ladies! I can’t stress this enough. We don’t like to be bored, right? So what makes you think he wants to be bothered with a boring, lifeless conversation? Try to stay on interesting topics and when the convo starts fizzing out, try to spark it up once more or let it die. But the worst thing you can do is try and keep a one-word text message conversation going.

4. Don’t Be Needy

Whether you’re texting or not, you never want to appear needy. This is a HUGE turn off for 99% of the male population and is a sure fire way to get him running in the opposite direction. So how can you not appear needy? Don’t respond seconds after he texts you. Give it a few minutes. Don’t say things like, “Oh my gosh I’ve been waiting hours for your text message” or “Thank god you texted me I missed you”. Instead, try saying something flirty and fun like “Well hello there 😉 glad to see a text from you”.

5. Don’t Send More Than One Greeting

When we text a guy we’re interested in, there’s no doubt we get nervous. And when he doesn’t text back within five minutes, we get in an even bigger uproar. “Why isn’t he texting me?” “Does he hate me?” “He’s obviously not interested”. Don’t let your thoughts get the best of you. If you’ve already sent the first text, don’t send him another one. Either he’s busy (work, homework, school, friends?) or he doesn’t want to talk to you- and either way, sending a “Hello?” or “Did you get my text?” message is just annoying and makes you look needy.

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So let’s say you’ve been texting for awhile and he suddenly stops texting. Your first reaction might be to send him 5 more text messages in hopes of saying something that might interest him. Don’t do this! If the convo has been going for at least an hour, it may be okay to send a “Did you get my text?” message if he hasn’t responded in over 15 minutes. But other than that, don’t bombard him with eager messages- wait for him.

7. Flirt a Little

Flirting is absolutely one hundred percent important when it comes to talking- or texting- the guy you’re after. And yes, it’s totally possible to send flirty text messages. Try and say things like, “You looked so hot during football practice today” or maybe “I’m just laying around in bed, wishing you were here with me”. There’s SO many ways to flirt over a text message, and you should do it as often as you see fit. You could even teasingly flirt with him over a text message by saying something like, “Umm…I hate to break it to you but I TOTALLY saw that wicked fall in gym class. Hehe, clutz!” Again, don’t go overboard as this may make you appear desperate and maybe even easy- and that’s definitely something you want to avoid.

8. Compliments

This goes hand in hand with flirting, but I think it deserves a separate section of its own. Compliments are the easiest way to flirt with someone AND help them feel good about themselves. And remember- especially when it comes to males- the compliments don’t need to be three pages long. Something simple like “Wow you look good in red” or simply “Hey there handsome” is enough to put a smile on his face and give him that ego boost every man needs.

9. Show Him Your Silly Side

Sometimes, women think they need to hide their silly sides out of fear of looking goofy or unattractive. We think we have to be playing with our hair and thinking we are the hottest things in the world to get a man’s attention. But this really couldn’t be further from the truth. Men LOVE a woman who isn’t afraid to be silly and goofy from time to time. It’s surprisingly a major turn on! So go ahead and say those silly comments that pop up in your head or bust out that hilarious joke you heard at work earlier. I’m sure he will certainly appreciate your sense of humor and will be glad to have met a woman who is confident enough to show her silly side.

10. Show Him Your Intelligent Side

Okay, now, I’m not saying you need to talk about the way molecules function (unless of course you two are into that kind of thing). But you should AT LEAST be able to hold a bit of an intelligent conversation from time to time. For instance: if he starts talking about something from history (that’s well known), don’t play the dumb card. Let him know you know what he’s talking about. Now, if you really DON’T know what he’s saying, then feel free to say a comment such as “Wow, that’s really interesting. I’d love to hear more about that!” That shows him that even if you’re not aware of some things, you’re eager to learn. And men love that.

11. Make Plans

A text message is a super easy way to ask someone out. I mean- you’re not face to face, so that takes LOADS of pressure off. I mean, at least you won’t have to be rejected right to your face! (If he DOES reject you, that is). Plus you can be super coy about it. For instance, let’s say the two of you are talking about a new movie coming out. You could tell him that you’re interested in seeing it, but none of your friends like those kinds of movies so you have no one to go with. If he doesn’t get the hint to ask you out by that point, try asking him to accompany you to the movie!

12. Send Pictures

Hey now- don’t jump to any conclusions. I’m not talking about THOSE kinds of pictures (not yet, anyways). I merely mean sending him some innocent photos of something cool you’re doing or something interesting that you saw. Pictures bring everything to life and make conversations THAT much cooler. So go ahead and take a snap shot!

