20 Good And Cute Questions To Ask A Guy You Like
When getting to know the guy you are interested it, it’s important to have strong, cute and interesting questions to ask him to help the bond between the two of you develop. Asking all the right questions will help you get to know your crush and even help you decide if he is really someone you want to take the next step with. Here are 20 good and cute questions that you can ask the guy you like:
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Question #1.) What makes you smile?
Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: Asking this to a guy you like let’s him know that you are curious as to what makes him happy. The answer will let you know how to make him smile in the future and helps you get to know him much better.
Question #2.) What’s your favorite movie?
Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: The answer to this question will help you both to discover if you have common interests when it comes to movies and the more you have in common the better!
Question #3.) If there is any place in the world that you could go, where would it be and why?
Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: This is another one of those ‘getting to know him’ type of questions. Maybe you both dream about the same places, who knows?
Question #4.) What is your favorite sport to watch/play?
Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: A lot of guys absolutely love talking about sports and this will get conversation flowing. Hopefully, you can retain some of that knowledge and maybe even get yourself invited over to watch the game! Asking this question also lets your crush know you are interested in his likes and dislikes and want to get to know him better.
Question #5.) If we were dating, how would you celebrate our first one year anniversary?
Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: Asking this benefits you in a way that the answer will tell you if he would do something you like. Answers to questions like these can help you figure out what type of romantic he is and if he cares enough to tell you!
Question #6.) What’s your family like?
Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: He’ll love the fact that you are taking the initiative to get to know the people he loves.
Question #7.) What about yourself do you find the most pride in?
Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: Whether the answer is about his looks, talents or personality, you are engaging him in conversation that implies you want to get to know him and what he takes pride in. Pride is a huge trait in most any guy and definitely something to be aware of.
Question #8.) Have you ever cried at a movie?
Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: Honestly, the answer to this question is usually a no, but if he does answer yes then maybe he has a really cute sensitive spot!
Question #9.) What’s your favorite car?
Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: This is another subject that most guys enjoy discussing. If he’s a car lover, he will adore you for asking and he will enjoy telling you all about what he likes.
Question #10.) What is your favorite food?
Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: The more and more you get to know him, the better a relationship will grow!
Question #11.) What do you notice first when you first meet a girl?
Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: This answer will also give you good insight to what kind of guy your crush is.
Question #12.) What is the craziest thing that you have ever done in your life?
Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: Not only will this give you a glimpse of his past, but it will also let you know how far this guys boundaries are and if you can keep up with them or if you want more excitement than what he is willing to do.
Question #13.) What is your favorite romantic activity?
Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: A guy has a different view on what is romantic than a girl does. So, be careful about how you take your crushes answer. If he answers, “We would play video games all day and drink Mountain Dew” and that’s not your favorite idea of romance, maybe he’s not a right fit for you. On the other hand, if he at least puts a little bit of effort in and says, “We could have a picnic at the park” or “I would take you shopping” then maybe he is a keeper after all!
Question #14.) What was the scariest moment in your life?
Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: It’s nice to get to know a guy, what he’s afraid of and why.
Question #15.) Who was your first crush?
Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: This question is just a small ice-breakers and may have him blushing or you laughing, but it is a cute question to ask.
Question #16.) Who is your biggest hero?
Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: Asking this question to the guy you are interested in will help you get to know who he looks up to and who he aspires to be like. It is just another ‘get to know him’ type of question that can really warm you up to each other.
Question #17.) Would you like to hang out with me more often?
Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: This lets your crush know you are interested in him and seeing him more often. It is even cuter if he says yes!
Question #18.) What is your definition of intimate?
Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: Asking this question and receiving its answer will give you an idea of how your crush perceives intimacy and romance. The answer can be quite heartwarming and adorable!
Question #19.) Would you cuddle with me?
Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: Oh! The cuteness! Unless he says no, of course, then it is not so cute… But, if he says yes, it is definitely an adorable question to ask.
Question #20.) What are your favorite hobbies?
Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: Maybe when he answers you will discover that you both have a lot of common interests and can even do some of those hobbies together. This will help you to get to know him much better and discover what he truly loves doing.