13. Send… Other Pictures

So you say the conversation between the two of you is getting a little “fun”, hmm? While I’m not going to sit here and tell you to strip down and send a nude short, I will tell you this: it’s the perfect time for a little seductive flick. For instance, you could take a picture of your new adorable, kind of sexy nightgown that you’re not sure if you want to take back or not. You could take a picture of those new jeans that fit oh-so-perfectly around your bottom and ask him what he thinks. There’s lots of ways to be a bit naughty with your pictures without showing a single thing!

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14. Be Mysterious

Men are all about the game of cat and mouse. They love to chase females and they love it when a woman leaves them on the edge of their seat wanting more. And for that reason, you need to be mysterious- even through text messages. If he asks you what you’re doing, don’t just tell him you’re bored alone at home. Maybe you could take an extra couple minutes to text him back and say, “Oh, sorry it’s taking me so long to text back right now! My hands are kind of full at the moment. I’ll text you in about an hour”. That makes him wonder- what is this girl up to?

15. Leave on a High Note

Just like you want to start the conversation strong, you should end it on a high note as well. This means you should stop texting him the second the convo starts turning dull. That way you avoid boring conversations and leave him wanting more. Try to end the conversation in a flirty way, by saying something like “Josh, it’s been really nice talking to you 😉 text me tomorrow, okay? I gotta go”. But don’t tell him exactly where you’re going- make it mysterious.

 

What are some tips you have for texting a guy you like?

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We’ve all been in that terrible predicament where we are sitting in our chair, staring at our phone, wondering- should I text him? The answer is yes. But why? How? What should you say? What shouldn’t you say? There’s SO much to know- but don’t let that overwhelm you. We’ve got the answers to all your questions.

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Why It’s Okay to Text Him First

Why do we, as women, always question ourselves when it comes to texting a guy? We will spend hours contemplating. We’ll even start a new text message with his phone number at the top, yet the message box will be empty because we simply don’t know what to say or don’t even know if we SHOULD text him. But why? Is it because we’re afraid of looking too desperate? Do we think texting first is against the rules of being a woman? Let me tell you this: it is perfectly okay to text him. In fact, most men actually prefer it.

Okay, now, don’t sit there in shock. I know it was probably a surprise to hear that- and you probably don’t even really believe me. I don’t blame you. All your friends probably told you to not text him or you’ll look desperate and easy, and you probably erased the pending text message (yet you’re still sitting there staring at your phone waiting for him to text you, right?). Men like it when women text first. I mean, after all- we all know that men LOVE it when girls make the first move. It’s such a turn on. It shows that you are totally confident and secure in yourself and don’t wait on anyone. You’re a go getter. You know what you want, and you go for it. So why should it be any different when it comes to text messaging? Exactly.

 

Ladies, before you spend hours contemplating whether or not to text him, the answer is yes. It’s almost always a good idea. He won’t mind and he won’t suddenly think you’re some clingy unconfident weirdo- in fact, he will think exactly the opposite.

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A Guide for Each Scenario

Okay, so we’ve made it perfectly clear that it’s okay to text him. Men absolutely love it. But now here comes the hard part: what should you actually say? Here’s a few scenarios to get you started:

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1. The cutie you’ve been talking to just gave you his number.

So whether you’ve been chatting it up in a bar or you’ve talked to him a few times in your math class, the time has finally come. He’s given you his number and is ready to take the next step in the relationship. Wow. It’s all on your shoulders now! What will you do?

I can’t stress this enough: don’t be boring. Nobody wants to get the same old, “Hey what’s up” text message. It’s…dull. And he’s probably seen that same text message from 5 other girls in the past few days. Don’t be that girl. Instead, try something like this: “Hey, it’s Sophie. How’d that blue drink treat you last night? Stuck with a hangover?” or “Hey, it’s Abby. Please tell me you did as terrible on that math test as me.” This lets him know who’s texting and also gives him something fun and interesting to talk about with you.

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2. You just got home from an awesome date with that special someone.

The sparks were flying the whole time. You’ve been sitting on your bed with a goofy smile ever since you walked in the door. You just can’t get him out of your head and the date was nothing short of perfect. What will you say?

First and foremost, you should absolutely let him know what an amazing time you had. Don’t be shy! Something like, “James! Thank you so much for tonight. It was incredible. The pizza was delicious, the movie was awesome, and YOU were unbelievable. We should do it again sometime”. Here, you’ve covered all the basis. You put his name in the text to make it personable, you told him everything you loved about the date (including HIM), and you let him know you want to go out again. Perfection.