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Joanne Kim
September 30, 2015 at 2:54 am
So one time, this guy asked my friend for my Kik account username so he can text me. So he texted me, and after a few minutes of talk, I said an awkward thing and he didn’t reply. And another time, I texted him something (due to my friend tricking me for something) and I said “never mind, my friend was fooling with me” after I found out my friend fooled me. I’m pretty sure he read my text, but didn’t reply. I don’t know if that was a good thing or a bad thing. I’m waiting for him to text me, but I give up. Should I text first? If so, what should I text him?
web admin
September 30, 2015 at 3:27 pm
The second time you texted, he probably did not reply because he realized that it was not for him. As for the first time, he could have just been uncertain how to respond and did not want to look silly. I would go ahead and message him one more time. Just start with something basic like “How was your weekend?” or “What are you up to this weekend?”. He obviously liked you enough to get your username, so there is an excellent chance that he is still interested. If he does not respond this time though, then you will no that he no longer wants to be with you–although I doubt that two texts would have turned him off so soon. Good luck, Joanne!
megan
September 26, 2015 at 6:02 pm
i like this guy at school hes my ex ,ive been talking to him lately and he said he likes me too the first time we dated it didnt really work out bc he was rushing things my friends think we should date again but idk if i should give it a try or not
web admin
September 27, 2015 at 10:21 pm
You should only give it a try if you want to and if you think that it will work out better. Hopefully, he has learned from your last experience with dating him that he should not rush things so much. If you think that he has learned and changed, then you could go out with him. you said that you still like him, so there are obviously still feelings there that you may want to explore. It is up to you though, and you have at least a few days to make your decision because it is not like he is going to immediately lose interest. Take your time and figure out what you want to do.
Dev
September 26, 2015 at 3:42 am
So I went swing dancing with a friend a few nights ago, and she gave a guy her number. He’s a grade above us and seemed nice but he just offered to pick her up in the middle of the night so they can hang out. She declined, but I feel like this guy might just want to hook up with her. Should I say anything, or just let her handle it?
web admin
September 26, 2015 at 7:23 pm
If he is asking her to meet him in the middle of the night, she should already know that he might just be interested in hooking up. If your friend happens to be quite naive though, you can always warn her about the possibility. Meeting someone in the middle of the night for a first hang out–especially if you just met them–is never a good idea. If you are concerned about your friend, let her know about your worries.
Addie
September 25, 2015 at 4:06 am
Hey so there is this really cute boy that I like and I know he likes me aswell. We have been talking almost every night about us and he keeps saying that we should something more than friends and I agree with him but then he don’t do anything about it. Homecoming is coming up and I’m really nervous that he isn’t going to me because he might have feelings for somebody else..I really really like him but I don’t know what to do
web admin
September 26, 2015 at 6:29 pm
He told you that he likes you as well, and he talks to you every night. Right now, he may be afraid of making another move or he may be waiting for you to show some sign that you are interested in him as well. Go ahead and ask him to homecoming because it seems like he is really interested in you. If he were to say no, it would probably be for a reason like not having enough money or something unrelated to you. Ask him quickly though because people tend to find dates for homecoming fairly quickly (even if it is not the person that they want to go with), so you need to ask him soon before someone else asks him to homecoming.
Jada
September 25, 2015 at 12:21 am
Hi, I have a crush on this boy at my school, his name is Ethan, and well he is single and funny, smart, tall, beautiful brown eyes and brown hair, with adoring beauty marks. I recently got out of a messed up relationship with on and offs. I always had a thing for the bad guys. But then I met Ethan, and he has a changed to be a better person and be more open with my dad about my friendship with him(ethan). He is changing to want to be a better person all around. When im not with him I miss him. And he knows I really like him. And I sometimes feel like he is giving me mixed signals about liking me as a gf and as a friend. And today we started playing a game whike texting where we be completely honest when answering a question, and he said he dowant know if but he doesnt want to hurt me bc im an awesome person. I just dont know what to do or think. Im so lost and no one seems to help in the advice category.
web admin
September 26, 2015 at 6:22 pm
It sounds like he may just think of you as a friend, and he does not want to lead you on. This friendship could always change into a real relationship in the future, but you may have to wait for a while. For the moment, just stay friends with him and hope that he ultimately changes his mind. He may also be trying to decide if he has deeper feelings for you, so he might not view you as just a friend–you never know, so don’t lose hope quite yet!
Tammie
September 24, 2015 at 10:56 pm
I have a crush on a boy at school but I’ve known him for a while I don’t know if he likes me or he just likes being friends we’ve been friends since we were like 8 and I’m close to him and his mom. Should I tell him I like him or would that ruin my relationship with him
web admin
September 26, 2015 at 5:53 pm
Since you do not want to ruin your friendship, you could always have one of your friends ask him who he likes. You could also just ask him yourself–just make sure to emphasize before you ask him that you want to remain friends with him no matter what his answer is. We also have several articles that cover signs that he likes you or signs that your crush is interested. You could check these out to see if he does any of the signs, so you know in advance if it is likely that he has a crush on you. Good luck, Tammie!
chungy
September 14, 2015 at 4:37 am
OK so I have a crush on a boy at school and he likes me too but I loved my ex and he still wants me and I feel like I also want him but I also really like my crush and I feel like the right thing to do is to date my ex but at the same time I really want to date my crush and I don’t know what to do because I feel like if I see any of them with someone else I’ll die inside
web admin
September 14, 2015 at 3:58 pm
Hmmm….I think your answer would depend on the reason why you broke up with your ex-boyfriend. If your break up reason is still an issue, then you would not want to date him because it would still be a problem. If, on the other hand, the reason you broke up is no longer a problem, then you could go ahead and date him. Just know beforehand that your relationship with your ex-boyfriend will probably be the same as it was before, so whatever problems there were in the past will still remain. Good luck, Chungy!
Shreeya
September 11, 2015 at 7:21 pm
I hate myself coz m fat and ugly. also my luck is so bad
web admin
September 12, 2015 at 1:26 am
To start with, I doubt that your looks are that bad. Plus, personality and intelligence matter a lot. In high school, it may seem like looks are everything, but the quirky, funny and intelligent girl always ends up with more friends in college. Don’t worry, it will work out!
tayla
September 9, 2015 at 7:34 am
i have a crush on a guy and his name is Byron,his a classmate and we both like playing soccer and we are really competitive. i know his single but i am not sure weather i should ask him out or not because if i do i am worried my friend who used to date him get angry at me. What should i do?
web admin
September 9, 2015 at 5:41 pm
Before you ask him out, talk to your friend first. If you ask him out first, she will view that as a betrayal and get extremely upset. By asking her first, you can smooth the path ahead of you and make sure that it is okay with her. She may be perfectly fine with it–especially if she is no longer interested in him–, but she will not react well to discovering that you are with him after the fact.
reign
September 8, 2015 at 10:19 pm
I have a crush on this cute guy named dom and he is cute and funny and sweet. But I don’t know if he likes me he has a girlfriend but they seem very distant they are never toget her it seems and I really like him she doesn’t seem to give a crap. We text daily and he notices when I’m gone and believes in me. He’s open with me and during Ap art he looks at me and some time we catch each others eye and I blush and smile. I give him ideas and he gives me some. Do I wait it out or do I move on.
web admin
September 9, 2015 at 3:09 am
Rather than wait it out, why don’t you just ask him for his number or ask him out? Of course, you should wait until he is single. It sounds like he could have a crush on you, but you do not want to take him from his current girlfriend. If you did, it would cause a lot of drama and problems that just would not be worth it. Wait it out until they break up, and then ask him out. If you meet someone that you like more before then, then just go out with them instead.