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3. You just had sex for the first time with a new partner.

Okay, this is important. I mean, yeah you had an AMAZING time, but there’s still a little bit of awkwardness. You don’t want to make anything weird, and you don’t want to act like that’s all you want from him (unless that’s what you want). There’s a few options to choose from, but don’t try to play it off like nothing happened. This makes him think it was a bad time.

You could say something like, “Wow. You were incredible last night” or “I loved everything about last night. The drinks, the play- and especially you”. Either way, you’re letting him know that you had a good time and you want to do it again. You could also follow up by saying, “So, did you have fun last night?” or “Did you have as much fun as I did yesterday?”

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4. You just met his friends/family members.

Well, if you are meeting his family or friends than you MUST be something special. So you need to make sure you let him know that you’re grateful for the opportunity and that you loved his family/friends. (And yes, you should probably say this even if you weren’t a huge fan of his friends or family members).

Say something along the lines of, “Thank you so much for inviting me to dinner with your parents last night! They were lovely” or “Thanks for bringing me to the bar with you yesterday. Your friends and cool and CRAZY! Lol”. You could then follow this text message with something like, “What did they think of me?” (Because I know you’re probably DYING to find out- I don’t blame you!).

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5. Something awkward happened.

Okay, so let’s say you did something totally awkward with a guy friend the night before. Maybe you got totally drunk and were acting stupid. Maybe you grabbed your guy friend and started making out with him- even though the two of you were “just friends”. Really, there’s a whole list of awkward and embarrassing moments that could happen. But what do you say the next day?

Really, the only thing TO say, is sorry. And you should ABSOLUTELY say you’re sorry- even if you are overwhelmingly embarrassed. This will help ease the air a little bit and help the two of you work past it much quicker than trying to avoid the situation altogether. A simple “I’m so sorry about last night” is a great way to start. Then, based off of his answer, you will know what to do next.

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6You’re not interested in him.

There’s probably nothing worse than being led on by someone who is not interested in you. If you went on a date with a guy you thought you liked but it ended up being a bust come date night, then you need to let him know right off the bat. Don’t wait for him to text you saying what an awesome person you are or how great the night was- that will only kill his spirit even more. You need to upfront and honest with him as soon as you can. There’s a few different ways to do this.

You could always simply say, “I’m sorry, but I don’t think this is going to work out. You’re a nice guy but I don’t see anything happening between us. Thank you for the date though”. That’s subtle, but gets the point across fairly quickly. If you want to be even more subtle and friendly about it, try something like “Hey. Listen, you’re a really nice guy but I don’t think I see anything romantic happening between us. We can stay friends if you’d like, though!”

Times You Shouldn’t Text Him

Well, for the most part it’s almost always okay to text him first. But, of course, there are still some occasions in which you should absolutely avoid texting him altogether. We’ve broken down the few times you should NOT text him.

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1. When you are mad.

This is really simple: when you are mad, you almost always say things you don’t mean. Which means you could end up saying something really nasty and rude to him that will totally turn him off and ruin your relationship. If you are mad, do not text him. Wait to cool off and them return to the conversation with a level head so you can discuss the situation.

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2. When you are drunk.

Ah, those infamous drunk texts. Those very awkward, embarrassing, and totally terrible drunk texts. You don’t want to make a fool out of yourself, right? Then I highly suggest avoid texting him while you’re under the influence. You might definitely say something “out there” that will make you look odd, desperate, weird- the list goes on and on. I mean, when you’re drunk you are a lot more “open” about things. You’d hate to tell him something personal about yourself or maybe even something you’ve been thinking about doing to him (hint hint). Just please, avoid the drunk text nightmare and save your texting for the next day.

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3. If you’ve already texted him that day.

It’s a rule of thumb: text someone, and if they don’t text back, don’t keep texting them. I mean, there’s a reason they didn’t text back, right? Maybe they’re busy at work. Maybe they’re working on homework. Maybe they just plain out don’t want to talk to you. Whatever their reason is for not texting back, you don’t want to be annoying or look desperate. If you’ve already texted him once that day- and he didn’t text back- let it be. He will contact you if he wants to talk.

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Texts You Should Never Send Him

There are just some things you should NOT say to a man. Here is a few absolute no-nos when it comes to texting a guy.

1. I can’t wait to go out with you again.

Sounds harmless, right? But you know what you just did there? You automatically assumed that there’s going to be a next time. You automatically assumed he wants your company again. Instead of telling him you had a nice time, you decided that he had as much fun as you are and the two of you are going to go on a lot of grand adventures together. But unfortunately, it just doesn’t work like that. This text message is just too presumable. Instead, say something like, “Wow, I had a really nice time with you Jeff. I’d love to do it again sometime”. This lets him know that you loved the date and, if he is on the same page, you would love to do it again sometime.

2. What’s up?

You have probably sent this text, what, a million times by now? Yeah, and you know what? He’s read that same text a million times already. One word: boring. When you’re texting a guy, you don’t want to be boring. It’s as easy as that. You don’t want to be like everybody else and you certainly don’t want him to think that you’re a snooze fest. Who wants to be in a relationship with someone that is boring? Instead try something like, “Hey! Are you going to Brynn’s party tonight?” or “Hey! Have you seen the new Star Trek movie?” Basically send him anything that will start a conversation.

3. Where have you been?

When you haven’t talked to someone in awhile and you send this text message, their reply will almost always start with “I’m sorry” following by “I’ve been busy with work, school, etc.” And you know what you just did there? You guilt tripped him into talking to you and made him feel bad. That’s totally NOT what you should do. Instead, try saying something like, “Hey! Haven’t heard from you in awhile. How have you been?” That lets him know you’ve been thinking about him but you understand life gets hectic.

4. Thinking about you!

Unless you’ve been in a relationship with this guy for quite some time, please don’t send this text message. Sending this to a guy you barely know is a recipe for disaster. He will read this and automatically think, “Wow. This girl is crazy and super clingy!” I mean, after all- it’s a little weird to be thinking so much about someone you just met and actually tell them. (I mean, of course it’s okay to be thinking about that hottie nonstop! I do it too- just don’t let HIM know it!) It’s just a little too desperate. Refrain from anything like this.

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Don’t let text messaging make or break you. It’s easier than you think to text that special guy in your life!

 

What do you think? Should women text a man first? Is there certain times you shouldn’t text him? What should you say? We are dying to hear your opinion!

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60 Flirty Text Messages https://www.herinterest.com/60-flirty-text-messages/ https://www.herinterest.com/60-flirty-text-messages/#comments Fri, 20 Jun 2014 05:18:07 +0000 https://www.herinterest.com/?p=14727 After text messaging with someone for awhile, things can get kind of plain and boring. If your feeling like your text messaging life needs a boost, why not try out one of these 60 flirty text messages? We’ve got everything from cute and silly to spicy and romantic- take your pick!  1. Hey you 😉 […]

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After text messaging with someone for awhile, things can get kind of plain and boring. If your feeling like your text messaging life needs a boost, why not try out one of these 60 flirty text messages? We’ve got everything from cute and silly to spicy and romantic- take your pick!

 1. Hey you 😉

This is a great, simple text message to start a conversation. Plus it’s flirty thanks to the winking smiley face. Win, win situation here!

2. Good morning handsome. Have a great day!

This isn’t just your average good morning text. It’s a compliment and a well wish all in one, and that’s a winning, flirty combination!

3. Would you rather do you homework or come hang out with me?

If you want to hang out with your crush, ask him this. You really think he will pick homework over you? Doubt it!

4. Ugh, I have a problem. I can’t stop thinking about you.

This is so funny and cute! At first he will be thinking you have an actual dilemma, but the only problem is he’s stuck on your mind- and he will love that.

5. You look good in that new shirt.

Is he wearing something extra cute today? Why not let him know with a flirty, complimenting text message.

6. Blue is definitely your color 😉

Again, this is a great compliment that lets him know it isn’t just the shirt- but anything blue makes him look amazing. Don’t forget the winking smiley face!

7. I’m so bored! Wanna go on an adventure?

Dates don’t always have to be for dinners and movies; sometimes you just wanna have fun! Invite him out for an exciting day or afternoon and see the sparks fly.

8. This homework is killing me! I can’t do anymore. Save me?

Men love to be the hero- even when it comes to simple, silly things like these.

9. Good luck on your game tonight. You’ll do awesome and look sexy doing it 😉

Everyone gets nervous before a big event, whether it’s a game, speech, or outing. Boost his confidence by not only wishing him good luck, but telling him how great and handsome he is!

10. We just landed in Hawaii. Ugh, I wish you were here!

Did you go on an exciting trip and miss your crush? Then you need to tell him!