Jade
September 4, 2015 at 1:52 pm
So I just got out of a 3 year relationship and I have been heartbroken over it he was to but after a couple of days he was fine but me on the other hand was not I loved this guy we did everything together he found him self another girl friend not even a month later so I think he cheated mom a so then I messaged an old guy friend I had like when I was with my ex and we didn’t get to talk much after church camp because of my ex but now that he gone from my life we can come to find out this guy has had a crush on me for about 3yrs now and I have to but is it to soon to start dateing again should I call it off with this guy or should I just go for it he’s taking me out again tonight and I’m supper excited
web admin
September 5, 2015 at 12:17 am
I think that it would be fine to go ahead and go on a date with him. Although it is a bit soon to get into a serious relationship, there is nothing wrong with going on a few dates and taking things slowly. As for your ex-boyfriend, there is no way to really know if he cheated or not. Like you, he could have ended up with a girlfriend who had always secretly had a crush on him–or he could have cheated. Now, there is no way to know.
Emily
August 29, 2015 at 5:13 am
so I like this one guy named Connor, and he knows that and he likes me back but here’s the thing, I REALLY like him. we usually stay up til 2am talking every night. but here’s the thing he lives 45 minutes away from me. I only know him because of a really close cheer friend. I don’t know if I should go along with This and feel terrible everyday because I won’t see him as much and we won’t talk as much since schools coming around. we really like each other but we both live so far away and I’m scared we won’t talk as much now that schools here. ps we are only 14 so neither of us can drive. PLEASE HELP ME
web admin
August 30, 2015 at 6:32 pm
There are plenty of ways for you to stay in touch–you could call each other, talk on Skype, text or instant message each other. I would not worry too much about being able to keep chatting to him, but the distance would make it difficult for you to ever see him in person. Unless you have a friend who can drive you or there is a bus that runs through your area, it would be extremely difficult for you to actually see him in person for a couple of years. I’ll keep my fingers crossed for you and hope that everything works out. Good luck, Emily!
MsKissKiss
August 25, 2015 at 10:21 pm
Hi I’ve been talking to this guy for about two months and we are dating now and we are in love with one another but about a month or so into our relationship I google searched one of his photos and it came up as a match for someone else and I confronted him about it and he said that is him in the photos he told me to take his word for it, I agreed to it but I still have doubts and I also asked him if he has a facebook account he said he doesn’t do social media, but the person in the photo has a facebook and twitter ect, CAN YOU HELP ME PLEASE DON’T KNOW WHAT TO DO, BUT I AM IN LOVE WITH HIM AND DON’T WANT TO LOSE HIM AS WELL??????
web admin
August 25, 2015 at 10:51 pm
Wait–if I understand you correctly, you are worried that he is not the person that he says that he is? Or at the very least, he created another account to be either a con artist or a lady chaser? Phew! That sounds like an intense worry. You could easily sort the first problem out by just asking to meet his friends or family members. After two months of dating, you should have met at least someone in his family or friend circle. If they call him by the name that you know and seem to support his background story, then he is who he says he is. As for a worry that he is who he says, but created a new account to con someone–I really do not know what you could do about that.
Hmmm…I guess if you were still worried, there is something that you can try. Do you have a friend or family member that he has not met? If so, you could have them try to message him or add him online. If your friend is cute, she could even try to hit him up and get more information from the online persona to see if it fits with the guy that you are currently dating. All in all, it sounds like you are in a very, very unusual situation–let me know how it works out.
Octavia
August 23, 2015 at 4:58 pm
Okay so I’ve been in contact with this guy that I go to school with.and he was really flirtatious in school but when summer came around he was really distant.it was around the last week of summer when he actually called me turns out he was dating raven my ex-bestfriend .that was fine with me but the more we talked the more and more I liked him.then yesterday he asked me to be his girlfriend and i have not heard him talk about raven.so I said yes so we’re dating now and just now he said I don’t know if this cheating but me and raven never really said we broke up and she not answering any of his phone calls he wants to brakeup with her he says but I don’t know if that’s true I’m trying to have faith in him and he said he loves me and not her I don’t know what to do
web admin
August 23, 2015 at 8:11 pm
Have you seen him try to call her? Or looked at his list of called numbers to see if she ever picked up? If you could look at his phone and see that there are not any phone calls longer than a minute, then you would be able to tell if he is being honest–and chances are, if he was honest about her not taking any of his messages, then he is probably being honest about the rest. For the moment, I would give him the benefit of the doubt. It is very likely that she knows he wants to break up with her or she wants to break up with him, so she is not taking his phone calls. If he was just trying to have an affair with you and did not want to tell her, then he would not have told you about it. Unless you discover something that makes you think he is really still dating her (and not just dating her by default because she won’t pick up the phone), then you can start to worry. For the moment, I would just trust him and assume that he is being honest–especially if his call history backs up everything that he has said. Good luck, Octavia!