11. Happy Birthday! If you could have one wish, what would it be? 😉

This might sound like a normal Happy Birthday statement, but the winking smiley face at the end lets him know you might have some R rated thoughts on your mind. Wonder what he will come up with?

12. I’m trying on these new bras, but I need a second opinion. Care to share your thoughts?

Warning: he might need a new phone after slobbering over his when he sees this text message! Be prepared to send him into a lustful daze with a few pictures of your new bra!

13. Come over, I have all your favorites. Pizza, beer, and of course, ME.

Let’s be honest: what guy could possibly resist that? He will be flying over to your house as quickly as possible with this flirty and alluring text!

14. OMG, you were amazing last night.

Trust me, every guy wants to hear this compliment. It’s what he lives for, and you’ll definitely see a boost in confidence the next time you guys are ‘together’.

15. Can’t wait to see you tonight. I think you’re going to like what you see 😉

If you’re planning to see him later on, why not get him excited? He’ll love reading this and you’ll definitely spark his interest.

16. Hmm, should I wear the red panties or the black ones? Can’t decide..

All men love to have input when it comes to the panty department. Seriously, ask him this question.

17. I could seriously use a little bit of testosterone in my life..

If he isn’t very suave, he might not get this text message. But 99% of men will know that you’re ‘testosterone’ comment is really a G rated way to say you want him.

18. When he asks what you’re doing, tell him you just got out of the shower.

He will probably start daydreaming about you dripping wet in nothing but foam suds. Yeah, he will certainly enjoy that.

19. I’ve been thinking about you all day.

Because everyone likes to know they are on someone’s mind.

20. Follow up with… it hasn’t all been rated G either.

This lets him know you’re not only thinking about HIM, but thinking about YOU and him- ‘together’.

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21. Send me a picture 😉

Hopefully he will catch onto the winking smiley face and slip you a sexy picture. Then the ‘sexting’ can ensue.

22. Where have you been hiding?

When he texts you out of the blue, this is a cute way of telling him you’ve missed him and are very pleased he sent you a text message.

23. Hey cutie. Haven’t talked to you in awhile. Thought I’d say hello!

If you haven’t talked to him for awhile, send him this. This compliments him while also letting him know he’s been on your mind.

24. Sweet dreams….with me in them 😉

It’s one thing to wish someone sweet dreams before they go to bed. It’s a whole other thing to wish them sweet dreams with YOU in them. He will certainly like the sound of that and close his eyes to his imagination running ramped.

25. Oooooh, I like the sound of that 😉

If he texts you something flirty or alluring, this is always a winning response (for obvious reasons).

26. Follow up with… Tell me more 😉

Combine these two if you’re really in the mood to turn him on, as these texts combine let him know you love what you hear and you’re sitting on pins and needles to hear more of his sexy comments.

27. I’m just laying in bed, bored. Care to join?

Perfect for those boring weekday nights when you’re in bed but don’t want to miss out on any of the fun. Either he’ll come over or you guys can have an enticing text message conversation until wee hours of the morning.

28. I really like our friendship, but I was thinking… maybe we could be friends with benefits?

Wow. His jaw will literally drop to the floor when he sees this. It’s definitely what every man wants to hear!

29. Let’s hang out tonight. I promise you won’t regret it 😉

Hmmm, have something sexy and fun planned tonight? This lets him know that he is in for a REAL treat. Just don’t flake on your promise ladies!

30. Let’s play 20 question. What’s your name? What’s your favorite color? Wanna go out with me Saturday night?

He will NEVER see it coming- and that’s what we love about it! Who could resist this totally not obvious and adorable way of asking someone out?

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31. Randomly text him… Hey! Stop thinking about me!

This will undoubtedly put a smile on your face, and he will either tease you and say that you weren’t, or he’ll say ‘how did you know’? Either way, it’s a winner in our book!

32. Hey, I was wondering, do you believe in love at first sight? Or do I need to walk by you again?

Come on, I got a giggle out of writing this silly yet flirty text message! Put a definite smile on his face with this funny text.

33. I just woke up and you’re already on my mind.

What better way to say good morning to someone than with this adorable, flirty text?

34. Mmm, sexy. I love a man that can (fill in the blank).

This is a GREAT text message for any situation. Let’s say you asked him what he was doing and he said he was making dinner. Why not send him this text as a response? It works for almost anything: cooking, cleaning, working on a motorcycle, playing a musical instrument- anything!

35. I know you have a busy day ahead of you, but could you add me on to your to-do list?

This is sexy, and he won’t even see it coming. And let’s face it: we ALL enjoy texts like these. This will definitely turn him on, and he won’t be able to help himself buy say OF COURSE!

36. You have the most amazing (fill in the blank).

Again, this is an easy and flirty text that can let you say almost anything. You could say his smile his amazing, his eyes are amazing, or even his personality is amazing. It really doesn’t matter what you say- this text message is bound to make him smile.

37. I want to take you home with me and pleasure you in ways you didn’t know possible.

Wow. This steamy text message is certainly not for new relationships. But if you and your crush or boyfriend have been at it for awhile, why not send him this sexy message and get the fireworks flying? C’mon, you know he will absolutely love this text message. Be brave and let him know!

38. You make me feel so (fill in the blank).

Does he make you happy? Does he make you feel complete? Does he make you feel ‘hot’? Any text that lets him know he makes you feel a certain way is definitely a winner in our books.

39. I love your lips.

Of course, this is a spicy and romantic text message that boost his confidence and lets him know that yes, it is OK to kiss you and you absolutely love it.

40. Follow with… I can’t wait to taste them again.

There’s something about the waiting game that drives us all mad. So telling him you can’t wait to kiss him and taste him again is a surefire way to peek his interest and make him feel all warm and intense on the inside.

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41. If I could rearrange the alphabet, I would definitely put U and I together.

You’ve probably seen this clever text message on other websites or even television shows, and for good reason! This cute text message is flirty and clever all wrapped up into one, easy and quick text message. It will definitely make him smile!!

42. Come over. Now.

Sometimes guys like it when women are a little demanding. This will peek his interest for 2 reasons. One, your being assertive and most men find that a very attractive trait. And for two, why do you want him over? And not just tonight or sometime this week, but NOW? Do you have something special planned? He will be running over before you can even send the next text message!

43. Dang, you look extra hot today.

People love to hear that they look good today. And saying something as simple as this will boost his confidence incredibly fast. He might just do a few more struts passed you so you can get an ever better look.

44. Have you been working out?

There’s only one reason why you would ever ask a guy that they’ve been working out: there muscles look bigger (or they look better overall). So if you’re asking him if he’s hit up the gym lately, you’re clearly stating that he’s caught your attention because he looks so great. To put it plainly. this text message simply can’t go wrong.

45. Mmm, come over here. I want to touch you.

Every man wants to be touched. End of story. This text will undoubtedly turn him on and he won’t want to wait another second to come closer to you.

46. Can’t wait to see you XOXO

At the end of the day, we all just want to be wanted- right? This text will make him feel special. It will make him feel wanted. And that’s something that will definitely make him happy and excited to see you too!

47. Guess what I’m wearing right now.

This will really make his imagination run wild. Are you wearing a sexy dress? Maybe a piece of lingerie? Who knows! Just prepared to send him a picture of what you’re wearing afterwards.

48. I was just telling my friends about you. They’re so jealous 😉

You’re talking to your friends about him? Yeah. Guys LOVE that. And they also love to know that they are making your friends jealous. Plus the winking smily face lets him know you told them ALL the details- and they are even more jealous about THAT.

49. I had a dream about you last night. It was definitely R-rated…

This can only mean one thing: you had a naughty dream about him. Be ready to fill him in with all the dirty details!

 50. Did you know I can do the splits?

Men love a girl that is flexible. This sparks interest because he will want to see just how flexible you can be.

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51. I’ve been a bad girl today. I need a spanking.

Men love it when a nice girl can be dirty, and they love it even more when they can spank her for it. Send him this text message and drive him WILD.

52. Talk dirty to me.

It might be on the spot, but men thrive on that! He will want to show you how passionate and exciting he can be over text messages. And trust us, you’ll love all of the things he comes up with trying to impress you and turn you on.

53. Don’t waste all of your energy at work today. You’ll need some extra energy for later…

He’ll be thinking, “Oh really? For what?” Maybe you have something extra spicy planned for tonight. The point is to get him thinking all day long and let the intensity build up so he’s ready to go at it all night when he gets home.

54. Ugh, I was rushing out of the house and totally forgot to wear a bra.

I’m pretty sure his jaw will drop after reading this, and soon after his imagination will kick in, day dreaming about how alluring you look in a top without a bra on.

55. I found my old cheerleading outfit. It still fits…

Every man has a fantasy about a girl in a cheerleading outfit. I don’t know why, don’t ask me. The point is- it’s just a fact about men, and he will love to hear this. Be ready to showcase it for him!