Laurryn
August 18, 2015 at 8:42 pm
There’s this guy I like- he doesn’t know. We don’t go to the same school, but every now and again, my school and his school have a disco together. I’ve never spoken to him, and I have no clue whatsoever, what I should do…
web admin
August 19, 2015 at 8:54 pm
If you want to have a chance of being with him someday, you will need to start talking to him. At the next disco, say hello or ask him to dance. If things are going really well, then ask him for his number. You need to start talking to him though because your only chance at getting to know him is through the disco. Plus, you are actually rather fortunate–since he does go to a different school, you do not have to worry about seeing him all the time if he rejects you. Ask him to dance and go for it! You’ll never be able to start living your dreams unless you take a few risks. Good luck, Laurryn!
sofi
August 4, 2015 at 5:20 am
I am txtn to this guy i met at the club his open with me just i am the type that hardly has things to talk about and when i respond i say small words idk how to start a conversation
web admin
August 4, 2015 at 7:36 pm
You can use some of the questions on this list to get started. We also have lists of flirty quotes and good morning texts that could help. Check those articles out and let me know if you need anything else.
abbi
August 2, 2015 at 6:57 am
So I like this guy and I think he likes me, we’ve been on a few dates and last time we hung out he kissed me and said he had been wanting to for a long time but now he hasn’t been his same flirty self when we text and he hasn’t asked to hang out again… does he still like me? ?
web admin
August 3, 2015 at 1:13 am
It could be a number of things. He could be busy, or he might not realize that his texts no longer sound as flirtatious. He could have found someone else, or he could have realized after your date that you guys are not compatible as he thought. Since he has liked you for a long time, I would imagine that it would be one of the first two options. The only way to really know is to continue texting and dating him and see how things play out for you. Good luck, Abbi!
Misty
August 1, 2015 at 5:14 am
I have this huge crush on a guy named Aj he doesn’t know that i like him or at least i don’t think he knows! I love him we’ve dated befire but things got rough. we’ve been best friends forever and when i’m not with him i miss him. he acts like he likes me but the worst part is that he has a girlfriend and im not going to tell him i like him but its hard, i just cant get rid of my feelings for him!!!!!
web admin
August 1, 2015 at 8:24 pm
It is really hard to be around someone you like when they have a girlfriend. Kudos on being strong enough to hide your feelings–it is always a good idea to respect other people’s relationships. For the moment, it looks like you will just have to wait for him to break up with the girlfriend before you can try to make a move. Good luck, Misty!
Jessica
July 27, 2015 at 10:58 am
I have been texting this boy from California and I don’t know if he likes me or not but he calls me Bae ? And I like him
web admin
July 28, 2015 at 5:56 am
How far away does he live from you? At any rate, using a pet name is a sign that someone is interested. For you to really know if he is interested or not, he would have to do something else. You could also try talking to him in person to get a better idea about how he feels.
Zoya
July 26, 2015 at 1:30 pm
Okay..I like a guy and he is my classmate ! He hates me from the day I proposed him! I don’t know why?he don’t like to talk to me if its school or on social media..! I don’t know what should I do .. He used to play with me talk to me he do water fights with me but now he doesn’t even say a simple hello.
What should I do?
web admin
July 28, 2015 at 5:01 am
He probably does not want to lead you on, and does not know how to be friends with you without leading you on. Unfortunately, there is not too much that you can do right now. Perhaps you will be able to be friends with him again in the future. For now, it looks like you will just have to be patient and wait it out.