56. Ugh, I’ve had a horrible day. I need to unwind… 😉

I wonder what you have in mind? What better way to unwind than to…. (you fill in the blank).

57. Can you guess the color of the underwear I’m wearing?

Men like to talk about girls and their underwear. And that’s just that.

58. I’ve never met a man that can (fill in the blank) as well as you.

This could be something G or X rated- you make the call!

59. If I were with you right now, what would we be doing?

Get inside of his head!

60. I’m trying to fall asleep, but I can’t stop thinking about you!

This is just too cute for words.

What’s your favorite flirty text?

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40 Good Morning Texts for Him https://www.herinterest.com/40-good-morning-texts-for-him/ https://www.herinterest.com/40-good-morning-texts-for-him/#comments Thu, 16 Jan 2014 22:49:04 +0000 https://www.herinterest.com/?p=8645 There’s something about a good morning text message from your special someone. It doesn’t just  make you smile with the words they say, but it makes your heart warm knowing they thought of you from the moment their eyes opened up. If you really want to make your boyfriend get that warm and cozy feeling […]

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There’s something about a good morning text message from your special someone. It doesn’t just  make you smile with the words they say, but it makes your heart warm knowing they thought of you from the moment their eyes opened up. If you really want to make your boyfriend get that warm and cozy feeling on the inside, try out one of these 40 good morning texts for him.

1. Good morning, handsome!

A simple good morning greeting followed by a compliment for your man. It’s simplicity at its best, but it is definitely a subtle text that will make him grin. (Who doesn’t love waking up to a compliment first thing in the morning?)

2. Good morning, my love!

Woke up in a lovey dovey mood? Then this is the text for you. (Reserved of course for deeper relationships where the big ‘L’ word is acceptable.) He’ll love hearing this right when he wakes up!

3. Alert! The hottest man in the world has just awoken!

Yeah, it’s silly. But this text is sure to boost his ego like nothing else. This text will make him smile, perhaps even giggle a little. Plus it’ll give him that manly confidence he needs to take on the entire day.

4. You’re the first thing I think about when I wake up. Good morning <3.

It goes without saying when you text someone the second you wake up, but this just gives your guy reassurance that he’s definitely on your mind- and ONLY him, nobody else.

5. I know every day is going to be filled with joy with you by my side.

He might not say it out loud, but he will definitely say ‘Awww’ in his head the second he reads this text. It’s sweet and something that will surely brighten his morning.

6. It may be raining outside, but all I see is sunny skies thanks to you.

The perfect text when the weather is gloomy and rainy outside. This text lets him know that no matter how dark it is outside, he will always be able to brighten your day.

7. Just the thought of you brightens up my morning.

We’re not all morning people. But if your guy has the power to make you go from sleepy to bright, alert, and happy just with the simple thought of him, it’s something you need to share. He will love getting this cute news!

8. Hope you have a perfect day today.

Wishing your guy well is an easy way to show him you really care. Definitely a text message that can be used time and time again!

9. I dreamt of you all night <3.

If he’s in your dreams, he must be special. Let him know that even when the two of you are apart, he’s still the sole man on your mind.

10. I can’t wait to see you today. I’ll be counting down the minutes!

A great text when the two of you are planning to spend some time together. This lets him know that you thought not only about him right in the morning, but thought about seeing him and your totally excited!

11. Wake up hot stuff! I miss you!

Another awesome text that boosts your mans ego instantly. A must!

12. Knock, knock sleepyhead! Time to wake up!

Feeling silly and want to make your guy laugh when he wakes up? Send him this cute text!

13. It’s only a good morning when I know I have you.

Is your man so great that he makes your entire life better? Send him this text and let him know just how important he is to you, and how much he makes you smile all day long.

14. I’m sending you this text first thing in the morning, not to say good morning but to make you smile the second you wake up.

Wanting to make someone smile is one of the best ways of showing you care. With this text, you will show him how much you care about him and want him to be happy from the moment he wakes.

15. A morning text message doesn’t just mean hello. It’s a silent message of ‘I’m thinking of you’ the second I wake up.

Does this really need an explanation? We think not.

16. If I were there, I’d wake you up with a big plate of eggs, bacon, and pancakes, plus a kiss from me!

What man doesn’t love to be cooked for? Oh, yeah. This is definitely a winning good morning text he will love.

17. Hey lazy, when are you going to get up?

If you and your man have a goofy relationships, this is the ideal text for you. It’ll make him laugh and you’ll probably get a hilarious text back.

18. I missed you all night <3.

This text makes him feel wanted and special, while also letting him know you wish you could be with him snuggling all night long.

19. I can’t wait until the day I can wake up right next to you.

This gives your guy a glimpse into how serious you take the relationship. You want to wake up with him, right? So you obviously love him and want to be with him…perhaps for life?

20. I hope your morning is as bright as your smile. 

Another great text that WILL make him smile, and WILL boost his confidence levels. You can’t go wrong with a good morning and a compliment in one sentence. It’s the perfect text that anyone would love to read on their phones!

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21. I had a good dream last night, but you’re the perfect dream come true. 

Because we’ve all had those dreams we wish would never end. But this text message tells him that even though you might’ve had an awesome dream last night, it doesn’t compare to HIM: your dream come true.

22. It doesn’t matter if I have a coffee or a tea, nothing compares to the feeling you give me. Good morning!

Who wouldn’t love to wake up to an adorable poem-ish text message like this one? Brighten up his morning with this adorable text message that could have come straight from Shakespeare’s mouth (well, not really…).

23. Good morning to the man who makes my wishes and desires come true, and brings joy and happiness to my life.

Wow. This is one of those all-in-one good morning text messages that will boost his ego, make him smile, AND let him know what a wonderful person he is and how special he is to you. Killer combination!

24. Your sweater was so comfy last night <3 How’d I ever sleep without it?

The PERFECT text message if he gave you his sweater last night (or a T-shirt, jacket, or whatever article of clothing).

25. I hate mornings. They are the loneliest part of the day when I really need your warm hugs and kisses. Ugh! Can’t wait to see you.

This will really get him excited to see you! And it will also let him know how much you LOVE his hugs and kisses, which can only lead to one thing: lots and lots of both when the two of you finally get together.

26. I think my pillow hates you because it knows I want to replace it with your shoulder. One day…

Not necessarily your typical “good morning text message”, but it still has to do a lot with sleep and waking up. Not to mention it’s totally cute and funny at the same time. Trust me, he’ll love to hear this funny little text right in the morning!

27. I was so cold this morning, but then I thought of you and I warmed right up. Good morning!

He can make you all warm and fuzzy even when you’re not together? Wow, he must be superman or something. This adorable text message is exactly what he will want to read early in the morning. I seriously can’t get over how cute this one is!

28. Were you a coffee bean in your past life? You must be, because I can’t start my mornings without you.

Oh, come on now- this one is hilarious! Send it!

29. I love seeing the sun rise every morning because it means I get to spend another wonderful day with you, my love. Good morning.

How adorable is that?

30. Good morning (insert guy’s name here). Did you sleep well? Or were you too busy dreaming about you and me? (Like I was, hehe).

An adorable question that’s cute, fun, and flirty. An excellent option that will certainly kickstart conversation.

31. Good luck on (insert whatever your man is doing here). 

Because there’s nothing like hearing “good luck” from the person you adore. This will definitely kickstart his day and give him the oomph he needs to kick butt in whatever he’s doing.

32. Wow! It’s going to be a beautiful day. Picnic by the park?

Ask your man out nice and early and plan a wonderful day together: PERFECT! If it’s raining outside, try saying something like, “Ick! So dark and dreary out today. Let’s hit up the movie theater and stay indoors tonight!”

33. How is the most handsome man on earth doing this fine morning?

Because even if he was having a bad morning, this will definitely make it better.

34. Hey sleepyhead! It’s time to wake up, drink some coffee, eat some toast, and brush your teeth so you can get a big kiss from ME!

One word: adorable.

35. WAKE UP LOVE OF MINE!!!!!!

Because YOU JUST CAN’T WAIT ANOTHER SECOND. Haha, he will love this.

36. I hope you’re awake <3 We’re supposed to be leaving soon!

The only text to use when you and your partner have special plans for the day.

37. Our love gives me the boost I need to make it through each day. Hoping your day is as wonderful and positive as possible!

Any chance to remark about how wonderful the love you two share is ALWAYS a grand idea.

38. So….what color boxers are you going to wear today?

This one is totally silly, but who doesn’t love a good laugh the moment they wake up?

39. If I was there, I’d wake you up with a shower of kisses.

Don’t be surprised if he keeps insisting you spend the night after sending him something like this!

40. We need to work on you becoming a morning person like me.

A text message reserved for the morning people who are struggling with guys who love to sleep in like, all day long. He will get a kick out of this! (But be prepared for a big fat NO!)

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